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best friends 4 not so much L


Question Posted Monday October 30 2006, 9:21 pm

ok so in 6th grade i was best friends with a gil named ashley and starting in the middle of 7th grade i realized she was fake no t to sound cocky but she wants ot b mee ommg i cant stand her anymoreee helpp now im in 9th grade still hate her but even more but she doesnt no it and still thinks were friends she told my other friend that she thought i was drifting away from her and she didnt think i liked her cause i made a new best friend and my mom still wants me to talk to ashleyy wat should i do i have a new bst friend and i dont like her and i think she nos it ill give u good ratings if u think of somethin origanal not just tell her

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geegollyHOLLY answered Wednesday November 1 2006, 9:01 am:
you may want ot keep all the people you meet through life close to you. You never know when you're going to need them.You can tell her you need some space. If she is really your best friend, she'll understand. Good Luck!

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MelLeDisko answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 4:48 pm:
I would just continue talking to her, so nobody's feelings are hurt or anything, but limit the amount you talk to her. Whenever you do talk to her, mention your best friend ( but not in a mean way! you want to be sort of respectful of her feelings & everything ). If you two are discussing what you guys did over the weekend, just be like,"Oh, I've recently made this new friend. She's like one of my best friends, are we finally hung out together this weekend for the first time, so yeah, it was cool. What about you?" And carry on nice conversation while slightly hinting you've moved on.

And if she hangs out, just tell her you've made other plans, sorry, maybe another time ( and it's your choice wether there's another time or not ). Once she sees how busy you are, she hopefully realize you're not that interested in being best friends with her, just mere accquaintances and everything.

So basically, just keep living life however you want it, but just talk to her in school or something every now and then just to keep her happy and your mother happy.

I hope I helped.

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PANiCxATxTHExDiSCO answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 6:47 am:
All of this may sound mean, but it'll work.

Well, I used to have a friend like that. All that you can do is just find a way to get her mad at you. She'll expect you to apologize, but don't. Just tell her that it's her loss. Another thing that you can do is just start acting like she's really annoying and stop talking to her unless she says something to you. Try to do a bunch of things without her. She might either give up on being your friend or she'll get mad at you. And once again, you can tell her that it's her loss and don't apologize.

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