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first time
what are the possible things i can expect to happen the first time i have sex, as far as physical feelings and emotional ? i mostly want to know how it will feel physically. or the things i can do so it will feel better.
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Males and females tend to respond to things like this differently than each other so a clarification of your gender would be helpful but I will still do my best to give you some guidance.
There are a lot of physical and emotional risks you are taking by having sex. I would first like to say that if you are questioning yourself then DO NOT go through with it. I know it is overrated to say that it is best to wait until your wedding night but I wish that I had at least waited until I found the guy I wanted to be with. He saved himself for the girl of his dreams and I wish I would have done the same for him.
Physically sex is going to be pleasureful and possibly painful. If you are a female and this is your first time, expect some pain. It shouldn't be unbearable pain but it will be somewhat painful. Men, well I am not completely sure about that. I am not a male so I really could not tell you what sex feels like physically for a male.
Emotionally, there are a lot of things. You could be happy it happened but then later on regret the decision you made (very common) or you may not even care that it happened and go on with your life like it was nothing. Everyone reacts differently to losing their virginity. Just remember that with every pleasure there is a pain. You may not think about it now, but there is a good chance you will regret it later in life if you jump into it too fast.
Please be sure you are ready to handle the physical and emotional consequences that may come with having sex. Be safe and use protection. There is nothing worse for a young teen than to have one night of fun (sex, partying etc.) and then to find out 6 weeks later they are expecting a child; or to find out they have contracted something from their partner that may or may not be curable.
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Just a suggestion, you might get more clear responces from people if you specify if you are a male or a female. Men and Women as you know, feel totally different things when having sex, especially for the first time. I would be glad to answer but I don't want to tell you that your vagina is going to hurt and you don't have one you feel me hahaha
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Don't jump right to it, give some time to think about if you're ready or not. Having sex is a whole new playing field, the risks of stds are high right now and pregnancy is a high risk too, babies are being borne more so now than ever before. As far as emotional feelings, if you were truly ready to have sex, you'll feel endorphins of love, you'll feel overly attached to that person in ways you never did before, if you're not truly ready. You're mind wont let you forget the decision you made. The decision can haunt you for what seems like an eternity. If you're a girl, there is nothing you can do to make it feel better it's going to hurt. you'll probably bleed alot as your "cherry" is popped so put a towel under you. If you're a guy, it's going to be the best feeling in the world. But still it doesn't mean you were ready. Sex is complex, it's not something to do because "everyone" else is doing it. As a matter of fact, there are more people not doing it then there are. Sex leads to a lot of different things. Yes there is a level of happiness, but, there can be confusion, regret, depression. All those feelings can occur if you're not ready to have sex. Just give your heart and mind time to decide before you make the decision.
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