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I'm not a tease, I want him sexually.
19-female. I think I made a mistake and I honestly don't know how I can fix it. So i'm going to say first off - don't tell me not to do anything, etc. I am 19 years old, I do make good decisions but I just need advice on one thing! So please just answer the question without the preaching. :) I'll return the favor since it may be long ..Thanks!!
So i've had a crush on my friend for about 3 years now. He's honestly the only guy that I can trust. Me and him, we're both attractive to each other, its apparent and we have messed around before if you want to call it that, he's felt me up before .. we flirt nonstop like physically we just have fun with each other but about two years ago is when he first tried really getting with me, like going down my pants and I was like woooaah, it just caught me off guard and so I didn't let him because that was just my first instinct. Me and him basically talk about sex all the time, well when we text it occasionally gets thrown in there somehow! and he's the one who usually brings it up but I feel like he only thinks i'm a tease but i'm not. I was talking to my friend about it and I was like seriously, I NEED him like sexually .. I want to have sex with him and I know he would do it with me but I don't know how to bring it up. She was like... just text him and say FU*K ME!! But I just can't see myself doing that?? And I don't know if he would take me seriously either, because he doesn't think i'd go through with it but I WOULD. What should I do?? How would you go about it? What can I text him saying that would be hot/sexy and make it known that I really do want him?? I can't stop thinking about it..
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no..no..don't text...face to face is better that way he knows how serious you are about it and he can hear that in your voice. a text message can throw him off.. Ask him to hang out at your place..or his one night and tell him you have something very important you need to talk about. You and him seem to be very close so things should be at ease a little more. Maybe he is in the same situation as you ;) .. Let me know if I helped any. K :)|Good Luck!
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You want an answer??
Here it is
Text him
I love you
I need you
I want you
But!!!
I want you only for me!!
Answer me Yes and you'll Have me
Answer me no ...then...forget me
Do this and you will soon have something hard between you
a co_k or a heart ache
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Don't "text" him anything about it. Just hang out like you normally would so it's not all serious and planned. Make sure AT LEAST YOU have a condom, in case it isn't on his mind (because he thinks you dont want to). When you get with him, start slow. He'll eventually get hard, and then you'll have sex (:
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Ok it doesn't matter if you are at your place or his... but all you gotta do is set it up to where you guys are gonna watch a movie together right. From there just put on the moves. Stick your hand down his pants it may surprise him at first but I guarantee you that if he is bring up sex to you, he wants to have sex with you. this will work I promise. Just be forward.
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Invite him over, and get things hot & heavy in your room. Don't let him get away. Then have fun.
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The first step is admitting that you feel this way so you are on the right track. Texting him head on will make you uncomfortable, him, and the experience worse than it should be. You want to text him and say you want to hang out. Preferably a place you feel the most calm and comfortable. When you are together sort of touch him and laugh. He wants even more because you are resisting, in a mans mind, the harder to get, the more playful the game. What you are doing is completely perfect. Now that you have played hard to get, you want to snap the trap and stay in control. You don't want to throw yourself at him because it may make him want to leave but gradually ease into the transition. Put your hand on his leg, sit cose to him, look deep into his eyes, and sometimes slowly look away because that will make him want to look at you. Once you have done this for awile, he will kiss you, and if he doesn't then make the first move. And if also if he doesn't catch on, say things like "what do u think of women who make the first move?"; he will say something like "love it" and then you would kiss. Its all about control, confidence, and staying cool and calm. If you remember these things, you will be set to go.
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