i have been going out with my bf.for a while and hes been active before me many times. any way my question is when i want to give him a hand job he wont let me touch his penis like i rub it outside of his boxers ive tried going in and he like pulls my hand away it pisses me off he doesnt know that thou. like i tried asking and hes like i dont like the mes? and when im going to give him head he has to put a condom on i havnt done it in a while b.c he promiced id get to try witout it on so we havnt done it i asked if i could like taste his cum and hes like no its gross im like bitch fingering me is gross. ive never tasted it and i want to im sick of condoms man and his underwear makes things less exciting like and when we were going to have sex where he didnt have a condom hes like no im not going to cum in you dude way to make me horny and stop. and we tried two seconds wit out one (GREAT) and he wont do it again P.S. im on birth control... weve talked about it and shit and he still puts one on wat do i do to make him change his ways pleaseee.
S0Exciited answered Friday May 22 2009, 1:24 pm: Let's not think the worst. Personally I think he is being extremely responsible with the whole condom thing. I know you may not want to hear this but STD's are real. You should wear a condom 100% of the time, even with your boyfriend/girlfriend. I think you should definitely respect that. Maybe you guys could go get tested together and see if you both are cootie-free. If everything comes back negative I think you should bring up the idea of unprotected sex then. *Always use protection unless you are absolutely sure (&nd with proof such as medical papers) that your partner has no STD's or STI's. &nd even then you guys still should get checked out reguraly*
As for the mess thing...maybe its a huge turn off for him. But relationships are a give and take situation. Talk to him about how you feel, how much you want to do these things, and that it bothers you that he doesn't. I'm sure he will take what you are saying into consideration. Who knows, he may just decide to give it a try. [ S0Exciited's advice column | Ask S0Exciited A Question ]
xObEaChbAbEoX answered Friday May 22 2009, 3:47 am: Well you said that he has been active many times before you. So maybe he has some sort of STD that he does not want you to contract and does not want you to know. That is the only thing I could possibly think of.
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