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i'm just gonna come out and say it; my "area" smells awful. its a fishy sort of smell, and i cant ever seem to get rid of it. i doubt its a yeast infection because i dont itch or burn, but the smell is overwhelming and i'm always self concious in public, because i know other people can probably smell it, too. anyone know what i could do to make it stop? i've already read articles about feminine odor and from what it seems like, i'm going to have to take care of it like i take care of my hair; constantly washing, powder, wiping a certain way, "airing out" at night, etc. that seems like a lot of trouble and i dont have time to deal with it that way. otherwise, i wouldnt be here. so does anyone know a quick, easy way to deal with this? and what if i'm planning on letting my boyfriend go down on me? is there anything that doesnt have a scent or taste? vagisil helps a little, but it still smells like cream, and its almost more embarrassing than the odor itself.

sorry this is so long, thanks for any help. (link)
Vaginal odor is typically from inflammation of the vaginal area. Inflammation of the vaginal area is often a result of infection in or around the vagina. Could be Bacterial vaginosis----

Bacterial vaginosis (BV), while more common than yeast infections, doesn’t get much attention in the media.

The cause of bacterial vaginosis remains unclear but this condition is linked to sexual activity and douching. According to a University of Illinois at Chicago (UIC) study, a sexually transmitted virus that infects vaginal lactobacilli may cause bacterial vaginosis.

Vaginal lactobacilli are required to maintain a healthy pH and bacterial balance within the vagina. Once this balance is disrupted by a virus, the vagina no longer has a protective barrier and is more susceptible to infection.

In the 1999 UIC study, Sylvia Pavlova, senior research specialist, and Lin Tao, associate professor of oral biology, found that viruses may cause bacterial vaginosis. Moreover bacterial vaginosis could be sexually transmitted.

If untreated, bacterial vaginosis can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease, tubal pregnancy, or, pre-term labor if you are pregnant.

Only your doctor can diagnose bacterial vaginosis. Your doctor would prescribe oral antibiotics or antibiotic vaginal inserts to treat bacterial vaginosis.

It may be a simple fix, or may require a series of treatments. At any rate, you should seek advice from your physician.


Help plz (link)
You just need to do it. Lean forward and put your lips against this persons and the rest will come naturally. Have passion with each breath. Be intense when necessary but in the end just mean what you do.


19-female. I think I made a mistake and I honestly don't know how I can fix it. So i'm going to say first off - don't tell me not to do anything, etc. I am 19 years old, I do make good decisions but I just need advice on one thing! So please just answer the question without the preaching. :) I'll return the favor since it may be long ..Thanks!!

So i've had a crush on my friend for about 3 years now. He's honestly the only guy that I can trust. Me and him, we're both attractive to each other, its apparent and we have messed around before if you want to call it that, he's felt me up before .. we flirt nonstop like physically we just have fun with each other but about two years ago is when he first tried really getting with me, like going down my pants and I was like woooaah, it just caught me off guard and so I didn't let him because that was just my first instinct. Me and him basically talk about sex all the time, well when we text it occasionally gets thrown in there somehow! and he's the one who usually brings it up but I feel like he only thinks i'm a tease but i'm not. I was talking to my friend about it and I was like seriously, I NEED him like sexually .. I want to have sex with him and I know he would do it with me but I don't know how to bring it up. She was like... just text him and say FU*K ME!! But I just can't see myself doing that?? And I don't know if he would take me seriously either, because he doesn't think i'd go through with it but I WOULD. What should I do?? How would you go about it? What can I text him saying that would be hot/sexy and make it known that I really do want him?? I can't stop thinking about it.. (link)
Ok it doesn't matter if you are at your place or his... but all you gotta do is set it up to where you guys are gonna watch a movie together right. From there just put on the moves. Stick your hand down his pants it may surprise him at first but I guarantee you that if he is bring up sex to you, he wants to have sex with you. this will work I promise. Just be forward.


15/f

he's 18 in a month, i just turned 15. i went to his house and we were fooling around. he never forced anything on me so when i suddenly yelled no and wait and he did it anyway i...well it hurt...and then i went numb. afterwards i couldn't walk and my voice was shaking and my entire body trembling. i tried getting away but somehow my legs gave out. then he realized what he did and apologized over and over again. i said it was ok....he wants to meet next saturday. after he did it my entire body was trembling and i was breathing so hard i couldn't cry. i was just.....idk. i know it was my fault for not being more assertive. but i didn't expect him to. he knew i didn't want to and apologized afterwards saying he was sorry for forcing me. it was all my fucking fault and i don't know what to do now. we were safe. but he wants to meet this saturday and i know nothing good can come of it and he'll just do it again. it's fucked up, but even though i feel traumatized...i'm tempted to go back. what's wrong with me? i know i don't want it so why is my body telling me to? i'm not a masochist. what's wrong with me? i should be weary of my abuser yet i'm drawn to go back. am i just fucked up? help me please. i don't know what to do. (link)
It's not your fault. You said no and that's that. Do not go back to him. You have been through a lot and the mind has its ways of convincing you to do things and think things that you wouldn't normally do because of the trauma. It's not your fault you are a victim. You need to find an adult you trust and tell them what happened. You both may come from good christian families but even good christians can make bad decisions. He made a bad decision the decision to not respect your feelings and to stop. You are a victim of what at first may have been an innocent act of affection but quickly turned into a serious act of crime. It's not your fault you need help. Talk to someone you trust. Do not see him again, stay away from him.


OK so I have to ask. My girlfriend has been crazy for me to cum inside her but I am afraid of making her pregnant. She is on birth control and everything but still I feel like she is trying to trap me with a baby. Why? Because this is what she told me: She said that having cum inside her is a feeling of completeness and is 1000x better than orgasms.

Have any of you ever heard this? Is this for real? Do you really feel like that?

Thank you! (link)
Dude. Do not do it. My girl right now wants me to do the same thing. It's not safe, nor smart, unless you're in a committed relationship and want to risk having a child. I refuse to cum inside her. It pisses her off but I control that not her. Be safe bro.
-B




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