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Location: minnesota
Age: 17
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I gave my boyfriend a hand job in my bed and he cummed. Can I get pregnant from sleeping on my bed where he cummed? (link)
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okay nasty. put a towel down.
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16/f
im not really sure what to do..
this guy who is a senior who ive only seen once, havent even said a word to him, friend requested me. i accepted and then he inboxed me and we started texting and talking everyday. he wants to hang out with me and do almost everything with me..i feel like im just a piece of ass and why is he going for me? he's never even spoken to me face to face. my friends say its because im really pretty. but still what if when he meets me he doesnt like my personality in person. we might hang out tomorrow night, he wants to pick me up in his car and take me back to his house where no one is gonna be home. i mean i know whats gonna happen because we talk about it, and he isnt a bad kid or anything..but my friend did ask around and heard from some people that hes a scumbag. i also asked my one friend who used to talk to him and she told me theyre not a good group to get into..i wanna hang out with him and see how he is i feel like it will be fun but just some things he's been asking from me and i said i'd do them..i feel like im being stupid because i barely know him. i know he wont hurt me though i mean im pretty sure he wont..he calls me cutie and cutiepie alll the time so that should be a good sign..i dont know. im still gonna hang out with him but..should i be scared or nervous? (link)
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Everything's bad about this situation. Believe your friends and other people. If they say he's a scum bag, he probably is. And I'm just gonna be blunt and feel free to rate me a 1..if you hook up with him, you're really trashy
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My boyfriend started touching my breast and also my vagina and licking and biting my hands. We didn't have sex (no penetration)!!
P.S. We were clothed(he was wearing thin denim and I was wearing a skirt)
When he was touching and licking me, I think I had sexual arousal and I could feel wet underwear. When I went to the bathroom I saw discharge. Could it be that I was excited and had sexual arousal or was it semen?
He didn't lay on top of me or something, but I'm worrying a bit. My period is due in 10 days.
Could sperm enter my vagina through clothes?
Any suggestions please??
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hahaha you're sexually active and don't know how to get pregnant? I'm sorry but I think that's a sign that you shouldn't be active.
If you didn't have sex (or the cum didn't get near your vag), you're not pregnant. End of story.
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Hey umm i have this problem...im not a bad looking guy not that that matters and im very well equipped sexualy..but for the whole of my life every time i have been in the position to have sex i always back out..i start thinking too much and questioning whither or not i love the girl and i just back out, im the only 18 year old i know that hasent had sex...my question to you is: What do you think i should do and why am i so afraid to go all the way?
"Awaiting your answer"=Mr.Fantastic= (link)
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Oh my gosh, a man like you is the only kind of guy I'd want to date! You're afraid because you have morals and you RESPECT sex. I'm surprised that you feel like you shouldn't be a virgin at 18. In my opinion, people SHOULD be virgins at 18. I bet you believe guys when they mention their hookups. Well don't..about half are lying.
I like you! Don't have sex until you're ready AND in a very committed relationship :) Sounds like you'll regret it if you aren't.
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will someone give me step-by-step directions on changing my yahoo password?
thanks in advance (link)
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wrong section.
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what are the characteristics and the exact definiton of an orgasm for a female? lyk wat happens and wen does it happen and how does it feel? (link)
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Me and my "boyfriend" had sex for the first time. He's a big jock and I was really excited that someone was actually interested in me. So when he came over to my house he wanted to have sex and I for some reason agreed to do it with him. Anyway, my period was 4 days late and I was freaking out and my bestfriend told me to take some pregnancy tests. All three of them that I took were positive. I told my "boyfriend" about it and he just laughed and broke up with me. I want to keep the baby, but I don't want to me known as a slut for the rest of my school life because I made one mistake. I don't know what to do. i still have to tell my parents too and they think I've never even have had a boyfriend before. I just need some advise, and please don't say, "your way to young to be having sex" because I already understand this. Thank you! (link)
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You already know that you've made a stupid mistake but guess what! You're STILL making stupid mistakes for not having told your parents or seen a doctor.
I'm appalled at the other people telling you to consider abortion (especially because of your age) LIFE IS LIFE PEOPLE! Is a 13 year olds fetus different than a 30 year olds fetus? HOW DARE YOU! I suggest that ALL of you listen to this speech given by a young girl the same age as the girl asking this question.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wOR1wUqvJS4
please.don't.kill.your.baby. PLEASE.
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okay see im 14 and i been hooking up wit this kid whos 18 and we always do things like he fingers me alot and he popped my cherry but i kno that we can neverr really be a couple because of our age difference but i dont really dont care i like doing things with him soo i jus continue to do itt .. is thatt badd??? (link)
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It is NOT good and you probably have the reputation of being a whore. Sorry to break the news.
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i am a straight male that likes to wear pantyhose is this normal (link)
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Normal is what the majority of people do.
Wearing pantyhose around the house is not normal because most people do not do it. It is called cross dressing and the majority of people do not cross dress. Hence, it is not normal.
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i have been going out with my bf.for a while and hes been active before me many times. any way my question is when i want to give him a hand job he wont let me touch his penis like i rub it outside of his boxers ive tried going in and he like pulls my hand away it pisses me off he doesnt know that thou. like i tried asking and hes like i dont like the mes? and when im going to give him head he has to put a condom on i havnt done it in a while b.c he promiced id get to try witout it on so we havnt done it i asked if i could like taste his cum and hes like no its gross im like bitch fingering me is gross. ive never tasted it and i want to im sick of condoms man and his underwear makes things less exciting like and when we were going to have sex where he didnt have a condom hes like no im not going to cum in you dude way to make me horny and stop. and we tried two seconds wit out one (GREAT) and he wont do it again P.S. im on birth control... weve talked about it and shit and he still puts one on wat do i do to make him change his ways pleaseee. (link)
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Cum seriously tastes N A S T Y. I can't even believe you would want to taste it. Ugh, i'm gagging right now.
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15/ Female
I'm curious if I can well have sex... Or kids... I wanna try so bad... But I haven't even dated anyone yet... My only real goal is to have a family... Lately, it's been bugging me that I might not get the chance... I've had my period for 3 years- since Feb. I thats happened is spotting... I know it hasn't exsactly regulated, but does that mean something? It's been harder than normal to get have my own babies/kids outta my head. I've been getting strange dreams/nightmares involving such- I get pregnant lose the baby basiclly... Am I just getting worked up over nothing? I'm at a lost here, any suggestions? Help would be greatly appreeshated.
-Kaori (link)
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bad bad bad bad bad bad bad BAD idea. What the heck makes you think you "might not get the chance" to have kids? you are FIFTEEEENNN!! babies can stay in your head but do NOT act upon it until you are married and have a JOB to support the child, yourself, your husband and the household. That being said, do NOT rush into marriage just to have babies. Stupid idea.
So yes, you are worked up over ABSOLUTELY nothing!
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So I'm 15. and I really want a boyfriend who's like, a senior in high school at least or older. I want an older boyfriend because older guys are much more mature and most of my friends are older than me anyway. And plus I want to be able to have a real relationship, not just one that will fall apart within a few months, like most high school relationships do. I want real love. And I know that most high school senior or college age guys like to have sex with their girlfriends. And I think if I'm in love I'm ready for that. But I need help trying to find a guy and I need a way I can get out of the house with him without telling my parents. (link)
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Guys that age do NOT want girls your age for anything more than sex. I agree 1000000% with the other girls and I HIGHLY advise that you stay away from older guys. Plus, aren't you aware of how your reputation would change once dating older guys? I don't respect girls that date people that much older than them. It is trashy and I GARAUNTEE you, people will call you a slut behind your back. I'm in college and have years of experience with peers like this.
Put yourself in their shoes. Would you want to date a 10 or 11 year old?
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month, and he's already trying to do sexual things with me. Yesterday, he fingered me. And today he tried going up my shirt. I didn't really care, except he like, stuck my hand down his pants. For some reason, it made me feel like hes using me or something. I really love him, and I hope he's not. But I need other opinions.
Is he using me just to do stuff to me or get stuff done to him? (link)
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seems like you know the answer already! he's using you! you should be with someone who cherishs your body and doesn't think about you in a sexual way all the time. You said you loved him but you've been with him a month? i don't care how old you are, you can't love someone after a month. you are probably getting love and infatuation confused.
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how big is the average penis for an 18 year old? (link)
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i reallyyy don't think the first guy was right.
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alrighty so i'm 15/f and i'm still a virgin, never had a bf and never fooled around before. so basicly i'm totally unexperienced. but it's not cause i'm ugly or something, in fact a couple of guys liked me but i'm probably the shyest person ever: i cant even look boys i like in the eye :/. so yeah nothing ever happened.
so all my friends and classmates already did stuff like fingering, blowjobs handjobs sex etc.
theyre also around 15 years old. i'm like a total outsider and i cant even imagin a guy seeing me without a top or anything. i'm just extremely shy as i said before. and i'm NEVER gonna make a move. the only guys i can talk to are ugly guys cause around them i dont feel nervous obviously. (sorry if this is a bit offencinve)
and also, is it normal that everyone is already doing this stuff at this age??? i feel so weird. i mean yeah i like imagining me doing that stuff as well, but i CANT in person. and yeahyeah i know its not all about physical stuff but i cant even TALK to a hot guy or a guy i really like.
is the behaviour of my friends normal at this age?
and is there something wrong with me?
and as i said it'S NOT my looks because i've been told i'm one of the prettiest girls in school. and i SERIOUSLY dont wanna brag or anything, i just want to give you the facts so i can get good answers :P
well thanks for reading. :) xxx (link)
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don't try to get advice on how to change your innocent persona. the sooner people start experimenting by fooling around, the sooner they have sex and usually end up having more partners in life than those who wait. you can't understand the beauty of virginity at your age through your struggle to find yourself in high school.
and from someone who's been there, i gauranteeeeee there are a LOT more girls than you think that are just like you. i'm sure you are beautiful and there is no reason to doubt yourself because other people are doing things that you aren't. i'm begging you to realize that you will be WAY more respected for not hooking up with guys. Don't be one of those underclassmen that upperclassmen are ashamed of because of poor decisions to try to fit in. there is NOTHING wrong with you and random hookups are not the answer
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Okay, so i have been going out with Drake,
my boyfriend for ten years. We live together in
an apartment and i really want to get married. i
want to have kids first though. My friends all
have kids and i want to have kids to motavate him
to ask me to marry him. But, i don't know how to
tell him. We have only had sex twice and he said
lately that he doesn't want to have sex until we
are married. I just want to have a kid though
because i love him and latley we haven't been as
close. I think having kids would bring us closer
as a family. How should I tell him? i need
advice! :( gogurl10 (link)
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i dont think having a baby would solve ANY of your problems. in fact, i think they would make them worse. my really straight-forward advice is don't have kids til you're married
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hi this questions is for the girls, i would just like to know how old you were when you first gave oral sex (link)
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i was 17. and i think 14 is too young
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Well, the other day I was talking to my boyfriend and he asked me "how far I wanted to go". To be honost, I really don't know. I had planned to stay abstinent until marriage, but I know that as I get older, I might lose my current, or future, boyfriend if I don't want to do very much sexually. I mean, I don't know. I'm only 14 so I think i'm to young to be "sexually active", but it seems as if everyone's doing something like that.... I just don't know what to do...are guys going to pressure me to do this stuff when I get into highschool? I guess i'm just afraid of being the last person considered "prude". Thanks, any advice welcome. (link)
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From the information you gave it sounds like he just asked the question, which i wouldn't jump to conclusions and feel like he's pressuring you. it's good to talk about things.
and its also good to be honest. unlike most young girls on this site, i really respect you for the way you think and feel. my true advice though is to not do anything. even if you just told yourself you'd go to 2nd. It's definitelyyyy common knowledge that girls who start doing sexual things earlier will almost ALWAYS end up having sex earlier. at 14 you should be a virgin and in my opinion, you shouldn't be sexually active at all. I don't care about the decisions other people around you are making, and neither should you.
It sounds like you're a smart girl and you seem like the type that might regret your decision later if you chose to be active. I believe that the people that get pressured for sex in high school, put themselves in those situations. I've steered clear of people and places where that might happen and you can too. It's not as hard as one might think to see through to a guys true intentions.
Good luck with everything and i hope you make smart choices!
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so my bf is very experienced and in a way that makes me feel better, but in a way it doesn't. he's ready to have sex with me and i love him alot and i do want him to be my first but i just don't know if i'm ready. the only things i've really done is kiss.. i did make out by the guy forced himself of me so it doesn't really count. i wanna go all the way with him cuz i completely trust him and i want my first time to be with someone experienced so they don't expect much from me. should i wait or just do it? i'm so confused. please help!!! =]
much appreciation, Chelsea (link)
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i don't have time to answer the whole question so i'm just going to say my intial thoughts. but i think you have it backwards.. although you may trust your boyfriend very much, it seems that since he is experienced he would be a lot more likely TO expect more from you. i really can't see it being the other way around..
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is 7th or 8th grade too young to have sex?
also, is it possible to have like dry sex with your clothes on? (link)
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yes. WAY too young. even if it's dry sex.
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