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okay so ever since i was little i would get cold sores, herpes simplex 1. i learned in class that 80% of people get them. But, i was just wondering, if i were to perform oral sex (when i did not have an outbreak) could i still give it to the guy on his genitals? (link)
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Although the virus is most contagious when a sore is present, it can still be passed on even if you can't see a sore. HSV-1 can also be spread by sharing a cup or eating utensils with someone who has it.
In addition, if you or your partner gets cold sores on the mouth, the herpes simplex virus-1 can be transmitted during oral sex and cause herpes in the genital area.
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I was having sex the othernight when the condom broke outside, because i didn't feel it pop or anything..should I go get the pill and if i do what are the side effects of taking it when not needed? (link)
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Go to a planned parenthood in your area. Its completely confidental. No parents need to know. You have to get the morning after pill at least up to 5 days after you had unprotected sex and you should be okay..however it is just 75% effective. I would suggest using condoms and birthcontrol. Birth control is 99% effective and condoms are 97% effective. This way you can feel more secure if it breaks again. I got birthcontrol, which is $20 a month in my local area and my mom doesnt know anything about it. I have it delivered to my boyfriends house every month and I feel more secure about being protected.
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Hey guys! my boyfriend was talking about the bases today and what r they....i alway thought 1st french 2nd feel 3rd sex.... but then i got to thinking, where does oral go and stuff idk, can someone please give me the detailed list. much love, rates high (link)
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-- First Base--
This was almost always kissing, although one guy I knew thought it
meant holding hands. Sometimes it was tongue kissing and sometimes
not.
--Second Base--
Variously this meant tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the
clothes genital contact.
--Third Base--
Usually this was a hand down the pants of you or your partner.
--Home Run--
This was ALWAYS sex, although it was rarely reached in the times
when you had to refer to it in terms of bases.
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my friend is 13 and she had sex with a sixteen year old and she got pregnant because her cheap boyfriend couldn't spare the extra 3 dollars to buy the good condoms and it ripped, so now she's all excited about having a baby and i told its nothing to be excited about and i told her that when your that young and have a baby that its not very safe and you could die is it true?
and by the way i love my friend to death and i have know clue what to say to her about the whole thing and she's mad that everyone is calling her a slut which she is! (link)
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She doesn't even sound like she is ready to have a baby. That kid is going to have one immature mother. Let her know that her boyfriend probably wont even support the baby since he's only 16. And let her know that she needs to think about renewing her life, starting over on a clean slate. Refreshing her reputation by thinking over her mistakes, accepting what she did, realizing it was wrong and absolutly NOTHING to be proud of, and she should respect herself and her body. She should make some resolutions for herself and stay true to them. She needs to know her priorities and ask herself what she values most in life. Like, she should live with the consequence of her mistake and have this baby, but she'll have to deal with the aftermath. The baby's father supporting, her family im sure are not happy with her. She needs to for example become a better person by choosing not to make the same mistake again and choose to abstain from sex at this age. She'll have to change, and she'll have to change for herself. Once she is a different person, other people will get to know her and see her in a new light.
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Last night my boyfriend fingered me. I really uncomfortable with it at first, but I just thought what the heck and was okay with it. At first he only did one finger, then he tried two. When it was only one finger it was alright, pleasurable in some ways, but when he got two fingers in it becaome quite uncomfortable. It hurt a whole lot. I started wincing and became all tense. I think that he got the wrong impression and though I was liking it, but I wasn't it hurt terribly. I don't know what to do because I know he'll try two fingers again next time. It's not supposed to be comfortable like that, is it? Why was it go painful? (link)
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Whenever its painful just go out and tell him say "stop..that hurts" guys understand that especially with virgins. Same thing has happend with me, my bf at the time had thought that i was wincing cause i liked it and he went further, so i had to grab his hand and move it away, thats when he asked "whats wrong" and i told him not to put that many in because it hurt, you have to let them know how far the limits are or else it wont be pleasureable and he wont have very much confidence after
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Okay, I'm on birthcontrol. But, when you're on bc do you have to use a condom? And can he cum inside you and you still be safe? I"LL RATE 5's!!! (link)
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If your concerns are about being safe, i would suggest use a condom and be on birth control. I know that is the only way i would want to have sex, and even then i could still get pregnant..nothing is 100% unfortunately
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what are some ways to foreplay with you guy other than hand jobs or blow jobs (link)
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Sometimes the smallest things can be great keys to foreplay, like leaving hickies on the neck or chest, biting is a usual aggressive act that most guys get super turned on by
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what are some good sex positions?? (link)
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be creative...this is normally an uncomfortable question to ask people, but it's pretty much self explainatory..watch a porno of something sometime and get some ideas
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what are some good moves to do on your guy when your on top??? (link)
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tie both his arms to the bed posts and blindfold him while you ride ontop
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what are good ways to start foreplay???....and what to do once its been started...a lot of hints plz and directions if you can...need help quick...easy 5 (link)
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watch tv
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I'm 16/f and i recently found out that im pregnant by my bf whos 17. I know i cant tell my mom anything until im sure what i'm going to do. I really want to tell my bf, but he would probably freak. and yes i was taking birth control. but should i tell my bf who would most likely insist that i keep it, or just go get an abortion n not ever mention it to him. or u can add ur own options (link)
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Part of life is living with your own mistakes, u got pregnant, so theres one, but you'll be making another mistake if you abort it. You should tell your boyfriend and your parents, yes they will be mad, but they will get over it and support you because this is a time when you need people to be there for you. He most likely will freak out, but he should deal with the consequences of having sex, especially at this young of an age.
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is it like.. unhealthy to not have sex for your entire life,
i want kids, and i want alot, but i want to adopt. its not a spiritual thing..i just.. am weirded out by the idea of sex...
please help..
i rate high on good advice (link)
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sex is a great theraputical thing to do that relaxes you and is an awesome workout also...some people love it and some people dont...if you get curious..please be safe...i know you want babies..i know you want alot..but babies come from sex..no sex,no babies..but you want to adopt..so i guess you can be a lifetime virgin so no worries! have someone do the work for ya and then you can take their babies
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sorry if this is kinda gross but when you have a tampon in when you go to the bathroom do you hold the string or let it hang?
once again sorry if that's kinda gross (link)
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well...this should be in the health section where all the gross questions usually are found..but most girls i guess just pee and dont touch it, watever you do...please wash your hands
rate me high :)
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me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex last night he pulled out and came.. but he had it all over the head of it and didnt wipe it off. could i have got pregnant from this? or does semen die outside the body??? (link)
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It does not die outside of the body..since you say this is last night, i suggest you get the morning after pill as soon as possible theres a very high chance that you could get pregnant from this. Unprotected sex is never good, even if you pull out, you can still get pregnant because it still cums a little before he fully does. So I suggest that you go to Planned Parenthood or another Teen Clinic Organization to get a morning afterpill. As far as I know they cost around 40 dollars and if you go to a teen pregnancy center it is confidential so your parents don't have to find out. I seriously suggest you also consider getting birth control from there as well and also stocking up on condoms... they will give them for free or sell them for 25 cents
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okay so i like this kid named mike...and i dont even know what i like about him but i just do...so anyways i can not tell if he likes me or not..you know how boys never share there feelings and stuff..okay so he doesnt do that...anwyas he knows i like him and my friend asked him out for me...and he so no...and so he kinda of flirts with me online and stuff and lately it seems he alwaYS wants to know things and talk to me and stuff usually online we would have boring convos now he asks me a lot of questions and stuff..but i cant tell if he just wants to get to know me more or if he lieks me or not..what should i do...
p.s he HATES when i ask him who he likes! (link)
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hmmm....i think its a tad obvious what the answer is...usually when a guy says no that means ur rejected..go find someone you know you'll have a chance with and dont turn into some clingy desprete stalker
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im a 13/m
and i have a lot of pubic hair. is it normal to shave it? (link)
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yea it is normal..its also sumthing girls perfer because noone likes a bush
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(16/f) ok so this guy caught me playing with my breasts and other places in the washroom at school and now hes threatening to tell everyone unless i go out with him and let him fuck me whenever he wants. what should i do? (link)
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i dont even want to waste my breath on it
i agree completely with Mackenzie
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my g/f wants me to feel her up and i dont no how to do that so can someone please help me i will rate 5 please help (link)
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is this a joke? lol..well um..good luck with this relationship cuz i dont think a grl will stay with a guy that cant please her and doesnt know wat hes doing
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whats a hymen? and can girls really b born woithout a vagina? oh yeah, thanx 4 the advice it really helped (link)
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A hymen is a part of the vulva, the external genital organs. Many people are under the impression that the hymen is located within the vagina. It is not. It's located outside the vagina. It's a layer of tissue, just like the tissue around the opening of your vagina. You may or may not have one, most females do. And yes, girls can really be born without a vagina or uterus and don't get periods becuz of it. When pple say "popped the cherry" thery are referring to the hymen, becuz when the thin tissue is broken through, it causes minor bleeding, not like a period, becuz the tissue's being torn by either a tampon, or if you are having sex.
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i havnt started my period yet and i'm a very short 13 year old so how do i know that i didnt stop growing? (link)
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Some girls get their period at a late age, especially if they have lost weight or have developed an eating disorder. It is unlikely that you have stopped growing at age 13. It is normal to get your period as early as 9 years old and as late as 16 years old. This is a big time range and it is hard to be one of the first or one of the last. Girls who are active in sports or very thin may not develop until a later age. Losing weight while you are in your growth spurt can also delay your periods.If you haven't gotten your period by the time you are 15 or if you started your breast development more than three years ago and haven't gotten your menstrual period, get a check-up with your health care provider just to make sure everything is okay. Your health care provider sees many girls who develop late, so don't be embarrassed to ask. He/She may do a genital exam and check to see if your hymen is open. Some girls are born with an "imperforate hymen," which means that your hymen does not have an opening so that blood cannot leave the vagina. Some girls are also born without a vagina or uterus and do not have a period for this reason. It's a good idea to get regular check-ups during puberty just to make sure that everything is okay.
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