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dont know what too do.
i am 15/f highschool, and i want to have sex, badly. i know that i'm ready for it. but my boyfriend and i both agree on waiting til theres a time where we dont have to worry about getting caught, and when he can actually love me after and not me have to leave, you know, well, i live in wilson. and i'm also afraid itd going to get around, but its weird cuz. i trust him. and dont think that he will tell anyone, but i dont trust myself.. kinda. i meaan, i told people when i gave my ex a handjob, and shit, but i kinda think sx, is a diff, story, you know, my mom would kill me if she found out.
confused& hatin hormones<3
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Well, if you think you're ready for it, then go ahead and do it. Just be sure to protect yourself. If you have been seeing each other for a long time and feel the same way about oneanother then you should do what you think is good for each other.
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♥Its a good thing you guys are waiting for sex. Its a really serious thing. Your scared of it getting around and really theres a good chance of it. I mean that to me is the worst when rumors about what you did + more goes around. Even if you tell one of your firends, that doesnt mean they wont go off and tell someone else. Its about trust so watch who you tell. Also if it does get around, just stand up to the truth and don't let it get to you. People who talk shit have no life.
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Look, sex is really serious. Its not something you do because your horny and you want to. It means something very serious and u seem desperate for it. I think when you loose your virginity its to someone special that will stand by you A LOT of things can happen when having sex. Deseases and pregnancy. BE CAREFUL i dun mean to sound like a parent just dont do anything stupid your most likely going to regret. If this guy is really that important to you you guys can wait. I think your just really horny and the rush you get by sneaking around is getting to you. Relax, sex isnt necesary and alwasy remember the risks. I hope I helped and i hope my advice got to you.
P.S. Think A LOT about your decision if you decide to have sex, and i mean like weeks at every second of the day, even when your not horny. You'll be surprised at how differently you think.
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um well i really don't wanna sound rude or snotty, but i'm not sure what your question is =P so my advice for this question is to im me again and clear up your question. sorry! please don't rate me bad if this is bad advice, lol. i'm just not sure what you're trying to ask. ♥
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You claim to be ready, i bet your not. For one, you cant even use english properly. Just wait. If you have to ask something then your mentally too immature. Wait till you grow up.
For your additional info:
he just wants his piece of ass like all us guys do.
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dont do it.. trust me i have the same feelings too but i just try to get past them. try doing other things but save sex for later.. ive been told i will appriciate my decision to wait more later on
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i think you should wait it out. you don't wanna regret it because it's not like you can take that back & if something would happen like you guys would break up then you'd probably really regret you had sex with him but that's juss an example. plus there's so much stuff going around. pregnancy, stds, etc. also, a lot of rumors start & opinions of other people aren't always nice. if you have a religion, that comes into play too because you're suppose to have sex not for the pleasure itself, but because you love the person & to have a kid & i'm assuming you don't want a kid right now. i think you should sit down & talk to your bf about it. think about all of the things that could happen if you have sex. maybe you want to make a list of the pros & cons in having sex & see if you guys want to er not.
-hope that helped!♥
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