Theirs this one guy named Christian and i met him when his family came to visit ours(their from ohio). now hes a family friend. i secretyly kindof liked him. his family stayed at our house for 4 days. after he and his family left my mom told me that his mom told her that he liked me. i wrote him telling him i liked him. we became pen pals. then emails. then iM, and now hour long phone calls almost everynight. one day on a 3d im i kissed him and he told me he loved me. i've never said i luv you to any guy besides family and i'd always wanted to save it till i knew it felt right to say it. but i did really love him. and i'm 14 and hes 15 but we have simular familys and intrests and i cant stop thinking about him. but hes in Ohio. and i like this guy at my school and we've become really close. now i feel like i'm cheating on Christain (from ohio) and i'm not even dating this guy at my school. i dont know what to do. i dont think it'll ever work between me and christian but i've never felt so in love w/ a person. what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Mini_Cutie answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 10:47 am: OMG Girl, You have the same problem as me Im in a long distance relationship and it suck because no joke he is on my mind 24/7 all day long we talk every night every day we have never met but i feel so much for him the reason you cant stop thinking about him is because its a little thing called love and also you should not feel like your cheating on him unless you are actually go out with some one else i understand what your going throgh because im going through it too One more thing i guessing sometimes you love this person so much it hurts sometimes listen to your heart no one else can make you this choice XxXplease let me noe how everything goes please thankyou XxX [ Mini_Cutie's advice column | Ask Mini_Cutie A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 3:24 am: Long distance relationships are hard. I'm not saying it's not going to work, but you should consider your options. You can date this guy at your school and see what all happens with that-or you can keep staying with Christian.
You seem to really like Christian, so I don't see a problem unless you aren't a long distance kind of girl. It takes very hard work and you both have to put in all of your efforts to keep it alive.
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