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AY YOO!! my name is sara & i can give some pretty sweet advice =]. i guess i'm supposed to talk about me here .. soo yeah here ya gooo =]

my room's always messy & i hate capitalizing my i's. I'm a picky eater but i eat lots of food (mainly junkfood =D). i am very unorganized and i usually forget my homework, but i'm working on it. i don't like concentrating because i'm not good at it. i'm obviously not perfect, but then again who in their right mind would say so. i like using big words, and yes i do know what they mean. i'm a pretty good speller and i like acting literate when i'm actually not at all. i don't bother with people who don't like me. if you have anything against me, i'm simply not going to waste my time trying to get you to favor me.. in my opinion, its your loss. i type really fast and i use the backspace button alot even though i don't like to. i wish my eyes weren't blue, but i would never get colored contacts. i eat too many famous amos cookies and i love kettlecorn .. mmmm =] i know that i do not have all the answers to life, but i will try my best to help you people out. i'm pretty good at giving advice on friendship related things, because i think i'm pretty good at being a friend; considering i have no enemies. i'm not so good on school work related questions, but ask me them anyway & i'll give you a website where you can try to find what you're looking for =) i hate writing english papers because i suck immensely at organizing my thoughts. i am very gullable & easily influenced. i judge people way too much even though i'm not that confident. i need to stop that. actually, there's several things i need to change about myself, but you're not perfect either. i talk alot and sometimes i mumble because, i don't know why but i just do. i think i do it when i get nervous and i talk real quiet and it's annoying and i hate it. i also talk fast which is another thing i need to stop. i always have something to say, and i won't hesitate to say it. alright i'm done, bye.

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i really just want to commit suicide. i just can't stand my life anymore. i just feel like i would be better in heaven where i would have no worries. someone please help. i can only take so much. i don't know how to cope. i'm just going to end up killing myself. i know i am. i have no reason to live.

okay seriously, honest to god, don't do it. it's one of the dumbest things that you can ever do. so what if things get tough? deal with it! everyone's lives get hard sometimes and chances are, yours isn't the worst one out there. for real, it could be sooo much worse. just think of all the people you would leave behind, and they would probably think it's their fault that you chose to end your life. you may not think so, but there are definitely people who would care. it is THEEEE MOST terrible feeling in the world to know someone and be close to someone who killed themselves. to know that they were that unhappy, it's devastating. please get help or talk to someone if you're seriously thinking about it.. it is one of the most selfish things you could do.. and once it's done, it's done. there's no turning back. besides, you wouldn't go to heaven.. you killed someone! you'd go to purgatory. just don't do it.. you have no idea how it makes your survivors feel. in february, my uncle danny killed himself and it was the worst feeling ever to know that someone was that unhappy with their life. just get help if your seriously thinking about it.. please don't.. you could have it sooooo much worse! don't be selfish.. get help.. and please leave me feedback when (if) you rate. hope i helped ♥

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Okay, so there is a ton of negative input in the media of what Straight Edge really means.

I'm not exact, but I'm sure there is a ton of people on this site who hasn't really fully understood what it really is.

I was wondering if I could get peoples views on what they think Straight Edge is?

okay well i was always under the impression that straight edge pretty much means no drugs, no alcohol, no smoking, etc. not necesarily being a 'goodie goodie' but just being aware of what destructive things can do to you. for example, i'm straight edge .. [some peole write it out as sXe] but someone who smokes and does drugs and doesn't give a shit about it, would obviously not be considered straight edge =] alright, well i hope i helped yaa! [♥]

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are you supposed to use a condom for oral sex?

It would probably be a good idea so you don't get std's and other diseases .. so yeah you probably should =]

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what does giving head mean?

It means to suck on a guy's dick. Any more questions, google it or ask someone else .. I don't wanna get banned lol ♥

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this may seem like a dumb question but i heard someone talking about it.

lets say you use a public bathroom & you're a girl. if there's sperm anywhere near the toilet, on the seat, in the toilet itself, is it possible to get pregnant?? if you were juss using the bathroom??

thanks!!

okayyy well i just answered a question like this so i'll copy & paste the answerrr from beforee =)

no b/c it has to get inside of you and it dies like 5 seconds or something after it gets in the air .. plus, someone or something has to physically put it into your vagina. so if this was a question about you, then chances are, you're fine =)

hope i helped!!! =D ♥

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ok can you get pregnant by being AROUND sperm. not actually having sex?? like if it was on a surface er in the shower. like if you use the bathroom & theres sperm er anything??

thanks

no b/c it has to get inside of you and it dies like 5 seconds or something after it gets in the air .. plus, someone or something has to physically put it into your vagina. so if this was a question about you, then chances are, you're fine =) hopem i helped! ♥

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15f christian....

I used to always masturbate. quite alot. but then about 2 weeks ago i read something that said that masturbating is a sin. well ever since i read that i havent masturbated, i actually gave in yesterday but then i felt reallllly guilty afterwards. is this bad because i mean will it mean i'll never be able to enjoy masturbating? is this normal and will i ever get over it? please help. i rate 5's!

i heard that before too, and i think it's stupid. there's like a whole lot of things that are 'sins' but i don't think they should be sins because according to the bible, God made people, all people and their feelings included. which means when he created us, whatever it is that makes people want to masterbate, God gave us that. so if it's a sin, God shouldn't have given people hormones that make people wanna have sex and all that stuff. idk it might be a stupid answer .. maybe He wants us to fight it or something? haha idk. that's just my reasoning. hope i helped? =) ♥

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Is giving head considered Anal Sex?

nope lol. i think you might be confusing it with oral sex. giving head is considered oral sex. =) ♥

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My boyfriend and I were fooling around, we never had sex and my hymen isn't broken. Things got a little carried away and we were rubbing our "private" parts together, but my stuff never touched the top of his. Is there any way I'm pregnant? I've been freaking out because my period is late, but I am so irregular that I normally miss a few months anyway. I'm just worried, so any input would be great.

well there's always a possibility, but i highly doubt it. he would have had to get sperm on you and it would have had to go inside and it doesn't sound like it did. if you're still worried, you can get a pregnancy test JUST to be sure. but i really don't think you are =] ♥

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i know this sounds weird, but can a girl have sex when she has her period?

yeah but it's kinda discustingg lol. cuz she wouldn't be able to have a tampon or anything in, and it would be reallyyyy messssyy. plus most girls don't really like it. ♥

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i am 15/f highschool, and i want to have sex, badly. i know that i'm ready for it. but my boyfriend and i both agree on waiting til theres a time where we dont have to worry about getting caught, and when he can actually love me after and not me have to leave, you know, well, i live in wilson. and i'm also afraid itd going to get around, but its weird cuz. i trust him. and dont think that he will tell anyone, but i dont trust myself.. kinda. i meaan, i told people when i gave my ex a handjob, and shit, but i kinda think sx, is a diff, story, you know, my mom would kill me if she found out.

confused& hatin hormones

um well i really don't wanna sound rude or snotty, but i'm not sure what your question is =P so my advice for this question is to im me again and clear up your question. sorry! please don't rate me bad if this is bad advice, lol. i'm just not sure what you're trying to ask. ♥

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what is oral sex

haha um sex that involves the mouth. lol that's the only description i can give without getting like pornographical. but like a blow job for example is considered oral sex. other stuff too but this is an advice column not like a porn column =P

sorry if it's not a very good answerr, but um google it. be careful of getting porn though! lol ♥

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Well, ok, here's the deal. I'm fourteen and i have a group of really close friends. I don't get crushes on girls, but my one friend has really nice, larger breasts and I like to touch them. This is because I am on the smaller side. Occasionally she lets me feel her, but sometimes she laughs it off. I enjoy it when I'm able to touch her. But, I just get turned on by things like this and horny.. Does this happen to anyone else? Also, there's this girl that touches me alot in those areas and it gets me really horny. I jsut like experimenting. Can someone please help me out? Thank you; I'll rate all fives.

like you said you just like experimenting. i think you're just growing up and getting more curious lol .. nothing to be worried about ♥ =] x0

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13/f
is this werid?
i take off my clothes and look at myself in the mirror and want to do stuff but i dont kno what? it feels good being naked what should i do. i like my boobs and others ppl's boobs. i want to have sex or something what is hapening

aw it's no big deal lol. it's just your hormones kicking in. you're getting older and more curious. =] ♥

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Hey guys! I need help. I need to know about having sex, you know, the kindsof sex, how to do it, how it feels, consiquinces. You know! Any advice or websites I could go to? Il rate 5's to every answer.
Michaela

i'm not gonna search it for you because it would probably give me like tons of porn sites so here

only search advicenators.com


look there ^ =] (you can change the text obviously lol) ♥

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my parents never sat me down for the talk..where can i go to learn about sex? without reading a stupid book : P .thanks = )

welll idk not everyone actually gets an official 'talk'. ask about things you're unsure about or you'll probably learn as you go .. there's always google! lol =] ♥ hope i helped? =P

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what does mastrubating mean ? haha sorry im only 10 and my bros are 13 and i hear them say it when their joking around.. but its when their joking around about sex things with my other bros.

it's when someone like plays with themself to turn them on sexually. ask them they'll tell you more about it i guess. ♥

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k dont tell me im stupid or anything but me and my boyfriend had sex and te comdom fell off in me but he could still see the top of it and stuff and he said he didnt cum that much.....wat is the chance of me gettin pregnant and not gettin pregnant? plz tell me

there's always a chance but not like HUMONGOUS one .. get a pregnancy test because no matter what anyone says it won't matter because the test knows better than us.

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okay im a f/16 and i shave down there. is that weird if im not having sex at all and dont plan on it any time soon? does anyone else?

it's not weird at all .. it's your body so you can maintain it however you want and whatever makes you comfortable. like i said it's your body.

some girls do, and some don't it's entirely your opinion =)

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ok im 15, 4 11, 80 lbs, and i dont even fit into an A yet. i wear a AA 30 -32. and it SUKS! my bodys done growing, does that mean my boobs are too? thanks =)

your boobs don't stop growing until you're 18 (at the youngest) they can keep growing until you're in your twenties .. don't worry about it =) ♥

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