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okay guys, i'm morgan, people call me mo though i lovee helping people, and will hopefully succeed as you ask a question! i really hate when people give me low ratings because i'm being honest, its really low of them! don't ask me a question if your looking for a compliment or advice that is sugar coated! i'm not like that, so please take me more seriose than that!xo_xoxx so giive all the problems you can think about! ily, mo!♥

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14/f
about 4 years ago all the guys i new at school hated me, and i cried just about everynight. slowly we became friends again, im frineds with them now. im confused aobut guys and trust, does that have anything to do with it?

probably not, you should keep your guys rfiends, btu fnd new ones! there are a lot of guys out there, that you can totally trust! hope this helps hunny! ily, morgan♥!

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So, I'm 15/f and he's 15/m and we've been friends since 6th & he's one of the bffls that you love but never do anything together? Haha, weird friendship, I know.

Anywhos. Well, since 6th grade, I began to like him and in 7th grade he turned me down when I asked him to go to the dance with me. Ever since I've accepted that we're just friends and nothing more. I was really starting to get over him during the summer after 8th grade [We didn't have an classes together since that one class in 6th grade]. But during our 9th grade, he was in few of my classes [both Pre-IB kids so we're gonna be in the same classes a lot from now on] and we instantly became better bffl's if that makes sense. Like we created a lot of inside jokes & we were like partners for everything like labs, checking work, writing, class work, and basically everything. And then my feelings for him started to come back and it's been on and off [my liking for him that is] And out of no where, he's called me cutie a few times & I'm confused as to if he's just being friendly or jokingly or what? Cliche sounding but he's already broken my heart several times [esp when he kept on making himself to his now ex-gf for the longest time] & I don't know what I'm suppose to take the "cutie" thing as. I'm probably over thinking it. But do you think he's just saying that in a friend manner or more? Thanks =)

idk, his fealign mights have changed too! just keep doing what your doing, and if somthing happens, ita fate! i believe in fate BIG time, so maybe you guys will be together! and when he said, "cutie" he probably mett in both ways, he wanted you to think in a friend way, but he mett more, but didn't want it to seem like that! hopefully this helps! ily, morgan!

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well ill say hes sean im sue and my other guy friend is john. ok the party...i kinda talked to him but nothing good i guess like hi and in the pool he played football i did some of the time but when i wasnt he kept catching the ball and running towards me and say sue move and be smiling. then i was with my other best friends that came 2 girls and a guy. were the kinda people to wrestle and stuff and just do stuff to eachother. well the guy and i were with eachother alot...and like sitting RIGHT by eachother on the pool steps and wed jump on eachother throw pool toys squirt eachother with squirt guns ok it was a war kinda a play war lol. i guess in the pics someone took we were kinda close flirty. they kept retaking pics of us because they were gona give them out and i had only one that was me sitting. sean looked like he was gettin so jelous hed come over say dont hurt her im like im fine were just joking and he would just like splash john or something when i wasnt looking. they hated eachother before people call john rainbow and he used to before i became friends with him then i told him to stop. sean is NEVER the jelous kind of person with any other girls but lately...me. and also when we went to the carnival. sean he was spying and i was with alot of my friends including john i asked a question about that acting as sean. i couldnt help it i didnt notice ive just been so love sick lately. i sholdnt be at john he did nothing or sean he didnt either or me i just dont know. WHAT DO I DO? HE WONT TALK TO ME now he wont even sign on aim. i didnt notice it hurt him so bad. i told him i was sorry that john is JUST my friend nothing more. but i also said that before to sean that we were friends nothing more when it was going crazy when we loved eachother. WHAT DO I DO! i cant take it. i hurt him so bad and i couldnt help it i didnt notice it i can talk to him till the next party in about a week which he might not go cuz its one of my bffs and id go unles its fixed by then. i just feel so love sick and i know that is NOT an excuse but it became worse then ever i NEVER felt that bad. -13/f-

don't be so ahrd on yourself! if you know what you did wrong, your fine! now the friends, tell john that you didn't WANT to hurt his fealings! and you were flirting but not on purpouse! it just came out, even thoug it still doesn't make it okay! call him up and tell him thsi, it might be hard, but ti will be worth it! i promise! ily, morgan

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one of my best guy friends, we'll call him joe, is really pissed off at me right now and i dont know what to do about it. we got in a fight over something really stupid, and i apologized over and over and said what i did was wrong and we should just forget about it (even though it was really dumb) but he's just really mad. he was acting like we're never gonna be friends again and he's never gonna not be mad. he even took me off his to 24 or whatever. should i let him cool off? for how long? and how should i approach him about this? why is he doing this ? ahhh help

i know it might feal really stupid to be serious about this because u siad the fight wasn't seriose, but if you handle it like he handles it, it might be good! tell him that your sorry [again] and that you want to be frends with him agian, and you will wait! [it would probably feal more comfortable if you did this over myspace or aim, but whatever you want!] he's probably just looking for drama or a fight, because idk, guys are gay! hah, but who knows? maybe hes just being a jerk, and then will forget about it later! hope everythnig goes good

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whenever a guy flirts with me,
for some reason i always say something mean, back, or kinda mean, maybe its just the way i flirt?
but i dont know how to act to them?
this sounds so stupid, oh well

omg! i know guys don't like when your mean back to them! no offence because i know a lot of girls who do it, but its kinda childish! maybe if you can just laugh or somthing! idk, but don't do that! [although its probably natural, because you have been doing it for a while] ily, mo.

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Okay, these girls that stabbed me in the back, started rumors, & talked about me behind my back & I don`t want to have anything to do with them. Plus, my mom wants me to not even be in the same room with them cause I was crying for basically a week cause of them.

One of them told one of my actual friends that they were going to throw me a surpise birthday party since I couldn`t have one. I`m having one ... I`m just not inviting them, so I told them I wasn`t even having one. I blocked their screen name, phone number, e-mail ... everything. The thing is, they live in my neighborhood. So if they come to my house, how do I get out of going to this thing?

simply say, i didn't feal that you would be welcome at this party! it would be akward, and i think we both know what you said about me was horrible! i deserve better friends! thank you for coming, bye! [don't be too meen!] hope that works! -morgan.

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i grew up with this guy, ryan. hes 6 years older than me and recently married with an almost 2 year old daughter, grace. grace is my goddaughter.

ryan and his wife, to say the least, they are amazing. i can call ryan at 2:00 in the morning and he'll listen to me.

i should state the fact that my life at home isnt all that great. dads been a cop since he was 19 and tends to snap in an instant. sometimes on me, throwing me across the room, sometimes at my brother, during a fist fight.

i keep ryan and his wife updated. they are both willing to come pick me up if i need them too. mom and dad know this and therefore hate ryan. his wife currently left the state on vacation and hes by himself. he called me and was like "im bored. talk to me. my wife left with grace." so i was telling him what happened when i was on vacation, and mom walked in and was like "who are you talking to?" she started freaking out. his number isnt saved in my phone because when they check the call log, they'd see his name. they freak out when i talk to him.

yea he is 6 years older than me, but we are friends. hes married and totally dedicated to his wife.

why are they so retarted about me talking to him. is it because he knows more than he should, thanks to me? in so many ways their family has saved me. i live for my goddaughter. and ryan is willing to talk to me when i feel like shit. why cant mom and dad just see this?

i knwo it seems really GAY, but they are just trying to be protective! ryan sounds like a great guy, and them being like that, isn't right! its also not cool how your dad does that to you! i don't mean to offend you if you don't believe in this, but if you do, you sohuld pray your guts out! that's all you can do right now, especially when your parents don't want to listen! :D hope this helped, i really didn't mean to offend you or anyone else! ily, morgan :D

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Female Age 14
Okay i have this ex boyfriend and his girlfriend. i mean i dont hate her or anything but then i got along with her just fine. Then the next thing i know her brother shows up 2 my school saying that he wanted to meet me. he said i was going to kill him i guess because his sister is going out with my first boyfriend. I still like him but i dont care if he is going out with someone as long as we can still be friends. But then after i meet her brother, Her and my ex both blocked me off of myspace. But i dunno why they did that and i dont know what should i do..... I need advice please! Thanks in advance.

ask. i know it sounds to simple, but sometimes if your real with a person,and you cutt the crap, it works out better! you will get a lot of respect by that too, so don't even thinjk you need advice. go with what your thinking in thsi situation! :D -mo

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hi i know i shouldent of said it but i saw it because i am on this site all the time i knew it was her because she had my name in it i was woundering because if it wasnt her then someone else had the same name and it wasnt likely

well, thanks for caring about your friend! you are probably a great friend, and its only human to care about your other friends fealings! :D hope evrything gos good! -mo =D

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hi i was just talking to my friends on line and one of my friends is rachel and she said she dident like this gye named danny any more but she was just pretending not to because one of u people that are giveing advice told her to. so i asked her if it was because of this but she said why do u want to know and i told her that i saw her post at question on it and i read one of the ansers. and she said no offence but that is none of your bee's wax. i said ok then i was going to tell izzy that she still like danny but izzy lied and that i was talking bad about rachle when i was not and now they wont stop iming me bad stuff please help!!!!!!!!

sorry to say it, but you sholdn't have gotten in the way! i jknow you want to be a good friend, but start off by sayign i'm sorry! she ca'nt help from liking him, and she needed advice! it was personal information that you accidentally saw! i jknow you were trying to help but it got worse! just a simple sorry, and mean it!

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i hope this doesnt offend anyone. my family is catholic, but i live in a place where almost everyone is baptist. all my friends go to this one really huge baptist church. and i guess at this church they believe that catholics arent really christians and wont go to heaven. i know people have different beliefs and im fine with that. but sometimes people will say stuff that really hurts me. like once i was showing my friend and her mom my baby pictures and there was a picture of me in my baptism gown. and her mom started telling me how my church is wrong to baptize babies, and how shes so glad her daughter was baptised the "right" way. and then last night i was at a sleepover and there was this girl there that i didnt know. she asked me what church i go to and when i told her, she said "oh. well, catholics arent the strongest christians." there was this big silence and no one said anything for a long time, and i didnt know what to say. i dont blame people for believing what their church and family teaches them, but i dont understand why they have to say mean things that would hurt someone. and i dont know how i should react when people say that kind of thing to me. has anyone been through something like this? and how did you handle it?

the first thing you need to do, is tell them what you believe! all about cristianatity is to "spread the good word" i know that you are trying to be respectul but its no disrespectuful to just come back and say, " well this is what i believe in, and i think its a great thing to get baptized." if they ask why you sya the things you said, maybe they will apreciate it more, just don't excepct them to change religions! ha. hope everything gos good! :]]

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So I've known this guy for a long time, and he's liked me basically the whole time. But he's the sort of guy who will like about 5 girls at once so I've never thought much about it. Even though he's said he LOVES me.

Anyways, I guess I do sort of like him back and we do some harmless flirting but it nevers gets further than that, ya whatever.

Anyways my best friend knows him, and he used to be friends with her but hates her after we had a fight and he took my side. And today she was trying to sweet talk him and he said he felt disgusted. I asked her about it online and she said she didn't know how she felt, but then later admitted she likes him. She then sent me a chat log they had in Febuary and in it they said how much they loved each other.

She then said after that chat convo they only said short "ily" to each other until that stopped. And at the same time she was telling me how much she loves him he came online and was telling me how much he loves me. And I had to lie to her and say "Yeah I think he likes you" because this girl has had her heart shattered so many times.

How do I break the news to her?

hopefully this is a close friend so it will be easier to understand! if you confront him that you know maybe he will tell her, probably not though! so in that case, tell him that he messed up, he shoudl be the one breaking her heart again, not you! i know you want to get involved, but all you can do is be there for her! let her know about what happened, and apperently stop flirting with thsi gyus, so your frioend can get herself together! if you still are crusing on him after this sistutation, she should be okay with it, if she is a really good friends, and understands you! i hope everything gos good with your situation

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13/female
at my school we have a time during lunch that when you finish, you can go outside. i hang out with a large group of my friends, but mostly with a mini-group of people. this group is called "jonathans posse". jonathan is mine and 3 other friends best friend. i love them dearly, but they act so bitchy to me. during lunch they'll be having a conversation while i sit there with them and if i say something, one will glare at me and tell me to mind my own business. these people are my best friends, remember. on the other hand, if one of us has a party, they'll act as nice and pleasant as like berries and cream. one friend actually semi-yelled at me that no one liked me and to go away, until jonathan stared at her and said "shes my friend." (awkward silence for like 30 sec.) i've become clingy to jon, but i still want to keep my friends for fear of losing everyone else with them. any one know how to earn my "friend's" respect?

THANKS

it sounds to me that you allready have earned there respect, and aparently you either do somthing wrong to make them feel this way [probably not though] or they are doing something wrong to make you feal this way. you shoudn't feel the need to get your "friends" respect if you didn't do anything wrong! if they are your true friends you shuold already have their respect! the nextr time you see "that group" act normal. act as if you never felt anything weird, ussually i wouldn't say this, but...IGNORE THE SITTUATION. they're trying to make you care about stupid stuff, like being rude to you! i know your going to do fine with this problem, just don't beat yourself up about it! you'll allways have those friends, thery won't go away just because of a silly little argument!! stick with what you belive in

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