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Am I too young?
Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We love each other very much and we've been talking about giving oral to each other, I know it should be based on if we're comfortable with each other but I just want to know what other people think, am I too young? thank you for you're time, your response really means a lot to me.
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This is NOT me telling you TO do it, but I was fifteen when I first did anything, so it's really not all about age. I think you should do it when you're ready. As long as you've been in a committed relationship for 6 months I'm sure that you can easily decide what is right for you. You are the only person who can protect your body, so just make sure you're safe and won't end up hurt in the end.
I, personally, do not regret my choices. I do, however regret the guys I did those things with. As long as you love him, make the choice for yourself. You're almost 18 years old, a legal adult. You're definitely old enough to make your own decisions, just make sure you make the right one. I hope everything works out :).
Good luck <3
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Its more if you feel like your ready. I am not a good person to answer this question since I was a teen mother. now im adult with a child but same thing. Any who saving sex until marriage is a great idea. its more romantic and I wish i could of have that experience with my husband.
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Why should it matter on what other people think. If we had to base our life on other peoples opinions we'd really have no life at all. Right? If you and your boyfriend want to have oral then go for it. Who is it to decide if you are too young or too old to be intament with your partner. If you two have been talking about it then thats good it's not like you met the guy one night and did things that you will later regret.. Theres people going to tell you that you are too young and people telling you to go ahead and do it..it's going to make you confused hehe so just go and do what ever your hearts desire! hope i helped..somewhat anyways..good luck!
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i agree with the advice given below me, but i just thought id add my two cents in :]
.. 6 months may not seem like a long time, but its 1/2 a year and if you love eachother and you trust eachother, those are good indicators that you're both ready to take it to the next level. and even if he is ready, it doesnt mean that you HAVE to be. [or vice versa] this is a mutual decision, which means whether or not YOU want to do it is just as important as if he wants to do it. yuh know ?
and its good that youre talking to eachother about this, but you should talk more about if you both think you should wait longer. see what his thoughts are on that :] communication is key !
but in my opinion, youre 17.. youve waited a good amount of time, and if it doesnt go against any of your morals or wreck your comfort zone, the go for it. but you have to really think for yourself right now.. do YOU think that youre too young ? because it doesnt matter what we say on here, its what you believe. and what i care about is whats in YOUR mind, because youre going to be the one going through with this.
but, i have major respect for you that you even waited this long, most people dont. so good for you :] but no one will think anything less of you if you did give eachother oral at this age. i dont think its too young.. given your circumstances too. youre committed to eachother, and you love eachother.. youre just taking it to the next step. but never feel pressured into doing it.. if that was ever the case, id say no, dont do it. bu since its not.. i dont see anything wrong with it. :]
good luck ! and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] and remember, this is YOUR choice, and its a very personal choice. but youll be fine :] be safe. xxo.
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I'm not going to tell you that you're too young, and I'm not going to judge you. I'm simply going to give you my insight, because I'm 17 and I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now, so I know exactly how you're feeling.
If you know that you love your boyfriend and you know that BOTH (not just one of you, it has to be mutual) are ready, then I think you should talk about it together and then try it if you decide it's the best decision.
Talk to your boyfriend about it, and see what he has to say. It helps a lot to talk to him about things openly, even if it is a little embarrassing. But I can guarantee you that he will appreciate you for talking to him about it and valuing his views on the subject. My boyfriend has told me that one of the things he likes best about our relationship is that we can talk openly about things like that. After talking to him, make a decision together.
Personally, I wouldn't say that you're too young, because if you're comfortable enough with him and he's comfortable enough with you, then you should do things when they feel right to you. And the fact that you didn't rush into it after dating for like, a week, is a really good indicator that you guys have a pretty solid relationship, which also is a really good thing.
I hope this helps, and if you want to talk more, send me an inbox :)
-Laura (17-f)
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