Hi there. I'm Emily Elizabeth and I'm 2O. I live in Idaho and work at a Cheese Factory. I've not had this much fun at work in a long time. I want to be either a Criminal Profiler or a Cop before I'm 25. I graduated in 2OO3 ('O3 REPRESENT!) In High School, I ran the Advice Colum and had a blast with it!!
I've been in about every situation imaginable and I'm still alive and kicking. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, it's just a matter of finding it before it's to late. I will answer any question about anything, so don't be afraid to ask.
I'm currently single and I'm OK with that. I don't like being tied down, but I do have 3 Mexican lovers (inside joke) I love all types of music and am a crazy person who will do anything to make you smile, including breaking my shoulder to help my friend get a date. She got a date and I spent Friday night in the ER, that's friendship, right there LOL. I've got brown & pink hair at the moment and 9 piercings (6 in my lobes, 1 cartlidge, right nostril and navel) I drive a 2OO5 Ford Focus (so that means, yes, I've got a kick ass car, but I just signed the next 6 years of my life over to Ford haha)
Have an STUNNiNG day!!
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Member Since: September 29, 2004
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Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??
-Scared :( (link)
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Hey.
There is always that darn chance of ending up pregant. I'd THiNK that if you had been taking them regularly, that taking one after sex wouldn't make a difference. If you went off of them for a week, you shuld of gotten your period. Since you've been on them for 4 months, I'd say to just relax and wait for a bit to see if your period is late or not. Let me know how things go.
Good luck!
Em
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Hello there. How do you get Photoshop to make your little collages? (link)
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Hi. You can download it from http://www.adobe.com and then click on "Photoshop". I've got a copy of it from a friend, but you can download it off of Ares. Enjoy it!
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This is a really.. stupid.. question.. but.. here goes anyway:
I want to buy some condoms (im a girl) and i think its kind of embarrassing.. i mean.. i dont want everyone to know im having sex. I cant drive.. and if my sis or parents found out i was buying them.. they would KILL me.. Anyway.. when i work up the nerve to buy them.. whats the best kind to buy... i prefer lifestyles or trojan.. so whats the best.. and cheapest at that.. to buy
thanks! (link)
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Hey. I prefer Durex over Trjoan and I haven't used Lifestyles. Don't get the ribbed ones, they hurt like hell!! The ones with spermacide on them can really irriate also, so I'd reccomend the "ultra thin" ones, but deffiantly a lubed one, because the ones without it, hurt like hell as well. I think it's great that you are trying to prevent STD's and pregancy, so don't listen to the people who call you a whore. I get mine at Wal-Mart, they range anywhere from $2.OO on up. If you can't do that, try to find a Planned Parenthood in your area, they will give out free condoms and generally they will give out birth control based on an income. Good luck and have fun =)
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You said something before about flavored lube, what kind is it and where do you get it? Can I get it online? (link)
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heehee. The kind I had was called "Doc Johnson." I think you can buy it online (try docjohnson.com or type it in Yahoo) It was ciniamon and it didn't taste like ciniamon to me haha. But, if you blow on it, it gets really warm, which is awesome! I also have some, can't remember what they are called, but they are Strawberry flavored and Coffee flavored, they smell SO good! Have fun!!
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Hi Emily! I went to Blurty and didn't find the icons.. how do I do it? (link)
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Whoops, sorry about that =) Go to the top of the page where it says "find user" and then type in a criteria. I normally do "Updated within the last 24 hours"
Em
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What program do you use to make your little collages on your picture page? Also, how do you make the stars appear when I leave your page? (link)
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Photoshop. I've got version 7.O, but I'd love to have 7.5 =) www.photoshop.com
Em
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i need some advice please!! on thursday there isnt any school, so me and my boyfriend are planning to go out for a movie, and then over 2 his place. its just going to be us to, and of course we will be doing something! we both are ready to loose it, its just that:
1. im scared i COULD get pregnant
2. im just a lil nervous cause i dont know what to do
3. im sorta of on my period, im bleeding just a tiny, and what if i smell bad?! (link)
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Hi!
Lucky you, no school. heehee. If you guys are ready to do it and are certain, then go for it. Get out some candles (not to many though, you don't want to go overboard) and some pillows and a nice blanket and just enjoy yourselves. I'm guessing that it'll be the first time for both of you, because you said you're both ready to lose it. If that's the case, then it may end up hurting, but it's soo worth it in the long run!! It only hurts for a little while.
If you are worried about getting pregant then use condoms and spermicide if you want to. Condoms at least though. If you are on any kind of birth control, then the condoms can be used as a backup method. Just be careful when it comes to the condoms.
About not knowing what to do, just do what you feel is right at the time. It sounds funny, but trust me, it makes things so much better!! You'll both end up enjoying it so much more if you just do something and don't really put much thought into it.
If you are still bleeding a little bit, then deffenatly use condoms. About smelling, just make sure you take a nice long shower (not only will it relax you, but it'll make sure you're clean)
I hope this helped somewhat. Good luck! If you have any more questions, leave one in my inbox =)
Emily
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how do you get rid of back cramps when your in your period??? (link)
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I use Advil and those air activated heat patches. They are the best things ever!! Either those, or the patches that are menthol, they numb your back. You can get them at Wal*Mart. Good luck!!
Emily =)
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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :) (link)
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Hi Hun =)
I didn't bleed my first time, but OMG, it hurt!! It is normal, not everyone bleeds, it depends on the person. As long as you enjoyed youself (pain aside of course) then you have nothing to worry about. Don't listen to the people who call you a slut, it's YOUR life, not theres! Have a good day!
Em =)
Me again =) Thanks for the comments in my feeback, it was sweet of you! Drop me a line in my inbox if you ever want to talk, I'm ALWAYS online LOL Have a good night =) And, just remember this... the more times, the easier & better it is ;)
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Okay. My boyfriend and I are thinking about going for the whole oral sex thing...and something about the whole subject really weirds me out. Like, I can't imagine giving a guy a blowjob, but it weirds me out even more to think of him going down on me.
For background, we've been together over 11 months, we've had sex, and we've usually kinda skipped over the oral issue. If it matters, I'm 17 and he's 18. I know I should just wait 'til I'm comfy with the whole idea, but I don't think I'll be comfy with it until I figure out what it is that's weirding me out. Anyone have any ideas? (link)
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Hey =)
I was like you, you couldn't PAY me to do a blow job. However, my guy was really patient and nice about it and bought some of the flavored lube stuff and it made it SO much easier!! The going down on you part is awesome as well, just make sure to shower before, for obvious reasons LOL =)
If you guys have been together for that long (congrats also) then I don't forsee it as being a problem to do oral, espically since you've had sex already. Just do not do anything until you feel comfortable with it. The last thing you want to do it have oral sex and regret it.
Good luck!!
Em =)
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Hello, everybody. I'm sorry if this is a bit long. Just for info, I'm 24 and female, so I'm not a slut or anything for having sex. Anyway, my husband recently told me he used to pay prostitutes to have sex with him a few years back (he's five years older then me.) I was disgusted. Mu husband, who has pleasured me with oral sex and beyong NUMEROUS times, has had sex with several women who he barely knew. I need some advice on how to handle this. Is he going to still be fertile? Because I DO want to have kids. - Marcia (link)
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Hi Marcia,
Wow. What I would do is have him take an STD test and if you guys have had unprotected sex, I'd get one as well. I wouldn't worry about him being infertile, unless he has an STD that could cause that. I was reading some of the other answers.. the trust one was interesting. What brought this on and made him tell you?
I would think that since he told you, he's feeling bad about what he's done and is wanting your trust again. I hope that things go well for you. Please let me know what happens.
Good luck!
Emily
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Ok! Well I have to go to the doctor tuesday with my mom to get birth control. Im just really stressing out about the papsmear. I shave down there and Im not sure whether or not I want my mom in the room when they do that. They also have to ask you if your sexually active and I really dont want my mom knowing all that either! Any info, advice, etc.? (link)
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Hi. If you don't want your Mom in there, tell her, "Mom, I would appricate it if you'd stay in the waiting room so the Docto & I can talk openly." If she can't accept that, then talk to the Doctor and by rights, they should make her leave. If it's a male doctor, you could always ask for a nurse to be in there, if you're nervous about that.
About the birth control pills, I got kinda lucky, I got put on them for prevention of cysts, but I use them for the obvious too LOL
Here is a link that tells a TON of info about visit's and what not. Good luck!!
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/womenshealth/keytogyn2.html
Em =)
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what happens during a gyno appt.? (link)
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Hey. It's not the greatest thing in the world, but it's not the worst either. Go here:: http://www.plannedparenthood.org/womenshealth/keytogyn2.html
It's has TONS of info! Hope this helps!
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I recently had my pap smear and the results came back fine. My doctor said that the Pap smear was normal. I did not have the HPV, but this is were I'm confused, she told me to go back for another testing in 6 months because they found changes in the cells of my cervix.
Thank You So Much for any information that you can pass on to me.
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Hi.
All I can think is that there may have been something on them that could be potentially wrong, but they want to wait a little bit longer to check.
I'd consider going to another doctor, for a second opinion though, just in case.
Go to www.webmd.com and see if you can find anything there. Drop me a line in my inbox when you find out something, or have more questions. Good luck!
Em
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me and my bf recently slept together and now i fink i mite be pregnant but im wondering can somebody under 16 have an abortion whitout their parents knowind thanx (link)
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Hey. If you just had sex (like within the past 72 hours) you can go to Planned Parenthood and get the "Morning After Pill" that will help in preventing pregancy. However, if it's been longer than 72 hours.. that wouldn't help.
You must be 18 in order for your parents to not know. I was also reading some other answers and most insurances/medicare won't cover abortions unless it's needed to help save the mother, like the pregancy could put her life in danger and generally they run around $400-$500, just so you know.
What I would do is take the test and then go from there. Don't worry until you know, because worrying and stress will make your period late.
Good luck & let me know how things go.
Em =)
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This may be kinda long, but I need to ask someone. I just started taking birth control pills 3 weeks ago. I think I may be pregnant but, I havent missed my next scheduled period. Since I just started taking the pill, that messes up my cycle for this month. I have other signs of possibly being pregnant. Being on my pills the nurse told me I should be getting my period around the 13th of this month. My boyfriend and I are very sexually active..in fact every night. I know we shouldnt do it, but it is unprotected each time. Is there a way that I could find out now if I could be pregnant..like take a pregnancy test tomorrow and find out? Im really nervous and want to know if I am now. I need to know what to do soon. Thanks. (link)
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Hi there.
For the first little bit, your period will be wacky and will kind of come on it own time. I was told to wait about a month and a half before sex with out any other protection, so if it was me, I'd quit having sex for a few days and keep taking the pill. When you are you done with the active ones, wait and fo from there. I'd take a test sometime soon though, like in the next day or so. Go to any store and they have them there, or go to the doctor's office. Good luck & let me know what happens.
Em =)
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Sorry... this is a sex question and there are somewhat graphic content. Not really bad but if you're young, you might not want to read this. Please only OLDER columnists answer this. I don't want advice from an inexperienced 13-14 year old. Someone who knows what I'm going through would help. And so... here's my question....
Hey, I'm 14/f and my boyfriend is 16. Yesterday I was at his house and we were doing sexual things and then I told him to go get a condom. (he uses them normally for self pleasure so it doesn't get anywhere...) So he went upstairs and got it but when he came back down I was crying. I don't know why I was crying. I really feel like I'm ready to have sex with him. We've been together for 2 years and we love eachother very much. It's weird though, I know that I'm physically and emotionally ready to do it it's just that, whenever we are about to, I get scared. Is this normal? Can anyone help me out?
PS- I'm a virgin and so is my boyfriend and we both want to lose our virginity to eachother. (link)
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First off, aww that you two want to take each others' virginity. That's really sweet!! =)
It sounds like to me that you got scared of something happening.. that's what happened with me the first time. I backed out once, felt like crap, but I knew that moment wasn't good. We waited 2 days and it was perfect.
Getting back to you though ;) I think that the only way you'll be able to know when the time is right is when your heart tells you. That's great you have condoms, but I'd reccomend another method, like the pill to be extra safe. Good luck and let me know if it goes through =)
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okay, i've been with this guy for a while now and our realationship is pretty good and stuff, but...i somehow want him to show more affection towards me; like more touching or even just talking to me or w/e. He touches me and stuff so its not like he stays completly away, but its always not when i want it. I guess i just kinda hope for the 'fantasy relationship' but i think that maybe his ways could be changed. Do ya'll have any ideas on how i can get him to show more affection or w/e? please help, and dont just say talk to him about it :o) Thanks, i rate! (link)
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Make the move first sister!! I know what you mean, the little touch or bush can totally turn you on and it makes you crave more. If it was me, I'd maybe brush up against him and maybe kiss his neck, trying to hint it to him. If that doesn't work, find a Cosmo and circle the "Read her Mind" part and add a post-it note saying something sexy that would involve touching you.
Good luck! =)
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First off, I'm not sexually active and am pretty much a 'good girl' when it comes down to getting serious and sexual with any guy. The problem is, I have these very sexual, heated fantasies. When I meet a hot guy, and we start talking, I start to daydream about us having sex. I don't mean normal sex either - like rough, hard and in odd places. Is there something wrong with me? These fantasies are taking over my life and mind. (link)
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I know the "good girl" title, all to well. I still am a good girl, but I'm a little more adventurous now. teehee.
I don't think the fantasies are anything to be worried about, it's totally normal. It means that you are excited about this new guy and you are hoping for something possiably down the road.
Good luck, have fun & play it safe if you decided to act out your fantasy ;)
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OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!! (link)
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Wow. I won't preech, but wow. I was 19, two months from being 2O before I gave mine up and it was perfect. But 14? Wow.. so young. I personally don't think it's a good idea because your body is still devloping & changing. Not only that, but trying to find a babysitter is super hard and unless you have either great support or a job, paying them would be hard also. I hope that they are all ok. Take care & good luck, let me know if I can help anymore =)
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