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hey my name's Sam~* i'm 14. i'm a brunette w/ brown eyes. i'm a cheerleader, & gymnast. i run track, and play volleyball. i have awesome *&* crazy friends that i love very much. i'm pretty outgoing once you get to know me. i like shopping, going to the movies, hanging out w/ friends, stuff like that. i'm great at giving advice, bc i've gone through a lot of stuff that you guys are going through. i'm a really sweet person, and a good listener! so don't be shy, ask me a question and i'll try my best to give you a good answer! and if you ever need more help, feel free to IM me on AIM anytime=)


Some More About Me



[a]ge: 14
[b]irthday: October 18th, 1990
[c]olors: pink, purple, blue
[d]ream boy: blonde hair, blue or green eyes, built, smells good, muscles..sweet, romantic..all that good stuff :-P
[e]yes: brown
[f]riends: they know who they are =)
[g]rade average: A's and B's
[h]air color: brunette
[i]ntersets: cheerleading & gymnastics
[j]obs: besides going to school, babysitting..
[k]razy: lol, sometimes..
[l]ocation: Pennsylvania
[m]aritral statis: single, for now
[n]ame: Samantha aka Sam
[o]bsession: the movie "The Notebook"
[p]izza: stuffed crust
[q]uote: have you ever wondered which hurts more? saying something and wishing you hadn't..or saying nothing, and wishing you had.
[r]ace: white
[s]ong: Candyshop -50 cent ft. Olivia
[t]ell something about you: easily hurt, and easily jealous.
[u]nbelievablly embarrising moment: the bottom of my pants ripped and i didn't notice, so i walked around school like that until one of my friends told me..and now i look back and laugh at it=)
[v]ery best thing about me: i'm a really good friend.
[w]orst thing about me: not always fully honest
[x]tremly darin stunts: well, i went down a big snowboarding run thing and i didnt know how to snowboard..ending=me on my ass
[y]ummy food: hmmm, prob. any junk food, lol
[z]odiac: Libra

**want to know anything else, just ask me!:-)




~*ratings *&* feedbacks are appreciated..xoxo

advice

So this is my first year at this new school and I came here looking forward to a whole new future and being able to restart witha clean slate and nobody knowing who you were or what you were like. And I have been doing pretty good so far I wanted to be friends with everyone, because that wasnt how it was at my old school, and that worked except I had this one bestfriend at the begining of the year now we hardley ever hang out and she says that I am just trying to be popular. She is completely wrong I think???? I tried to explain and she says she understands now but I dont think she does. What do you think I am dong trying to be popular or just trying to have a lot of friends?!?!?!?!?!?!

having lots of friends could be condsider the same as being popular, and there's no problem with wanting that, i think almost every girl at one point or another whats to have lots of friends and be popular. and it's perfectly fine as long as you don't forget your old friends, and the ones that were Always there for you. hope i helped*xoxo

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okay i have had these 2 friends for a long time and they are 2 of my best friends. lets call them dory and marsha..
but then i got a 15 year old bf who i had liked for a long time. who they doubted i could ever get with... total lake of confidence... but then you see i am also friends with marsha's sisters... when i stopped dating jon ( 15 ) i found out stuff from marsha and her sister that he told like 4 people... the thing is they didnt call me right away to tell me these things right away. and then marsha's sister stated dating him... she asked me AFTER they started dating... lake of respect!! Well here it gets down to everything:

okay well dory and marsha have been friends for way longer they treat each other better (i think) and tell me they are better friends becuase they have known eachother longer... i dont believe that length of time makes a relationship stronger or anything... hard work and effort makes a relationship strong... well they alwasy tell eachother things and i have to pry things out of them... like when one of them has family problems she always tells the other and she brings it up but then like goes "opps i wasnt suposoe to say that..." i ask her wut its abotu she says "nothing i cant say i swore not to." well they always do that 2 me... someitmes they kind of ignore me... like jsut reply with ok... un huh... and yea. stuff liek that.

today dory needed to talk to marsha abotu something... i asked her why she couldnt talk to me... she said " well marsha always says the irght thing and thats what i need " she like went on like that and i flipped out i mean i am not perfect but i dont say the wrong thing constently and marsha isnt clsoe to perfect either... infact she says the wrong thng to me all the time... it makes me furious!! I mean i had a great reason to flip out ... i started telling her everything i told you above and she says " well sometimes i tell marsha stuff and other times i tell you" the only problem is she never tells me anything!!

then she said "that she was wasting her time talking about this..." she was wasting her time listening to my problem... that makes me mad!!!

now like me and her are in a fight and i dotn know
what to do... dont tell me 2 apologize because all i wanted was to be there for her! pelase help me
i know this was long but PLEASE!!

-beccers_boo

i rate honestly!!

wow..that sucks. i'd sit them both down and talk it out. tell them how you feel, about how you feel not included at times and that they never seem to talk to you or tell you anything. if you don't think they'll listen in person, then write them each a note. that way you can say what u have to say w/o getting interupted. after you talk to them and stuff, if their really your bestfriends they should understand where your coming from and try to fix the problem. if they dont, then their not worth your time anyway. let me know how it goes..hope i helped*xoxo

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first of all your really pretty. ok anyway, i've been hearing rumors that my boyfriends been cheating on me with some girl that goes to another school. he's cheated on my twice before, but i forgave him bc he apologized and said he'd never do it again. so i asked him about it and he said no, and that he loved me and that he'd never do that to me..should i believe him or the rumors? thanks~

thank you~* find out who started the rumors, and find out who he supposedly cheated with. then talk to that girl and see what she says. if she says yes then chances are it's true. if he's cheated on you 2 times be4, then he'd prob do it again. and you deserve so much better then that! let me know what happens*xoxo

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k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do??

your gonna have to tell your friend. if you try keeping it from her, one way or another she's going to find out, and then she'll be even more mad then if you would have just told her in the first place. so i'd sit her down and tell her what happened, and how you feel, and just talk it out. hopefully she won't get to mad, and if she's a good friend..she'll Eventually forgive you..but she's prob. gonna be mad at first, but you'll just have to let her cool off. and as for the boy..if he cheated on your friend..then chances are he'd cheat on you too! so i'd just try to get over him..you deserve better. if you have any more questions ask! hope i helped*xoxo.

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Ok, I have this friend who I've known since like kindergarden, and she started to hang out with the people who I absolutly despise. They (I'm sure of) are using her, just to get back at me. Becasue they hate me to. So one of the girls she is haging out with, started to call me a Lesbian because me and my friend (who is a girl) were walking down the hallway locked arms (which I think is harmless). So my friend started to belive it. I thought she knew me well enough to know I'm not. I love boys I flirt with boys not girls! OMG she got me so mad. Well anyway the rumors stoped because I set everyone straight, but my firned is acting like nothing happened! She didn't even apoligesed to my face! How am I supposed to deal with such a back-staber!?. Plus I don't want to loose her as a friend. But right now, we are kinda on the edge of ending the friendship! PLEASE help!

try talking to her..not in front of the girls that dont like you..tell her that you think she owes you an apologe, and tell her that the girls arnt really her friends and are just using her. don't say it in a mean way or anything, just talk it out. if she starts being all bitchy and rude about it then shes not worth your time and friendship anyway, and you deserve better. hope i helped*xoxo

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heyy! im 13 yr. old girl.. ok so i had this friend and she was my best friend since kindergarden.. we were friends from kindergarden to 5th grade .. then came middle school .. she became somewhat popular somehow .. but she was trying wayy to hard .. anways im in 8th grade now and its only the begining of the 2nd marking period .. she has been mean and stuck up and a bitch to me .. i get upset sometimes (i dont cry but her being me to me hurts bcuz we were friends for so long) and like should i be upset or am i jealous? plz helpp !

hey, i was in the exact same situation. it's like she's a totally different person. but if she's going to be fake and be someone totally different, just so the "popular" crowd likes her..then she's not worth your time. just hangout w/ your other friends. you sound like a sweet girl, and deserve better then a so-called friend that's gonna be a stuck-up bitch to you! hope i helped*xoxo.

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