|
loveglue
Hi, so i'm a bit stuck. I lost my virginity a few weeks before I was 16 (which i'm quite proud of considering the reputation of my school and friends). I was at sgegness and I met a boy through a friend I have there. We clicked straight away it wasn't love at first sight or anything. I had only known him a few days and we weren't technically together but I had sex with him anyway. The next day he asked me out although we knew we lived too far apart and I didn't want anything serious. But I said yes and we had sex again that night because it was my last night. I left and we kept in touch but we lost contact. I definately don't regret it. But I never loved him and everyone says that your supposed to love the person you lose your v to. Am I wierd for not loving him? will rate all answers :)
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
I didnt love the person i lost my virginity too.. i just had a little to much to drink.
its normal dont feel bad about it.
]
-
]
This is not weird... It's actually very common. I will admit that I didn't love the boy I lost my virginity to. It's hard to control yourself in the heat of the moment. You just get so wrapped up in the sexual tension. It's good that you don't regret it, because regret does no good. Like I said, it's not weird that you didn't love him. On the other hand, that doesn't mean you should have sex with a lot of people. Always remember to use protection and make sure you trust them.
-16/f
]
you are not wierd for not loving him. there is the sterotype that if guys sleep with a girl they just met that they are a "pimp" and if a girl does the same she is a slut. that is complete crap. you should do whatever makes you happy. and it is good that you don't regret. just make sure that since now you are having sex to use a condom. but don't let anyone make you feel wierd about enjoying sex, it is your perogitive.
]
More Questions: |