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my friends. =/
MY FRIENDS ARE HORRIBLE!
They can't go ONE place without causing MAJOR drama, someone is always crying, there always embarrassing me, i hate them. I CAN'T STAND THEM. I go to a catholic school, so its not like i have all the choices in the world to make friends with people.
How can I make them better?
or what can i do!?!!!
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I know EXACTLY how you feel. Thats a small school for you. My solution? I switched schools. I now go to a school 2 towns over, with 2000 people in it and I LOVE IT. But I understand that may not be an option for you (but if it is, I 100 percent reccomend it!)
Now, other options. Is there ANY other people you can hang out with? Maybe even if you don't really like them, get to know them, they could surprise you. Maybe in other grades?
Another thing you can do is just be the nice girl. It may not help EVERY issue, but it will help with the drama. Seriously, it helps. Don't talk about people behind their backs at all. When your friend has a problem, help resolve it, be there to listen, but don't be negative.
Maybe get friends out side of school. At church, on a sports team, bowling league, kids of your parents friends, friends of your cousins, people like that, that maybe you wouldn't normally think of. There's all kinds of places to meet people.
Good luck with everything
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oh crap, omg i feel so bad. im in catholic school and THE SAME crap happens. I don't know what it is about Catholic schools, but even at parties and stuff PRETEND YOU DONT SEE THE BAD STUFF thats what I do hehe and end up having a blast with people I never got to know.
if it doesnt work, tell me what happened, and ill try to suggest better
peace.
-jan
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You can't make them better but what you can do is realize you out grew their friendship and either
(a) expand your friends, join more clubs and meet different people
(b) When your friends do cause major drama, simple leave. Eventually, they'll get the idea and stop the behavior when you're around.
I'm not saying you should stop being friends with them, but limit your time spent with them instead.
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If they aren't people you enjoy, then you should find new friends.
Similar intrests, same music, or try to explain not to make a huge deal over the little things in life.
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You may need to leave them and find some other friends. They may be a burden in some way and ruining your grades. Hope it all works out!
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