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is this bad?
16/f
im not really sure what to do..
this guy who is a senior who ive only seen once, havent even said a word to him, friend requested me. i accepted and then he inboxed me and we started texting and talking everyday. he wants to hang out with me and do almost everything with me..i feel like im just a piece of ass and why is he going for me? he's never even spoken to me face to face. my friends say its because im really pretty. but still what if when he meets me he doesnt like my personality in person. we might hang out tomorrow night, he wants to pick me up in his car and take me back to his house where no one is gonna be home. i mean i know whats gonna happen because we talk about it, and he isnt a bad kid or anything..but my friend did ask around and heard from some people that hes a scumbag. i also asked my one friend who used to talk to him and she told me theyre not a good group to get into..i wanna hang out with him and see how he is i feel like it will be fun but just some things he's been asking from me and i said i'd do them..i feel like im being stupid because i barely know him. i know he wont hurt me though i mean im pretty sure he wont..he calls me cutie and cutiepie alll the time so that should be a good sign..i dont know. im still gonna hang out with him but..should i be scared or nervous?
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Everything's bad about this situation. Believe your friends and other people. If they say he's a scum bag, he probably is. And I'm just gonna be blunt and feel free to rate me a 1..if you hook up with him, you're really trashy
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I agree with the last person. Ask him if he wants to hang out somewhere in public, don't actually say in public. Just tell him that you want to get to know him first (if anything). I think you should be both scared and nervous. He could rape you. Movies dinner, whatever but don't agree to do stuff whit someone you don't know, and for that you are stupid. However, you can fix the mistake by just being like I think we should get to know each other before we go any farther, and I think that going to his house alone is a bad chioce.
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I'm a big believer in "women's intuition". Yours is telling you to be wary of this guy and his intentions toward you. LISTEN to it! Just because he calls you cute things doesn't mean he's a good guy. It means he knows what to say to get your guard down and agree to do things with him that you KNOW aren't safe for you or your mental well being. Back away from this one and concentrate on finding someone who's actually good for you and doesn't have any scary reputations. Be smart. Smart girls attract good men. Its a fact.
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