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advice

Well i want to have a great winter break..only like 7 more school days WooP wooP! haha but anyways..i want to do somethin sweeeet for new years ..like go to a party or something..but im not one to get invited to parties. i kinda wanna drink a lil and like kiss some boys ;) trust me im not a slut..dont worry. i just need a boy! lol what can i doo.. because i cant have a party..i wouldnt be allowed but i never get invited to any =( hmm..any suggestions?

well..
you dont always have to go to parties..
why dont you go to a friends house and have then invite some people over (not alot) and just kick it and drink... not a party but you know.. and if there is boys there just keep an eyes out for the ones who seem to be flirting with you and maybe if you get drunk enough you can make the first move... haha =) let me know what happens =)

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I have a "friend" that is sort of mean to my other friends. She excludes them and is very posesive of me. She gets angry when me and my 2 other friends do things together, without her. My other friends basically hate her, but i don't want to break the friendship off because i don't want to make an enemy. I hat being stuck in the middle!!!
~Stuck

thAt bitCh iSNt A REAl fRiENd..fORGEt hER!!

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somehow, a friend of mine found out that my best friend and i and two other guys were going somewhere next week and she invited herself to the double date and already told her date. i cant just not invite her because she is a good friend of mine nad i don't want to be mean, but i want it just to be the four of us. what do i do? what do i tell her?

be h0nest.. she sh0uld understand if n0t t0 hell with her =D ♥aMbSx0

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Hi, let me start by saying I'm young. 13f and my best friend died. Her brother was hurt really bad and i feel like it was my fault, cuz they were on their way to pic me up when a drunk driver ran into them. My friend died instantly and her brother is expected to die in the next seven-twelve days. I want to say something to him, but I don't know what and if I don't hurry, it might be too late. You can e-mail me at prettymoonbug@hotmail.com

sorry t0 hear ab0ut that. it`s n0t y0ur fault. 0ne 0f my friends died t0o. it`s a h0rrible feeling. just say s0mething t0 him. it may be t0o late. ♥

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i used to be really popular, well not really popular but i had alot of friends,well positive people to hang out with and the summer came and we drifted apart. then i met this other group of black students and they were really fun to hang out with. All of a sudden two of the girls started acting funny. turns out that they were bisexuals and they were dating each other.well after i found out, things returned to normal and we were all frinds again, dispite their sexual preferance. well then this other girl in the group decided she wanted to be a lesbian too. well then she just started dating all these girls and breaking up with them and and dating them again and so on and so on. any how she just got annoying and now all she does is fight with my other friends and make people stare at her. no matter how many time ive tried i cannot get her to leave me the hell alone. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

dude, that`s gr0ss.

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my best guy friend and i tried to start a bf and gf relationship but we feel uncomfortable being that. we just wanna be really close friends. i was wondering should i ask him to the prom and just say we can go as friends?! and when should i ask him?!

yes. that`s s0 ad0rable. it`s perfectly fine t0 ask him t0 g0 as friends. he will understand if y0u guys are that cl0se.
xox ambs xox

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14/F
ive known this girl 'jill' for about 2 years. this year at the beginning of the year we got really really close. then i got a boyfriend so things were going great. she even hooked me up with him! what i didnt know is that she liked him and never told me. So after a few days of being together, me, 'jill', my boyfriend, and 'jill's boyfriend all went to 'jill's house then to the movies. my mom picked me up like 3 seconds after the movie ended, so i gave my man a kiss on the cheek and left. what i discovered a few days after that was that when we were at 'jill's house they (her and my current b.f) made out, she pulled him aside saying she needed to talk to him and made out with him (while i was in the room next to them) and they made out after i left the movies. now since we were really close i just let it go (but didnt forgive her... i still havent yet) and this year its been on and off me and her liking the same guy and she always got him. now we were both single for like a month and things were going great, i found a guy! after a month or so of liking this guy, i heard she liked him too. and my friend got a confession out of her that she did so i was a little mad. the other day she told me that she didnt like him, she just wanted to 'break him of his innocence' (hes a good boy lol)... now next week me her and him are going to a party with a bunch of other ppl, and im gonna tell him i like him this week... anyone have advice on what i should do with 'jill'??

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well u shouldnt forgive her...she is not a true friend...do whatever feels right..dont do something that will dissapoint ur self

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my younger friend (she is in 5th Grade) keep's telling me about this boy who tells her things that are sick. And he won't leave her alone. Like, she'll go to the front of the bus and do it again. She's to afraid to tell her mom, so she asked me. I told her that she should tell the bus driver, her teacer, etc. But she's too afraid to do that. I asked her if she wnted me to talk to them and she didn't want that eather. She know's I'm a memeber of this site, so she asked me to post it. (she's not alowed on thease sights) Please help!

Maybe she should just ignore it..because if she tells her mom it could get into this huge thing and who knows what might happen to him..it all depends how old he is..??

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