i have a little situation...my best friend who i've know all my life, shes always been there i really can't remember my life without her in it. and recently we've been working out and trying to get in shape for s.b 07..and anyways i hateee that i'm saying this and thinking this, but like er i sometimes don't wanna go places with her because shes not really like pretty and i hate that i just said that. and i wanna give her a makeover because she could be soo pretty if she only wore cuter clothes for her body did some stuff with her hair, and other stuff. but i don't know what to do. i don't wanna tell her that or anything but i don't know what to do. and i just feel horrible for ever thinking. so ah i don't know what to do!
Simply have her stay the night and while there suggest you give eachother make overs, and once she sees how great she looks, she might decide to look like that in public! Also it will be super fun.
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can u explain the different meanings of different kinds of hugs? like wat does tight hugs mean? or not so tight hugs mean? does how u position your arms represent sumthing?
Haha yes differnt hugs mean different things. A tight hug either means the guy is stupid or has never hugged a girl, or he likes you. A not so tight hug normally means friends. Yes the arms mean different things like if he puts his arms diagonal when he hugs you then it probably means friends, but if he puts his arms around your waist area and then hugs you it is most likely more.
~*Brianna*~
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I have this friend...lets call the friend C. C is one of my bestest friends. C's so fun and lively and gosh, you can't tell that theres anything bad going on in C's life. C's one of the two friends that I have that are always cheerful and happy. Well, yesterday when we were being idiots and dancing in the hallways b/w class(don't ask) I saw that C cut itself on the top of C's hand and was concealing it with C's sleeves. I can understand why since C hates C's little brother, C's mom and dad are divorced, C's not all that rich, and C hates his stepdad. The thing is that I cut too... and do not lecture me on that fact. I haven't told ANYONE at my school that I cut and I want to keep it that way. I want C to stop and not cut though. I know it sounds weird and hypocritical but I wnat C to stop. I know it's a dangerous thing to do and can turn fatal at any given time. That's why I wnat C to stop. Isn't it weird that while I do the same thing I don't want C to do it? What is wrong with me for thinking that way? Why am I thinking that way? What are things I can do or say to stop C from cutting? If I try to talk about it, he ignores me and stops the conversation say he doesn't want to talk about it.
Okay, I know you want to keep your sercet but if you really want to help C you have to tell them. Tell C that you will stop if they do. Let them know that you are there for them. Everytime they cut themselves makew sure they tell you, then cut yourself. When you cut yourself let them know, that way if you hurt yourself, you are hurting them also, trust me this works. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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I feel like I am not needed. Like I don't have a purpose on this Earth. I feel like if I was gone, no one would notice. And I honestly believe that no one would. I would be gone for weeks before any of my "friends" noticed I was gone. And my family, they would all move on extremely quickly. I am always forgotten, left on the sidelines, doing nothing, locked up in my room, wishing that someone loved me....
How do I get pass this?
I feel like this a lot of the time, what I did was I told my friends how I was feeling. They told me that they would die if I died, and it really made me feel better also try to get more involded in what your friends and family do. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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The people that know me think that I'm a nice person, but people who don't, think that I'm stuck up and a goody-goody. It's as if getting good grades is a crime! They assume that I can't have a good time, which is really not true. People won't really come up and speak to me (especially boys) because of this. The problem is, that none of my friends can tell me what it is that makes me appear stuck up at a first glance. How can I appear to be a more friendly and approachable person?
The more answers, the better!
(oh, I'm not really worried about the boys. I have a boyfriend. it's just a detail.)
Well first off it is good to get good grades. Also don't change for them. As for looking more approachable, look them in the eyes, and smile. If that doesn't work then just go up to them and start a convesation. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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I have these two friends and they both lie at times. To me at times...and well one day they were asking weight. And I said I'm 160 and she said 120. now she's pretty fat and she can't in no way be 120. I was really stunned at her effort to lie. I don't want to confront her but she makes me feel like i can't trust her again.
What do I do? help me please cause it relly hurts me she lied.
She might have been being sarcastic. It will probably hurt for a while. You have to sit down and think about all the times yall have fun and then the bad, like have her lies ever gotten you all into trouble? Think about all these things. Does the bad out weigh the good? If so then just cool yalls friendship for while. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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I've known my bestfriend since 7th grade (we're now both juniors) and we're the closest two friends can get and I love her to death.
Our freshman year, we'd always hear about this girl Meagan and how slutty and bitchy she is. Meagan is a grade ahead of us. Well, 2nd semester of freshman year my bestfriend had a class with her but only for about a week because she got switched out.
Last year, my sophomore year, I was in a class with her for the whole year and at fisrt I didn't like her because of the things I've heard but we started talking and she wasn't that bad. Yeah, some of the rumors were true but she was still a good, fun friend. Now we're really good friends. Not as good as my bestfriend and I, but nevertheless, friends.
So whenever I'm with my bestfriend, and I talk about Meagan, she gives me this disgusted look and talks smack about her. I tell her to shut up and not talk about people she doesn't know and then that's the end of it.
Meagan and I are going to a concert in July and I asked my bestfriend if she wanted to come with us because I know she likes that band. Well, she told me that if Meagan is going, she isn't.
How can I get her to stop being so judgmental and at least try to actually meet her?
I think your friend might not like her not only because of the rumors, but she also might feel like she is being replaced. Tell her how much you care about her, and also tell her that it would mean a whole lot if she would atleast give Meagan a chance. With any luck she will say yes and then it is concert time! Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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Okay so im friends with these 3 gerls that are friends with this kid.and this kid "raped" my friend and i dont know if i really believe her only cause this kid is wicked nice and like i dont think that he can hurt anyone cuz he is soo sweet. I hung out with him last friday and i like him as a friend and i think he increadibly niice. and i dont knoe if i should keep hanging out with him or if i shouldnt.. i dont want to loose my friend cuz she will find out sooner or later that i hung out with him and then she'll be even more mad and i dont want to tell her that i hung out with him..What should i do..
Should i tell her or should i keep it a secret and should i be firends with him or not/?
Don't hide it she will find out and be even more mad. Tell her to go to the hospital and have a rape kit done. I hink you should just believe what ever you want because you know your friends. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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I'm moving schools this summer. I went to visit my new school, and very few ppl were nice to me. Everyone else knows that i just came from a privite school, so they hate me and treat me like garbage. I no that all privite school students are different, and i know that i am! I really don't care what other ppl think, but i really want to make friends at my new school. How can i show them that i'm a normal person and not a snobby rich student they think i am? I really want to make friends their, but it's so hard when they don't know the real me. How can i show them?
Well first If your new school dosen't have a dress code then wear what you feel comfy in. Show off the real you be yourself and in time you will be rewarded with friends! Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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my parents are way overprotective. like my friends are allowed to stay out til 11 or later, and i have to be back before dark! what can i do?
Well prove to your parents that you are trust worthy get a job, start helping around the house. Hope I helped!
~*Brianna*~
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