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He couldn't stop staring at her...
I was at a bar with my bf the other day. Suddenly in walks in this Britney Spears look-a-like wearing a really low cut top with her tattoo showing on her boobs. She sits on our table with her friends (we were on one of those really, really long tables with a bunch joined together) As soon as she sat down, my bf started staring at her. I ignored it at first, I mean, she was striking and you would notice her. But then 10-15 minutes later he was still staring at her, and when I looked at the girl she gave me an uncomfortable look and then said something to her friends who looked our way and looked angrily at us. Then some guy said "Quit it, mate." I've never been so embarassed in my entire life. I asked him why he was staring at her and he said she looks like one of the Suicide Girls (it's a goth/punk erotica site) and he recognised her by her tattoo. I got up and walked out of the bar, because I felt really uncomfortable (as did the girl, I could tell)
We've fought since then. He said he is sorry and feels like a pervert for objectifying a woman like that AND for staring at another girl when with me. I'm not unreasonable in that I get mad when he looks at other girls, but he went WAY too far. Right now we're kinda on the verge of breaking up. I can't believe he would do this. Should I take him back and give him another chance? I'm so hurt and angry and feel like I'm not good enough for him. Some people say I'm being too harsh, am I? I can't believe he'd do this to me.
thanks - 19/f
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To be quite honest, if a girl feels uncomfortable being stared at, then she shouldn't wear low cut tops. That's her problem, not yours.
He is a guy, and guys stare. That is nature. However, ogling another woman like that right in font of you was quite rude of him.
What you honestly need to do is sit yourself down, think long and hard coming up with an answer to this one question: Is this REALLY worth fighting over?
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so he definately was out of line. but I definately don't think that you should end things with him. But think about it, lets say that your favorite hot celebrity guy walks into the club/bar you are at, wouldn't you stare? you should talk to him, and make sure he knows that it upsets you. tell him you understand that sometimes it is human nature to look at an attractive female/male, but in the future try harder not to stare so much. Tell him to remember that he has you, and that you are an amazing gf.
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