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Question Posted Sunday January 31 2010, 7:45 pm

so my boyfriend and i were laying down and i was laying ontop of him, and we were making out and we both had jeans on.. i had underwear on too (so i was fully clothed and so was he) i think he cummed, and there was a wet spot on his pants, it was little i think. but the very next day, i had my period.. could i be AT ALL anyway pregnant????! (im not going to a doctor or getting a pregnancy test or the morning after pill.) im just kind of freaking out since im literally a really good girl. pregnancy can NOT be an option.
thank you in advance!!

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Peeps answered Wednesday February 17 2010, 3:34 am:
SPERM DOES NOT DIE WHEN IT HITS AIR! OXYGEN (AIR) DOES NOT KILL SPERM!

Sperm can swim through fabric (clothes) as long as there is moisture. If he made your vagina area moist enough to moisten your clothes then you could have gotten pregnant.

Women do not get pregnant the same day of intercourse, believe it or not. After you have sexual interaction the woman actually does not instantly become pregnant--it can take days before the sperm find and fertilize the egg and then another 6 - 10 days for the egg to actually attach to her uterine wall. Sperm can live in her body for a long time--they've even been some found alive in a woman 2 weeks after being ejaculated inside of her!

This being said, it could take WEEKS to actually become pregnant after one sexual encounter. Kind of scary, isn't it?

So, even though you started your period the day after engaging in RISKY behavior does not make you in the clear. You very well could have become pregnant, though the risk is probably lowered since the ejaculate was not directly in your vagina.

If "pregnancy can NOT be an option" then do something about it! Stop doing these stupid things that lead to pregnancy then or pick up something to help prevent it at least! Use your brain! You're scared your pregnant because deep down inside you KNOW it was risky. You don't need us to tell you that you MIGHT be pregnant because you KNOW it was possible. Please, use your senses and pick up some condoms at the very least if you're going to continue this!

I'm so worried about today's youth. Please, use your brain. Don't believe the nonsense about sperm dying instantly in air. It's common sense that it doesn't. Don't believe that sperm cannot swim through fabric--hello! If it's moist, they can! Many, MANY women get pregnant while on their period so it isn't like it's impossible! Please, be smart next time. Have him slide on a condom before dry humping. It might sound a little silly but giving birth in 9 months isn't going to make life any happier, is it?

I hope you found you're not pregnant. If in doubt, do purchase a home pregnancy test.

And, no, I'm not trying to belittle you. I'm worried about you. I don't want you to ruin your life because of something like this. Just, please...use your head so you don't end up in a sticky situation.

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snkrocks answered Tuesday February 2 2010, 12:33 pm:
lol , sweeetie sweetie sweetie (:
there is no way you could be .
once sperm hits the air , it's dead .
he has to be inside of you for it to be that cause ,
and having your period means your NOT pregnant .
don't fret .

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jeanine278972 answered Monday February 1 2010, 7:20 pm:
There is no way you are pregnant. You have nothing to fret about. As long as you had on clothing then there is no way for the sperm to impregnate you.

Just remember, the only way to get pregnant is for the sperm to fertilize the egg. In order for that to happen, he has to come inside you. I guess its possible for you to get pregnant if he cums on you (near your area), but its not that likely.

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lacexface answered Monday February 1 2010, 6:55 pm:
I am 1000000000% sure there is NO chance you are pregnant. Sperm can't travel through clothing. As long as you had clothes on you're fine.

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