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How do I tell my mom I don't want her in the Gyno exam with me? Actually, I want her there, but I don't want her to know I have had sex. So I can't have her there. So how do I tell her I don't want her there without sounding suspicious or mean? (link)
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its not a big deal about going to the gyno, pretty much how ever old you are, all girls should go to the gyno after they have been sexually active and go to yearly visits. its nothing to hid from your mom, its showing that your being responsible and you want to know if everything is okay with you. she obviously wont be in the same room as the thing would happen, she would be in the waiting room or something. i'm sure she wouldn't be dissappointed about anything.
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i am 17 years old and i am a women. i hae this guy friend who has tryed to get me to have sex with him. but everytime we wore going to i told him a started my period and i need to get home to change my clothes. but i really want to have sex but i am scared that i will get pregant. since i am not on birth control. so what should i do (link)
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theres always other options besides birth control to prevent pregnancy, spermicide and condoms are the simpliest ways that common people have sex and prevent pregnancy.
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My boyfriend has fingered me before but this time he used two fingers and it was a little painful and I bled. I know that's normal. But today when I got up I noticed a big bump, like it it swollen on the outside of one of my lips. Do you think it is just swolen from a scratch or cut??Like from his finger nail?? i think its just swollen, but what eles could it be?? Pelase help me. (link)
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i dont think it could be a scratch or cut, probably just sore and irritated. it should go back to normal probably over night, i dont think nothing big to worry about. you probably bled because maybe he tore your hymen, the thin peice of skin, that can be torn doing anything pretty much. but im sure things are fine, if not maybe consult to a doctor.
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Guys and girls if you can answer this. What is your favorite kind of underwear on a girl and why? (link)
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anything thats comfy i guess.
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im thirteen and im sexualy active i have had my period for like 2 to three years now and i've only been with one guy who im with now we have had sex about 20 times and my cherry hasn't poped my friend told me that you bleed well i haven't bled is there a problem i dont no much about this cherry poping stuff but im geting a bit worried about it and she said you can only get pregnant if your cherry pops i dont no much about sex i need to no the basics i need help does everyone bled when there cherry is poped i want to tell my grandmother that i am but i know that she would never let me have sex if she new she would never let me see him again but i need birthconrol really bad i hear that you can get it for free i need to know where and i dont want them to tell mt grandmother who i live with and i want to find out about it i hope they will tell me all about it plz help love chantal (link)
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planned parenthood offers free benefits to those who are younger than 18. but i really wouldn't recommend you getting it since your 13, sorry hun. but sure i can understand being curious about the opposite sex but i really think if you want to have sex, have it with the one person who you truely have feelings for, not because someone else said so or anything else.
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i've been looking up different types of birthcontrol pills & it says:
$20–$35 for monthly pill pack at drugstores. Often less at clinics.
$35–$125 for an exam, if needed.
----does that mean they sale the pill pack at a drugstore? such as.. eckerds or walgreens without a prescription?
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at planned parenthood, if you are under either 18 or 21 you can get birth control free and get free checkups if you go under a cetain plan. it'll just be cheeper for teens.
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hEy! i wanted to ask you this whats the % i could still get pregnet if
1. my boyfriend uses a condom and wen he cums he takes it out
2. im on the pill
thnaks..i want to be over protected! lol let me know if you know the answer! thanks! (link)
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the pill is pretty much 99.9% affective, condoms, around 90% maybe. if you are on the pill, and you guys dont use a condom, guys precum and theres always a possiblity there. but if your on the pill you should be good about not getting pregnet.
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in order to qet tested for STD's.. do you have to have your parents know ? my mom would totally like freak if she thouqht i was doinq anythinq sexual.. ive been w| my boyfriend 9 months.. i wouldnt have intercourse now but.. maybe oral & i want my boyfriend to qet tested. please help, i rate hiqh !! 14\f (link)
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planned parenthood, its confidential so your parents wouldn't have to know for you to get tested. hope ive helped! =]
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Hey, I recently made my first appointment to see a gyno so I could be put on birth control. The only problem is my Mom told me we don't have any prescription insurance so for medication we need to pay the full amount. I'm 19 years old and I;m wondering if theres any cheap ones anyones on or if this has happened to anyone else. Thank you so much! (link)
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they can be free, go to planned parenthood and be put on the plan that will have your state pay for the birth control.
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Ummm. i am 14 years old and i have masterbated quite a few times and i haven't had my period. could my masterbation be effecting that? and also can a gynoclogist tell that you have been masterbating? because i an appointment and i dont want my mother to know that i have been masterbating.so can you please help me! (link)
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gynocologists can't tell your parents anything, its your body that only you should know about. yeah i'm pretty sure that they can tell that you have been doing that because if you say that you haven't been sexually active then you would have been doing that. its not a bad thing that you do it, its a normal human nature to do that sort of things. because your period hasn't come yet isn't because you have been masturbating, it shouldn't affect your cycle. your 14, and most girls get it between 13-18, so your time should come soon. i hope i've helped! =D
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okay.. i was talking to my friend yesterday and she told me she thinks she might be pregnant.. At first i thought she was kidding but she was being serious. She said she doesn't want to tell anybody and would be too scared to get a pregnancy test or anything. She thinks she should be on birth control too. She's only 14! what can i do?.. Oh her boyfriend doesnt know she might be pregnant either :/ (link)
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she shouldn't be scared to get a pregnancy test because if you may think you are, thats one of the first things that you should do. she can go on birth control, shes not that young, i think that showing that she wants to be on it shows that shes responsible. you should talk to your friend and convince her to talk to her boyfriend about it, he should know as soon as she has that thought.
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hey i'm on the pill and my docter never told me how long it would take until it was effictive.. so i was just wondering if any one could tell me how long until it is effictive and how effective it is???PLEASE HELP (link)
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when i started taking that i had to go back in 3 months and see if i was alright with it and that everythings working out. so i would say a few months.
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when i was a little girl my aunt went out with this really tall and ugly guy. he was nice but he liked to play with my private area and he stuck his in side mine a few times. i dont considder it rape or sexual abuse but i dont no what 2 say when people ask me if i am a virgin cuz besides that little thing i havent had any sex. what should i tell people. i dont mind it if people no that i am not a virgin but i really mind it if i have to tell them how i lost mi virginity and when. so am i still considerred a virgin or not and wat should i say wen people ask me that question?
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no your not a virgin. and i think you need to tell somebody that the guy your aunt was with raped you. you might think its no big deal but you were a little girl and he was a way older guy. he shouldn't have done anything to you, and you need to tell someone that, tell your parents and your aunt about what happened. xox
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Hey I realized my friend sorta WANTS to have sex and she is only 13, shes not going to have it, its just she wants to. I was on her computer and saw alot of porn websites, is this normal for a 13 year old??
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i would say that is normal, thats pretty much the age where girls and guys start noticing the opposite sex and are curious, so yea porn is what most people do, its normal.
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heyy im 1 13/f and when i was 12 i had sex wit my bf we did everything he was 19 and i loved him.. and then when i was 13 we broke upp but anyways.. now i have a new bf hes 14 but i turned 13 right after me n my exbf had sex for the last time and my other i juss had sex with him like 1 week agoo and im deff pregnant and i dont no whos the dad and plus if my mom finds out that ive had sex she'll kill me and my bf will leave me if its not his and the 19 year old guy is in jail.. i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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you know that he can go to jail even if you and your exbf were going out, even if no one knew that you guys had sex. just letting you know. but planned parenthood does pregnancy tests and stuff, you just have to fill out papers and its all confidental. just for the future reference, you shouldn't be going back and forth from guy to guy. xox
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ive been with my boyfriend for 8 months, and we still havnt had sex, he had never given me a reason for it.. until my frustration forced me to have a chat with him about it and he said 'to be honest its because... the 'soldier' doesnt always stand on command' im 15 and he is only 18 is this normal?? can anything be done about it!? (link)
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your 15 with an 18 year old, if anyone ever found out about you two being intimite with eachother you can get him sent to jail, your mom can even do that without any word of what you say about that. just think twice, and i dont think its normal, hes only 18. i dont think it has to deal with what he eats, but yea have him go to the doctors. xox
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me and my bf had sex and after i was in pain down there and i realized i was bleeding and it wasnt from sex i than looked and it was a part of my vagina close to where the penis is inserted and a piece of skin was split in two i was wondering is that normal? (link)
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if it starts to bother you more and more go see a gynocologist. but yes its normal just wait till your not sore down there to have sex again. xox
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ok, wuts the average age when teens start having sex. I know, it's when your ready for it and all, but i'm jus wondering when is the average age when people start getting together? (link)
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i would say 15. yea around 15 i think is the usual time when teenagers have sex.
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14/f my boyfriend is 17 and we had sexaa coupel of monthes ago but like nothing went in just like kissing with a clthes off. But I asked him if he wanted to have sex yesturday and he said no and whe n I asked him why he said becuz he didnt want to hurt me. But the thing is he had sex with his ex gfriend when he was 16. Well all I want to no is why did he have sex with her and he doesnt want to with me..He hurting me say that he doesnt want to have sex becuz he doesnt want to hurt me... plz help (link)
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the only reason he said that is probably he doesn't want to hurt you meaning if you guys do end up having sex he doesn't want you to get really attached to him if you guys ever broke up, plus hes 3 years older than you, so its kinda iffy on that part of you guys having sex. but its not a big deal if you guys dont have sex, as long as you both like eachother sex isn't a must!
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ok... me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and we still haven't had sex... i am a virgin but he isnt, he has had sex 3 times. I am afraid that i am really tight down there and that either it wont fit or its really going to hurt. my friend said not to worry about it but i am freaking out and tomorrow i am going ova his house because its our 1 year and we are going to be home alone, and he is already brought up like hints that he wants to do it... i am soo scared... PLEASE HELP !!! (link)
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well you shouldn't be scared, if he fingers you and stuff you shouldn't be super tight down there, plus guys like it when your tight. but sometimes the first time is the worst because it might hurt but by the third time you should be good. so all i'm sayin is that it shouldnt' hurt and dont get so worked up about it either. xox
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