Ok, I have this friend who I've known since like kindergarden, and she started to hang out with the people who I absolutly despise. They (I'm sure of) are using her, just to get back at me. Becasue they hate me to. So one of the girls she is haging out with, started to call me a Lesbian because me and my friend (who is a girl) were walking down the hallway locked arms (which I think is harmless). So my friend started to belive it. I thought she knew me well enough to know I'm not. I love boys I flirt with boys not girls! OMG she got me so mad. Well anyway the rumors stoped because I set everyone straight, but my firned is acting like nothing happened! She didn't even apoligesed to my face! How am I supposed to deal with such a back-staber!?. Plus I don't want to loose her as a friend. But right now, we are kinda on the edge of ending the friendship! PLEASE help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? LoLo2454 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 10:21 pm: You just need to talk to her. Sit her down and tell her how everything is to you. How they are using her and how you are worried about your friendship with her. if you have known eachother for so long then I;m sure she will understand and see what you mean. You may get in a little fight but very doubtful. if you need anymore advice leave a message in my inbox. Hope I helped and good luck!
xoSsAaMm answered Sunday November 21 2004, 9:52 pm: try talking to her..not in front of the girls that dont like you..tell her that you think she owes you an apologe, and tell her that the girls arnt really her friends and are just using her. don't say it in a mean way or anything, just talk it out. if she starts being all bitchy and rude about it then shes not worth your time and friendship anyway, and you deserve better. hope i helped*xoxo [ xoSsAaMm's advice column | Ask xoSsAaMm A Question ]
Bigmouth247 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 8:32 pm: ok girl you deseirve a better friends. from what you are telling me she is not a very good one, if she is taking the side of her "new" friends. There are alot of other people looking out for you! Dont even try to deal with her. if she want to still be friends with you then she can come to you and apoligize. hope i helped. [ Bigmouth247's advice column | Ask Bigmouth247 A Question ]
NorthStarr answered Sunday November 21 2004, 8:19 pm: Girl let me tell you.. she isnt nuttin but a two tymer and she may mean a lot to you but it dont seem like u mean a lot to her.. i mean dont take that the wrong way... but if she dont wanna appologize to your face.... what you need a friend like that for... girl move on and chill wit other ppl.. those ppl aint worth you stress pills!! [ NorthStarr's advice column | Ask NorthStarr A Question ]
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