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Hi, I know this might be a stupid question....
My boyfriend and I have fooled around naked, although not had sex. My period is now late, could I be pregnant?

Hey Sweetie,


Sometimes your period changes like one time it could be in the beginning then mayb the next month it could be in the end then mayb the next month right in the middle. Its hard to predict unless you keep record of your dates. But if he hasnt cummed near your vaginal areas then your skr8 just your period is prolly changed!! Xoxo Hope I Helped oxoX!!!

♥StephAnie♥

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What if I wanna have sex but I have tan lines from my tan how do I get rid of it without going to a tanning salon or tanning naked?

You can probably use a tannin spray stuff but your prolly gon sweat. Iuno i cant really help u on that one?!

-StephAnie-

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This is really embarrasing but...
"Down there" i think has a bad odor (i'm a girl)
Is there anything I can do to stop this? I heard certain foods can make it smell bad, is that true and which ones? Also, is there anything i can put on it or in it or something to make it smell better?

Try Doucheing for a week...My friend said that but dont use it like over n over just prolly once a week and clean all your underwear and etc.!!

-StephAnie-

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what is cyber sex?? and how do i do it?

(my bf wants to do it while hes in a illinois)

Its something you do over the net, You kinda say sexual shit and he prolly lol has lil moments with himself while talkin to ya!! xoxox!!!

-StephAnie-

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what does the term "69" and blue balls mean ?? and what happens when a guy gets a boner and when i masturbate how do i reach an orgasm cause idk if i ever get one like what does it feel like ?

The term 69' is used for like ok a girl is suckin a guys dick while he is eatin her out! Blue balls from what ive heard is when a guy gets really horney and his balls turn blue, Or something like that! And when you reach an orgasm you know because you start to cum? Lol I dont really know bout the last question but umm lol who is this?! Anyway xoxo hope I helped!!

-StephAnie-

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when you go to the doctor to get your physical, can they tell if you have done anything with anyone? like if you have been fingered or had sex?

Alright hun comin from me I play sports naw they dont check your body or nothing like that they just make sure your in good health and shape and everything. They dont do nothin crazy like that! But if your parents wanted to know if you had sex all they would have to do is like go to the docotors but its not 100% tru cause like for example if you use tampons theres like a lil piece of skin thats torn or somethin if you have sex or whatever and sometimes it can get like torn or something if you use tampons so they will never know all you would have to say is you use tampons and you will be fyne!
Laters hope I helped!! xoxox!!

-steph

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hi, uhhh its kinda hard to talk about this but, I dont know what to tell my boifriend, I mean he asked me if I was a virgin or not n i keep aboiding the question, you see when I was 13 I was rapped, what should I tell my boifrien? should I lie or tell him the truth, do you think it will effect the relationship?

thanks so much (I rate well!!!) HaLeY

If ya want the relationship with you and your bf to be strong, I think if you tell him the truth he will truly understand and that will kinda put a change in his mind and he will respect you alot more as a person!!

-steph

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I have a friend that ive known for several years. She lives a very long distance away from me and theres nothing i can do physcially for her. Her father makes her have sex with him on a nightly basis. Is there any way i can help her get help. Shes afraid of going against him, because he is paying for her college and everything. I love her to death. What can i do?

Hunny thats considered rape. You should tell her that the next time he does it im guessing tonight if you say regularly night basis you should tell her to not take a shower and tell her to wait until he leaves her alone goes to sleep or whatever to go call the police. That way she still has proof that he raped her. Same thing happened to my friend and she didnt take a shower after and called on him and then they went and did DNA tests and found out she was raped. You should really tell her to tel someone or else it can or will get worse!!

-steph

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Ok, i have really big boobs, i mean they r pretty big. well i have dated like 3-4 guys in the past mounth, and had sex wit them all. it turns out they only dated me cuz i liked havin sex and my boobs. i feel so used. i really need help. what should i do? o yea im 15.

Thats kinda crazay but if they did that like thats wrong using a girl for that..But sometimes it takes the girl to be the one to step up and tell them that if they are going to use you for sex n physical features then thats wrong and not right and they should accept you for who you are and if they cant then they dont deserve you at all sweetie!! *Hope I Helped* ~Stephanie~

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Why do peoples breasts get sore sometimes?

If they are sore hun, then mayb your going through Puberty I had the same problem..And my mom tells me its puberty but if you have like swelling and stuff you should talk to your parents then consult a doctor..If you have aol my screenname is STTEEPPHHAANNIIE...Good lux...*STEPHANIE

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iight i've had sex w/ this guy 4times in one nite...and thats the guy i lost it to...well i was woundering it's going to be awhile before i have sex again like 4months and i was woundering is it going to hert again when i do it again??

~15 female

yeah!

-stephanie

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i know this sounds stupid, but i need some basics...
1. how does anal sex work
2. how does a hand job work
3. how do you give a guy a lap dance
4. what's a g-spot?

i think i know most of this stuff, but i jsut wnat to make sure that i'm sure, u know? thanks.

1. anal sex is when ur havn sex in your asswhole!

2. when you place your hand on his dick and like..move it stroke it and just like basically use your hand instead of fuckin him! kinda how a boy would jack off but with your hand and you doin it yourself.

3. you just basically try to move your ass on him like if you have a big ass he will love if you rub on his dick wit ur ass like rotate n stuff.

4. its a type of spot feels good! when your having sex!

hope i helped gurli!!
-x0x-stephanie-x0x-

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ever since june two of my friends told me they didnt want to hang out with me anymore and wouldnt tell me why....now they tell everyone else not to talk to me for no reason and make up all these lies and tell people them....they tell me i wont let it go yet they're the ones who tell me to committ suicide and spread lies...they wont let it go...what should i do?

tell them str8 up how you feel if that doesnt get through there head then, i would just keep my distance and avoid the drama!

-stephanie-x0x

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My boyfriend and I are going to become sexually active soon and I just have one problem. I told him I'm a virgin and I'm really not. No one knows that I've had sex once before and I cannot tell him or anyone because of specific reasons. He's not a virgin either, but will he be able to tell I'm not?

Well if your thinkin of havin sexy, You should be straight up Honest. I mean best bet is to speak the truth instead of something bad happening and im sure he will take it ok!

-stephanie

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I have this friend. We aren't going out but he still took my virginity and we are always making out. The last time we made out he asked me if I wanted to try again. But he wants me to be on top. I am scared to because I dont know how and wut if I do it wrong. We didnt do it because I had to leave but I want to have sex with him again but I am scared that he would want me to be on top like he asked me last time. What should I do and if he does ask me... how di I do it?

the person on the top is the one givn it the person on the bottom is receiving it so usually you should like just work it..and kiss n stuff just u prolly have to do mor work whitch isnt too bad unless u dont want to just do something kinky to get his mind off of u bein on the top!

-stephanie

*u sound like u kno what u doin im sure u can pull it off* lol..-x0x

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can a certain type of condom make u lose your erection? me and my boyfriend were gonna do it and everytime he put on a condom, he lost his erection...do u think it may be this certain kind?

maybe the condom was too small or like he lost his boner after a while..usually if you really wanna turn him on tell him you will help!

-stephanie-
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ok i just asked a question about me and this boy before but i got another one ok i was over at this boy tonys house and we had sex and i dotn know what to do now because he is being ignorant to me now and i dotn know what to do!! what should i do? thankz
katie

Well that was your choice to do that. Thats why when people ask me is it ok to have sex? Im like If your ready if your completly SURE 100% SURE your ready. Because like after every person goes through Premarital sex, after they Have sex they always become all serious bout it like b4 they were thinking about it they were like yeah im ready but now this is the real thing cuz its like freakin ya out. Best bet is to go an talk to your parents tell them you made a mistake and you dont know what to do, and im sure since your being completly honest with them im completly sure they would understand, because that takes alot of guts to tell your parents. Im sure they would feel like good bout you comin to them though!

-Stephanie
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*Best Of Luck*
~Much Luv Katie~

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Hi, I am only 14 years old and I have been dating my boy friend for about 11 months. I know I love him and he loves me. We hang out all the time, so as you can imagine, sometimes it gets a little boring and I want to do sexual stuff really bad, but I fear I am too young. How much would be appropriate for some on my age? Please, don't give me the "What ever you feel like is right" because if I knew what was right, I wouldn't be asking. Thanks so much!

Hey Sweetie. If he Loves you and You Love him like you say then its Ok. And if you know deep down in your heart he loves you the way he does and wil support you 100% just incase something happened then yeah its ok. But use protection and be safe. Because my friend was 13 and she had sex and they both felt it was right and stuff but the condom broke so Just be safe and make sure you both trust each other! Good Lucks Baybi Gurl!

-Stephanie
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hey i am pregnant and dont know what to do my mom would like kill me..omg..stephanie please help!

Baybi Gurl Im so0o sorry what you should do is like consider whoever took you to the Hospital could maybe like help you out. Best Bet is to tel you mom. I mean everyone makes mistakes and its easy to make one..So just tell your mom str8 up ok..And b carefull!!

-Stephanie

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well... i hang out with friends like everyday! an there are like 4 guyz who really like me but last nite, my mom forgot to pick me up an it wuz like 11:00 an i heard will, frankie, an steve in steves back yard yellin at the tv. so i went there untill my mom picked me up. an well my didnt ppick me up till like 2 in the mornin, but frankie kept saying he loved me, an that he wanted me to go out with him really bad an everything.. but the 3 other guyz say that too but im just to confused because we went in the hott tub an steve an will started to flirt wit me an frankie kept grabbin me an sayin he loved me an that he wanted me an everything im just really really really confused CAN SOMEONE HELP PLZZ!!! 14/f/ny

To me it soundz like a one night stand..Just fo get bout it..but if he tells u he still luvz..you like from that night and since then..mayb he does..Just talk to him but if not..Then it was juss a one night stand!

-Stephanie
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