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what are the possible things i can expect to happen the first time i have sex, as far as physical feelings and emotional ? i mostly want to know how it will feel physically. or the things i can do so it will feel better. (link)
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Don't jump right to it, give some time to think about if you're ready or not. Having sex is a whole new playing field, the risks of stds are high right now and pregnancy is a high risk too, babies are being borne more so now than ever before. As far as emotional feelings, if you were truly ready to have sex, you'll feel endorphins of love, you'll feel overly attached to that person in ways you never did before, if you're not truly ready. You're mind wont let you forget the decision you made. The decision can haunt you for what seems like an eternity. If you're a girl, there is nothing you can do to make it feel better it's going to hurt. you'll probably bleed alot as your "cherry" is popped so put a towel under you. If you're a guy, it's going to be the best feeling in the world. But still it doesn't mean you were ready. Sex is complex, it's not something to do because "everyone" else is doing it. As a matter of fact, there are more people not doing it then there are. Sex leads to a lot of different things. Yes there is a level of happiness, but, there can be confusion, regret, depression. All those feelings can occur if you're not ready to have sex. Just give your heart and mind time to decide before you make the decision.
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Last time I had my period was exactly 3 weeks ago. I normally start at this time of the month.
I'm on the pill, but the past two months I missed a LOT of pills so I was having two periods a month. Which I know is not good, and don't lecture me on it because I've already heard a bunch of stuff about it, and I know I messed up.
Since the end of last month I've been making sure I take my birthcontrol on time.
Anyways, On friday it will have been exactly three weeks ago since the last time I had sex. I'm nervous because I haven't had my period yet, which normally starts, a couple of days ago. But it could be because I'm taking the pill on time now.
I know its too early to tell cause I still have basically 3 more weeks before this month is over to get my period. But 3 weeks is alot of time to worry myself to death about waiting for my period, which may not even come..
What can I do to ease my mind until my period comes, if it comes? & there's a good possiblity I'm just overreacting but it's just scary to have to wait to know. (link)
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The pill doesn't always work, I'm not giving you crap believe me. I'm 9 weeks pregnant and I was on the pill. I took the pill everyday on time. You should get a pregnancy test to be sure.
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