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i am i a lesbian or bi?
i think this a category fo this subject if its not sorry. i lkie men i can only see me doing with a man, i only had curshes on men and i am a women nd i never done it yet. anyways one time i want 2 kiss a female beacuse her lips was close, nd i never kissed someone before so wanted to know how it would feel. and everytime a female would walk by i would look at her butt, but i always say i wnt my butt that big. But the werid thing is i always blurt out a nasty comment about a female who walk by me like she is sexy or i would do her something like that then i relize what i said i would have a debate in side my head saying that you shouldnt say that ect. i can never pic. me rubbing my body on something i have that is just wrong. i would always say why have a female have a strap if i can have something real also i think licking on another female is just nasty, i dont want something that i have. also if i feel that way why do i make those comments? so please someone help me i am so confused. oh i am 18
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am 18 too :) um..ya! haha .. you are young and curious. even though you don't want to be curious about those things it just happens. you may know what sexual orientation is but you may still be a bit confused. i know you may not want to do this but experimenting is good. this helps you clear up the things that have been bothering you. i have a story if it makes you feel better..
i have two friends..one raped and one molested. they were scared of men and thought maybe because of that they did not want to be with men. they were confused.scared. they were best friends and so they experimented on eachother. as time went on they knew what that they wereactaully into men but because of what happened to them they decided to see what was the best for them.
i am not saying that you should go out and you have to find a woman and do things with her. i will let you decide what is best for you. and as for the rude comments.. haha all girls do it.. it's normal haha sometimes i catch myself saying well jeez..her teeth are so ugly but haha we all have a little insecurity inside of us. just because you check out another girl doesn't make you a lesbian or bisexual even guys do it. they want to see if they can change themselves or see if they have more abs then them haha. girls the same thing..some check them out to compare breast sizes, ass, lips, hair. you're normal :).. what do you think is the best thing for you to do to set yourself clear headed?
i don't know if i helped you any but i hope i did. i am trying. it's started to get harder to answer questions because i really want to give the right answer. :) good luck hun!
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Hey, I personally think that you are straight. If you don't "like" a girl, and don't want to do anything with girls, then you're straight. I sometimes feel the same way. I find girls attractive, and I stare and think that they're hot or something, but I don't want to actually be with a girl, and I have never had a crush on a girl or anything. So, in my opinion:
1-you are straight
2-you're not alone. I feel the same way, and you never know, we could be the only two people who feel like this, but I doubt it. I have a feeling many other people feel how we do.
hope i helped!
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