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Well, my names Kenzie. I dont judge or label people and i dont like anybody stuck up. To me that's just a way to ask to be beat up. I am kind of shy and I need to get over it. Once people get to know me im more talkative and really fun to be around.
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Age: 14
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I just had a tooth pulled about 6 hours ago. The doctor said not to smoke or drink alcohol, but I didn't ask for how long. I was wondering if anyone knew this, as I really don't want to cause an infection. (link)
I would wait a few days before you drank alcohol or smoked.


One day, lets just say "Bob", he wrote me a note saying 'hey, and somehow we got into a sexual conversation. He was asking me ?'s such as, who did you make out with and did you ever give head? Later that week, we started talking online alot. We started liking each other. While all this happening, he had a long term girlfriend, although they broke up about 9 or 10 times. They broke up about 2 weeks ago, and have stayed broken up. I talked to a few people and they said that he might be trying to get a fast fuck. They said this because it was a little weird that he just now started talking to me. Before this we never spoke. Do you think that he is being truthful or is he trying to use me? (hes called me several times and has asked me to hang out)

well any advice would be helpful. thanks (link)
I don't think hes using you. Maybe he really likes you. Agree to hang out with him one day and see what happens. If it seems like hes just trying to get with you then you should just say that you don't wamt a friendship with him like that. But if around him you feel happy and feel that hes not trying to use you than i would go for it!


What goes lace hands,mean?
Like does it usually mean something? (link)
Lace hands? I think thats holding hands.


A friend has had a lot to drink, and they are on the verge of collapsing or throwing up, etc. I'm good at the emotional consolation stuff when people get upset, but what about what I should do physically?

Should they lie down, sit upon the floor, sit in a chair? Should they drink water? Should I get them to eat something? Should I take their wrists and make them wave their arms to keep blood rushing? Should I get them to walk? Should they be outside in the fresh air, or in the warmth? Where should I be, sitting side by side with them, sitting on the floor with my chest to their back?

Secondly, if I'm also drunk and I think that the atmosphere around me is getting aggressive, how can I accelerate sobering up to retain the role of a coordinator and get people sorted out?

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If they are wayyy wayy drunk, its good to stay near them so if they fall or something, you're there to grab them so they don't hurt themselves. What you should do when they're drunk is make them sit somewhere and have them sip on some water. Have a trash can near by incase they throw up. I wouldn't get them something to eat until they can drink some water and walk a little straight. Just to know they can keep it down then you should get them something to eat. Take them outside where theres some air.


I have a curious question. I know that there are different ways to get an abortion but i would like to know if anyway causes risks to future pregnancies and if so, which method of abortion causes the least risk.??? (link)
If you get an abortion once, you still can get pregnant in the future. An abortion is just a way to terminate the pregnancy and can't prevent future ones. If you don't want to get pregnant, just take birth control and use protection.


Okay, Why do guys care so much about a girls weight? Like skinny isnt in right now..and yeah thats a fact if ya believe it or not..most guys want meat on their girls bodies but why would they care? Like, I want a fit guy but a want some meat on him..i dont want him to be all ugh. I just wanna kno why they care!!??

I rate high

xox,
Confused

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Guys care sooo much about weight because most are shallow. Im not trying to sound conceited or mean or anything, but thats the reason why I get turned down from a guy I really like. They say its because they're after somebody else but I know its because im over 80 lbs.


I'm 5'2" and weigh about 105 pounds. I am perfectly aware that I am NOT overweight. If anything, I am a few pounds underweight, and have no plans to lose weight. I have never been self concious about my weight.

Why do these girls who weigh even less than me and are taller than me insist on obsessing about losing weight!? Day after day I see these questions. "I weigh 50 pounds and am about 6 feet, am I fat like OMGZ?!?!" (Obvious exaggeration, you get the point.) What is wrong with everyone??... I don't want to hear that BS about "oh the media blah blah"... everyone blames EVERYTHING on the media. Why are all these little girls so freakin' impressionable?! I was never so impressionable to feel fat just because there was some anorexic model on the cover of some magazine. I think it's pathetic. Why are people like this? (link)
They think they need to be way skinny in order to impress a boy. I know how it is to be turned down because of certain things and it may be true that they want to be soooo skinny because they're either self conscious or really jealous of what others look like. I don't think its all that healthy and it is totally pointless.


Is it better to excercise right after you wake up in the morning or right before you go to bed at night? Which one will give you more results? Also, any advice on what is the best type of excercise to do to lose weight and tone your whole body? Thanks! (link)
I think the best time to exercise is either in the morning or in midday. Exercising wakes you up and helps you lose weight. Any type of exercising would work. You can jog, go to the gym or something around the house


I used to be able to sing "okay" But then I became a cheerleader for 7 years and now I sound like a man when I sing. I'm afraid to sing in the car to the radio or when I'm goofing off with my friends because I hate my voice and no one else likes to hear it. Is there anyway to make my voice any better? I love singing but I hate my voice! (link)
Some ways to get the singing voice back is to practice to some country or pop songs that you like. Do some warm ups with your voice. That uusually helps.


i was wondering where can i get the old ipod? because i dont want a nano and i dont really want to pay for the video ones

and are they worth it.. because ive heard good and bad from people



if you tell me ebay, google it, or yahoo it or anything along those lines you will be rated a 1! anyone can do that (link)
You can get iPods from pretty much anywhere nowadays. Radio Shack, Best Buy, Circuit City, even Walmart. All they do is play music from your favorite artists. But I think they're pretty cool.


Just curious, can birth control pills give you cancer? My mom keeps telling me its true and I actually think that they prevent cancer... (link)
Birth Control Pills prevent pregnancy. I've never heard that they were actually cancer related.


Every month when I get my period I never know when its coming so I almost ALWAYS stain my underwear. Is there anyway I can stop this or figure out when its going to come?

-Thanks. (link)
Well, it varies from person to person since everybody is different. Usually it takes 1 to 2 years from when you very first started for the cycle to become normal so its usually hard to tell when its going to happen.


hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering do online relationships work?

**sleepiesheep** (link)
You can never trust anybody online. Lets say you go into a chatroom and somebody instant messages you saying that they are your age and an attractive male from the same area. You shouldn't trust what he says because for all you know he is some registered sex offender looking for his next victim. If you tell him what you look like and everything, he will most likely plan to meet up and something might happen. The only online relationships that work are the ones that you have outside of the internet.......the REAL ones. If your boyfriend has a screename and you talk with him, I think that would be okay.


i am 15/f highschool, and i want to have sex, badly. i know that i'm ready for it. but my boyfriend and i both agree on waiting til theres a time where we dont have to worry about getting caught, and when he can actually love me after and not me have to leave, you know, well, i live in wilson. and i'm also afraid itd going to get around, but its weird cuz. i trust him. and dont think that he will tell anyone, but i dont trust myself.. kinda. i meaan, i told people when i gave my ex a handjob, and shit, but i kinda think sx, is a diff, story, you know, my mom would kill me if she found out.

confused& hatin hormones (link)
Well, if you think you're ready for it, then go ahead and do it. Just be sure to protect yourself. If you have been seeing each other for a long time and feel the same way about oneanother then you should do what you think is good for each other.


i need some make up tips. 13/f and i love makeup but want some other ways to put it on but not look like i tried to hard because i am going to where it to school every day. If this helps * 13/f light brown hair brown eyes long oval face big nose perfect shaped eyebrown thin upper lip lower lip normal size great attitude i want to shine* and be noticed *much love i rate!!!
p.s. websited helpful!!!!***** (link)
You don't need a lot of make up to get noticed. Just put on a mellow color that brings out your eyes and maybe a little color on the cheeks. You don't want to put on too much makeup.


My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. I love him to death. I do everything with him and Hes probably my closest bf Ive had.

Latley though (meaning the last 2 months) Ive notice he's been worring NON stop. I mean I have to promise him everything. He'll ask me if i love him and I'll say of course! and he will ask ... are you sure? do you promise? He always has to re ask me over and over if im going to call him that night or make sure plans are to be w/ him and no one else. We have talked about this worrying thing before and He said he would work on it, but its not getting any better.

Soo guys ... why do you worry? Or is it just my boyfriend. I am one of those girls that can work out anything so breaking up w/ him isnt an option. Him knowing that I dont know why he worries soo much. It HAS TO STOP THOUGH. That makes me more frustrated then anything else about him.

Please get some reason that would explain this!
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Ok. Well, you need to ask him why he is so worried. You haven't done anything wrong so it may be possible that he is just afraid of losing you to somebody else, or he may just want some attention. Spend some time together and assure him that you love him and care for him. Im sure its just a phase he is going through, but if it keeps getting worse, then you need to have a serious talk.




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