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Lately me and my best guyfriend have been getting in lots of fights, and I feel like he wants to end the friendship. I've asked and he said he doesn't, but everytime we're trying to solve our problems I feel like I'm pushing him away, like making him not want to be my friend. In all honesty, he's doing the same to be, but I would never end our friendship. Is there anything I can do to make him want to be my friend? Stop the fights/stop solving problems? Anything, I need help! (link)
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He may just be going through a hard time at home which is putting him on edge and something is making him snap. you should give him some space and try again to understand what is wrong. It could just be personal.
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One of my friends steals. Not from stores, but from us! (her friends) she wont admit it. She just recently stole my mac shadestick, and those arent that cheap. She will not confess to it and i KNOW she has it. She stole my friends iPod, and steals my other friends clothes a lot. I really want my shadestick back because its my fav one and i had it the morning before she came over then after she left it was gone. I dont know what to do to get her to confess? She also makes up a lot of lies and stuff .. what should i do? (link)
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Well, technically that's against the law so you could threaten her in a way you wont get in trouble d=from. Tell her you will go to the authorities if you and your friends don't get your stuff back. Then I would be friends with her any longer. It's not worth it if the only reason she is friends with you is for your stuff. Good Luck!!=]
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Alright so im 16/f and there is this guy that i like and we are friends, but he's in college. Anyways hes coming home next weekend, and we are hanging out on friday night. My queestion is, what are some things that we can do. Not too expensive, and nothing like really romantic because I dont know if he likes me like that, and its the first time we've hung out by ourselves, with out other people
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Try going to see a romantic movie, like The Holiday or something like that. it gets you into the mood without it being awkward! Have fun!
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td on the bus, my one friend jackie was sitting in front of my other friend natalie. i was sitting in the seat next to natalie but then krista moved me in. so, krista told me that like jackie whispered something to natalie about me and she knows for fact it was my name and that it might have been something bad. i dont want to make a big deal out of it since it might not even be true, but this isnt the first time i've heard about them saying rude stuff about me. i dont want to jump to conclusions when it might be a misunderstanding. what should i do? (link)
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Never jump to a conclusion. Just Sit next to them again and see if they mention your name for yourself. Ignore the other girl, she may want to get rid of your friendships. Good luck!
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the convo between me and my friend in IM
friend: does it matter if i look at his myspace?
friend: NO.
me:iono its your choice
friend: yeah i know
friend: but yer like so surprised
me: wtf im not
friend: yer like REALLY?
friend: WTF?
me: (laughing out loud)
friend: and stop saying WTF
me: noooooooo
friend: say WtH or something
me: wht
me: why*
friend: cuz its not a good habit
me: i like wtf better
friend: just dont use it when yer talking to me
friend: you give me the wrong idea
friend: lke your mad
friend: haha
friend: iono
me: why do you think im mad
friend: cause you say
friend: WTF
me: so?
friend: nvm
what is she trying to say? whats wrong with saying wtf? i mean why does she cares if i say wtf? but is she trying to be a good friend for saying this?
WTF=what the f*ck (link)
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Well, there could be something going on at their house or with a friend and it bugs them hearing that word, knowing what the impression is giving. whenever someone is saying wtf, it implies that their mad. so you can say it with anyone else, just don't use it with that one person. Hope I helped!
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ok so in 6th grade i was best friends with a gil named ashley and starting in the middle of 7th grade i realized she was fake no t to sound cocky but she wants ot b mee ommg i cant stand her anymoreee helpp now im in 9th grade still hate her but even more but she doesnt no it and still thinks were friends she told my other friend that she thought i was drifting away from her and she didnt think i liked her cause i made a new best friend and my mom still wants me to talk to ashleyy wat should i do i have a new bst friend and i dont like her and i think she nos it ill give u good ratings if u think of somethin origanal not just tell her (link)
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you may want ot keep all the people you meet through life close to you. You never know when you're going to need them.You can tell her you need some space. If she is really your best friend, she'll understand. Good Luck!
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MY FRIENDS ARE HORRIBLE!
They can't go ONE place without causing MAJOR drama, someone is always crying, there always embarrassing me, i hate them. I CAN'T STAND THEM. I go to a catholic school, so its not like i have all the choices in the world to make friends with people.
How can I make them better?
or what can i do!?!!! (link)
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You may need to leave them and find some other friends. They may be a burden in some way and ruining your grades. Hope it all works out!
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My friend,shes like very smart but she acts dumb on purpose,and shes kinda messy for a girl shes also kinda loud and obnoxious,alot of people find her very annoying after awhile.people started taking advantage of her and treating her like shes "slow" she wants to change and is trying,but how can she suceed if people dont give her the chance? in other words shes getting kinda of tired of people treating her like "crap" and wants people to know who she really is. (link)
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I have a similar girl in my school that acts like this and I know how the others feel. SHe's really obnoxious and doesn't know how to keep a secret. I used to hang around with her, but she only got me in trouble. I was in the guidance office like every week. It's hard to trust a person once they've betrayed it. Multiple times. So din't take it personally. She may have done something to get those kids so annoyed before you were such good friends with her. Don't sweat it and good luck!
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I`m well liked at school, I have alot of friends. However, I find myself being mean at times. I try not too, but a sarcastic remarks slip out constantly, and I tend to gossip. I've cut down alot, but I'm trying to stop all together.
Any tips on how to be a sweeter person?
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Well, it could be the TV shows you're watching or if you sleep with the radio on turned to a rap station and it's just stuck in your mind. God luck!
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My boyfriend was with a girl for 6 months. Now weve been together for almost two months, but the other day he called me his exs name. What do I do? (link)
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You're going to have to confront him first and if he still has feelings for the girll then you need to decide whether he's worth it and if you can live with the slip up! good luck ;)
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I'm so confused. I've liked this guy for about 2 years, and over the summer I didn't see him at all. He's not in any of my classes, but at lunch, I sometimes look over at him. I try not to though. I say I don't like him, but I don't even know if I do! My friend said that he was talking about me before (he was like, "remember when I made her cry last year" to his friends) I think he was doing that to "impress" his friends because he never acted like that in front of me.
13/f (link)
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Well if he needs to impress his friends with stories about him bullying other kids, I don't think that sets the greatest impression. Though you can't change your mind from what you heard. Try and talk to him and make sure he really likes you before you make your move, Hope this helped. ;)
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First of all... my friend broke up with her ex a few months ago. He was devastated, and they never got back together. She likes someone else now.
Well, I liked her ex for a little while, but it was just a little crush, and it faded away (I told her I liked him, and then I told her that I didn't like him anymore).
A few days after I told her I didn't like him anymore, she confessed to me that she would be really jealous if he went out with anyone, since she still kinda has feelings for him. But, she likes someone else (who likes her back) and said that she wasn't going to go out with her ex again.
But now.. I like her ex again. He's so perfect. It's more than just a little crush. But she doesn't know that I like him again. I know I should talk to her about it, but how do I do that? What should I do? Thanks! (link)
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Well, I would tell your friend first so that if you guys started dating, then it wouldn't be a total surprise. Second is if and when you tell her, mention the last time tyou had a crush on him. Then maybe she'll get the hint and just leave it at that. Hope this helped! :]
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16/f
sorry if this is long but i really need help.
okay so theres this boy. i like him alot. we arent together .. we just like each other and just do stuff with each other. but like he always botheres me about talking to a boy and all and like i heard he wanted to get with some girl and even commented to her saying stuff related to that. and like im mad and i dont know what to do. stop talkign to him and answering his phone calls. or tell him about it. or like what should i say (link)
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it all depend on whether you're up to taking the risk of loosing him as a best friend. but if he seems to like you, i would definitly tell him. he may just be saying it to make you jealous and to see how you feel. hope i helped.
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I just recently moved to a new town a few weeks ago. I started school today and I talked to a view people but didn't seem to meet anyone friendly. Is there a good way to make new friends at a new school? the school is actually really small compared to my old school. Any help is appreciated thank you. (link)
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I know how you feel. i moved to my school at the beginning of 4th grade. i didn't make friends right away, but within a week or so, i made a lot of new friends. give it some time and you'll have friends in no time!
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hey! 16/f
i might be having a couple people over tomorrow! i have a trampoline but that will get very old very fast and i dont know what else we could do! because my friends need to be entertained 24/7 they get bored easily and there will be a couple boys but my parents will be home! we cant go anywhere because my car is in the shop getting fixed so yeah what could we all do because im going to feel bad if they are like ok this is boring what should we do.. (link)
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Well, if one of them have a car and you live near the beach, go to the beach. Or go to the movies, rent movies, or just hang out outside. Go for a walk or something.
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My best friends told me about a month or two ago they were both bi. About two weeks ago, they started "going out" I was cool with them being Bi before, we just went along being friends. But now that they're going out its totally ackward, gross, and I just can't stand being around them. Me and them have really drifted apart since the summer started cause they got into it with guys who are big into sex and weed. Is it time for me to get new friends? How do I go about doing that, I don't want to look like a loner. (link)
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well, you can still hang out with them while you're looking for other friends. ALso don't cut them off completely when you do find another freind. If how they're acting bothers you, tell them. If they don't like it then you need to find new friends.
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I never feel like my best friend likes me as much as I like her. We live in different towns and weve been having so much fun this summer..but then her other best friend came back from vacation and now shes going to be hanging out with her the whole rest of the summer. Im really sad because shes only known her new best friend for a few months and Ive known her for 6 years and I feel jealous & forgotten. She always writes xanga entries about the other friend and says how much she LOVES her and puts her in her profile and she barely says anything about me.. I dont know I feel like Im losing her. Her xanga said shes hanging out with the girl next weekend and we had plans for then. Im so sad. What do i do?? I cant talk to her, she has the friend over and I dont want to start drama/be jealous and stuff. Help??? (link)
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Just because your best friend has a best friend, doesn't mean she doesn't like you anymore. Call her and keep things as normal as possible. Maybe you could hang out with both her and her other best friend. Everyone has more then one best friend. Hope I helped!
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Ok my friend (who is a guy, and I am a girl) just broke up with his girlfriend, who is another friend of mine. And ever since the break up My guy friend and me have been spending a lot of time together...while the his ex is moving on with other guys(if you know what i mean) I think he is using me as a way of not to deal with the pain. I feel so bad for him because I can see how much he is hurting and everytime I bring her up he changes the subject. I don't want to push...but i want to help him get over it. How can i do that? If you look at him you can tell he is in pain...just he trys to cover it up. I don't want him to know that I know he is in pain. So what should I do? Any help would be amzing! (link)
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I'm sorry if this seems a little harsh, but he needs to get over his pain the quickest way, which would be to leave him alone. If you're easing his pain, it's going to last longer than needed. Give him some time to himself. Hope I helped!
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WEll i got this friend that i been getting into fights with alot but we seemed to get over them really quick but then one day i really got mad and chewed her out and this has been about three weeks ago and i really miss talking to her so i went and bought her flowers today and dropped them off at her house and then i get on the internet later and she sends me a message and says sorry you wasted your money but nothing is going to change and now i dont no what to do and the thing is all my other friends are really good friends with her and if i lose her they will forgwt about so what should i do?? (link)
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I'm really sorry! I went through the same thing. Sit down and talk to her one on one in person. Explain your side of the story then have her explain hers. Try and work out from there. Hope I helped!;)
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