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Bi friends?
My best friends told me about a month or two ago they were both bi. About two weeks ago, they started "going out" I was cool with them being Bi before, we just went along being friends. But now that they're going out its totally ackward, gross, and I just can't stand being around them. Me and them have really drifted apart since the summer started cause they got into it with guys who are big into sex and weed. Is it time for me to get new friends? How do I go about doing that, I don't want to look like a loner.
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well, you can still hang out with them while you're looking for other friends. ALso don't cut them off completely when you do find another freind. If how they're acting bothers you, tell them. If they don't like it then you need to find new friends.
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Well, if it is awkward, let them know. Don't tell them to break up, but let them know that you are not sure you're going to be comfortable. If they take it the wrong way, then let it go. There's nothing else you can do. As for getting new friends, just try starting out with talking to one person and work your way from there. If it helps, let them know you're trying to make friends because of a bad situation at the moment. Also - contact any old lost friends.
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Just talk to new people,and trust me,its better being a loner for a couple of days then hanging out with people that will influence you in a bad way.Talk to people that are your freinds but you didnt get to hang out with them alot.Good luck.
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dude i kno how you feel a few years back my friends told me they were bi... and they started dating.. but the never did any thing like make out while i was with them... you could ask your friends to not do stuff like thataround you... and as for the weed preoblem... i think you really need to talk to them about that.., it will really mess up there life... o yea and some times at peoples teen years the "think" they are bi... but it turns out they are just experimenting and trying to figure out for sure what they really do like... i went though it... and it wasnt for me.. im sure every thing will be ok hope i helped!
EmMi
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it really is up to you. they are your friends so it shouldn't be a big deal that they're bi with each other. if you don't like the crowd they hang with, maybe hang out with others more & only hang out with them once in awhile. its really up to you. juss start talking to newer people. once you start school [or if you did already] you can meet people in your classes or join a club/sport.
-hope that helped!♥
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