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im 15/f.
And i had sex maybe 3-4 days after my period. It was not protected, and he came in me. He didnt pull out fast, but, he did pull out. I have been feeling sick. Its been a week today since we had sex. And i cant take an acurate pregnancy test tell the 23rd. Is there a good chance im pregnant?
thanks in advance.

you don't always get pregnant when the guy cums inside of you..if that was the case there would be more children running around then flies in the summer time..if you want to be safe i checked it out on Google and i found that it was pretty accurate. i typed in Ovulation Calculator and it tells you what to do..some people say it's B*ll but me and a few other people found it pretty accurate for us..

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honestly, if a guys feeling you up, what would he think if your boobs are two different sizes. for me, ones like a small A and the other is a B . i know he should only care about your personality blahblahblah but i was just wondering the real truth about whether hell be freaked out or not, thanks!

Don't worry half the time they don't notice. (Even implants aren't always even).. Oh. When I was younger my boobs were uneven and to me it seemed very noticeable but it really wasn't. sometimes they get to a point where they feel they are evened out but their not and it doesn't look/feel as bad .. you're normal..lol

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I have been kinda stressed out from high school. I have been having some problem getting a boyfriend. So i have had to relate to other things, to fullfill my sexual needs. Late at night in my room, my dog likes to cuddle with me. So when i feel the sexual needs I practice the sexual acts with my dog. I know it`s disgusting but we do it almost everynight, I can`t help it. I am embarrased about it, but I feel like my dog also enjoys it. What should I do?

First of all you need to end things with the puppy..

If you feel that need to do sexual things masturbate it's healthier for you. You need to get out and socialize with other People. I am not sure your age so if you are of age go out to parties with friends or go to a club or something. If you are not of age but your parents still let you go to parties then do so. Find someone to communicate with and you will feel with time that things will be a lot easier to manage.

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Yea umm i was wondering what is Cum because my friends at school be mean to people and say you like sucking your friends balls and then they say and you like the taste of Cum so i was wodering what it is

depending on the age: chances are your friends probably dont even know what cum is..they heard it though it was 'cool' or osmething and started saying it..they think it makes them sound grown up but it doesn't...

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Soo my friendd is on birth control && she keeps tellingg me I shouldd get it too. Yes, I am sexuallyy active so I thinkk it wouldd be goodd forr me, but the onlyy problem is how cann I get birthh control withoutt my parents knowingg? Theyy wouldd FREAK !

A lot of women find that birth control helps their periods.. "Mom, Dad.. A few of my friends have been on birth control now and they are telling me it's really controlling their period and I was wondering if I could do the see try it out?" .. just remember there are a lot of side effects to it and its cheaper if you have an insurance plan..(depending on where you live i suppose)

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I lost my virginity on Valentines day, Febuary 14th.

And I was suppsoe to start my period today, March 1st, and I didn't.

But my friends say that llosing your virginity messes with your hormones, and irregulates your period.

And also from stressing a lot too.

Is this true?

some people say it does but having sex doesn't mess with your period like that. being stressed out does mess your your cycle esp. if you are stressing over being pregnant. if this keeps happening contact your doctor and explain to him/her what is happening. he/she might ask you to come in for a pregnancy test.

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okay so i'm a 16 YO girl and i masturbate haha. i like doing it, it feels great and i orgasm every time i do but i feel like i'm the only girl that does it... i mean i always read that girls do it a lot to but i feel like if i told my friends they'd be totally grossed out.
so my question is, do guys know girls masturbate? like if i was with a guy and i told him i masturbate would he be grossed out or think i'm weird or desperate or something? anywayss let me know what you think. thanks!

No need to feel alone. Everyone is actually doing it. It's healthy for your. If your friends seemed grossed out then they may be a little shy about the conversation. Guy love that a girl does that some say "oh that's hot". Guy who don't are usually not in to girls. just remember it's safer then sex.

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I think I may be 2 weeks pregnant. I've got urges to pee often, and now that it is the second week, my breasts have become a little sensitive. Are these symptoms? Can I take a home pregnancy test to confirm? Or to the hospital for a blood test? I will be going with a friend, so will the Doctor NOT expose the news in front of my friend too?

Thank you.

The baby doesn't start to push on the bladder until later in the pregnancy. A lot of people tend to get worried when they think they are pregnant and the symptoms seem to come early but it's just the mind playing tricks. you can take a home pregnancy test or you can go to the doctor they usually give blood test that shows more then urine. if you want your friends to know about this they can go in the room with you when the results come back or you may feel more comfortable going alone. Good luck!

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Hi, im 14/f and my boyfriends 15. I'm an August baby, and all of my friends are september - even though we're in the same year at school, their almost a year older than me. In septmeber, when they turn 16, they'll be starting to have sex with their boyfriends. Even though i've been with my boyfriend for just as long as them (coming up 9 months)i wont be having sex until august 2011 - im not sure it's worth waiting that long.

We both love each other, and i'm not on about having sex now, maybe may next year? but i wanna know why its such a big deal to be over 16?!? should i wait - obviously i only would have sex if im ready. can i get some opinions?

Bearing in mind he'll be 17 next year. Thanks x

1. You're the one that is older because you were born in August. That makes your friends a month younger then you not a year older. Next year your boyfriend will be 16 because he is fifteen this year.

2. It does matter how long you've been with your boyfriend when it comes to sex but if you are not ready then don't do it. Just because you turn Sweet 16 doesn't mean you have to jump the gun and have sex. If you don't feel ready then don't do it because you may end up regretting it later even if it feels right now sometimes later down the road you may feel it wasn't such a good idea. And as for your friends they may say they are having sex but are they really? sometimes people say to feel more "Mature" or to "Fit in". Don't let age decide when you're ready to have sex. You decide.

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My boyfriend and I were talking about sex the other day. We both want to wait until we have a stronger relationship (we've only been dating a few weeks) and I'm glad we both agreed on that. He said he was interested in seeing my vagina though. He said that there wasn't anything bad about me showing him myself down there but I'm not sure if that's ok?
He told me he'd show me his penis if I wanted to see it and I kind of do want to see it. Obviously we haven't even touched each other sexually yet but I'm kind of thinking that we'll end up doing something if we get naked lol But I don't want to have sex yet...but I do want to make him happy and I am kind of curious about what his penis looks like (but what if it makes me horny or something and we end up having sex?!).

So, I sort-of want to show him but I'm scared. What do you all think? Should I show him my vagina or should I tell him that it's too early in the relationship and I'm too uncomfortable with it? :\ I really want to make the right move here...please help...

it's too early in the relationship to have sex. if you have to ask then it's not a good idea it shows you are not ready. what for a while until you get to know each other better. there's more to a person that meets the guy it just takes more then friendship to see it. best thing to do is wait and you know what if he dumps you because you say no he wasn't good to begin with and no guy/girl is worth hurting yourself and doing things you may regret later.

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is it true that the less often you wear underwear the better your "down there" smells? cause underwear like doesn't let it breathe or something?

i have also heard that it depends on what you eat as well. (both men and women).

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i'm 20 years.i'm from egypt..I've no life....i'm beautiful .but i can't make a relationship with any guy...someone i love now and he love me too ,but i don't know why i go back when he get close my heart...i don't know why i did this...i want him sooooooooooo much i love him .....i can't tell him that i love him ,but he felt that and want to be sure...i don't know how make him sure without telling him 'i love you'????
if i can't conect with him i will commet suicide.. because i really love him..

If he loves you too then why can't you tell him you love him?

Maybe you need to open up more and find out who you are and then you may beable to make a relationship work. You have to find who you are before you can move on.

good luck. i hope i helped a little

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Is there an age limit to purchase condoms.

I don't think so. If there was I am sure they would have it over the counter and ask for ID. As far as I know I don't think there is an age limit.

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i think this a category fo this subject if its not sorry. i lkie men i can only see me doing with a man, i only had curshes on men and i am a women nd i never done it yet. anyways one time i want 2 kiss a female beacuse her lips was close, nd i never kissed someone before so wanted to know how it would feel. and everytime a female would walk by i would look at her butt, but i always say i wnt my butt that big. But the werid thing is i always blurt out a nasty comment about a female who walk by me like she is sexy or i would do her something like that then i relize what i said i would have a debate in side my head saying that you shouldnt say that ect. i can never pic. me rubbing my body on something i have that is just wrong. i would always say why have a female have a strap if i can have something real also i think licking on another female is just nasty, i dont want something that i have. also if i feel that way why do i make those comments? so please someone help me i am so confused. oh i am 18

am 18 too :) um..ya! haha .. you are young and curious. even though you don\'t want to be curious about those things it just happens. you may know what sexual orientation is but you may still be a bit confused. i know you may not want to do this but experimenting is good. this helps you clear up the things that have been bothering you. i have a story if it makes you feel better..
i have two friends..one raped and one molested. they were scared of men and thought maybe because of that they did not want to be with men. they were confused.scared. they were best friends and so they experimented on eachother. as time went on they knew what that they wereactaully into men but because of what happened to them they decided to see what was the best for them.
i am not saying that you should go out and you have to find a woman and do things with her. i will let you decide what is best for you. and as for the rude comments.. haha all girls do it.. it\'s normal haha sometimes i catch myself saying well jeez..her teeth are so ugly but haha we all have a little insecurity inside of us. just because you check out another girl doesn\'t make you a lesbian or bisexual even guys do it. they want to see if they can change themselves or see if they have more abs then them haha. girls the same thing..some check them out to compare breast sizes, ass, lips, hair. you\'re normal :).. what do you think is the best thing for you to do to set yourself clear headed?

i don\'t know if i helped you any but i hope i did. i am trying. it\'s started to get harder to answer questions because i really want to give the right answer. :) good luck hun!

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I sleep around

that's a question that speaks for itself...

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19-female. I think I made a mistake and I honestly don't know how I can fix it. So i'm going to say first off - don't tell me not to do anything, etc. I am 19 years old, I do make good decisions but I just need advice on one thing! So please just answer the question without the preaching. :) I'll return the favor since it may be long ..Thanks!!

So i've had a crush on my friend for about 3 years now. He's honestly the only guy that I can trust. Me and him, we're both attractive to each other, its apparent and we have messed around before if you want to call it that, he's felt me up before .. we flirt nonstop like physically we just have fun with each other but about two years ago is when he first tried really getting with me, like going down my pants and I was like woooaah, it just caught me off guard and so I didn't let him because that was just my first instinct. Me and him basically talk about sex all the time, well when we text it occasionally gets thrown in there somehow! and he's the one who usually brings it up but I feel like he only thinks i'm a tease but i'm not. I was talking to my friend about it and I was like seriously, I NEED him like sexually .. I want to have sex with him and I know he would do it with me but I don't know how to bring it up. She was like... just text him and say FU*K ME!! But I just can't see myself doing that?? And I don't know if he would take me seriously either, because he doesn't think i'd go through with it but I WOULD. What should I do?? How would you go about it? What can I text him saying that would be hot/sexy and make it known that I really do want him?? I can't stop thinking about it..

no..no..don't text...face to face is better that way he knows how serious you are about it and he can hear that in your voice. a text message can throw him off.. Ask him to hang out at your place..or his one night and tell him you have something very important you need to talk about. You and him seem to be very close so things should be at ease a little more. Maybe he is in the same situation as you ;) .. Let me know if I helped any. K :)|Good Luck!

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Hi i am 18 years old and my boyfriend and I want to have sex but I am afraid that we might get caught by both of our parents where is the best place to have sex without getting caught

Motel/Hotel

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Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We love each other very much and we've been talking about giving oral to each other, I know it should be based on if we're comfortable with each other but I just want to know what other people think, am I too young? thank you for you're time, your response really means a lot to me.

Why should it matter on what other people think. If we had to base our life on other peoples opinions we'd really have no life at all. Right? If you and your boyfriend want to have oral then go for it. Who is it to decide if you are too young or too old to be intament with your partner. If you two have been talking about it then thats good it's not like you met the guy one night and did things that you will later regret.. Theres people going to tell you that you are too young and people telling you to go ahead and do it..it's going to make you confused hehe so just go and do what ever your hearts desire! hope i helped..somewhat anyways..good luck!

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I have been called a hoe and a prostitute because my two sisters been having sex since 13. I'm thinking about just having sex to get back at them. I'm still a virgin tho but I'm ready to get back at them and I feel that's the only way..

Okay..You're suppose to be the hoe and prostitute because your sisters are having sex? that's not nice. I don't see how a virgin can be a hoe or prostitute. You don't have sex for money! You don't go sleeping around with every guy you see. Having sex at a young age or just having it when you are not ready is not good most people do it to follow so they can be 'cool' because everyone else is doing 'it' but guess what.. they're not! Don't get back at them by having sex because you are stooping to their level and you may regret it. also weather or not you use any type of birth control you can still end up being pregnant or getting an STD. The only way to get back at them is..not to have sex.. don't let the pressure win you over. good luck and i hope you think of the right thing. do what your heart tells you dont do what the voices around you are telling you todo!

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Today on the bus some girl said there wa a difference between a blowjob and giving head so i said i was going to google it and see and google brought me to this website.

k, there isn't a difference. You use your mouth and it's just two different ways of saying it. that pretty much sums it up lol.. who ever said that doesn't know much about it and wanted to sound smart.. :s

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