So, I'm 15/f and he's 15/m and we've been friends since 6th & he's one of the bffls that you love but never do anything together? Haha, weird friendship, I know.
Anywhos. Well, since 6th grade, I began to like him and in 7th grade he turned me down when I asked him to go to the dance with me. Ever since I've accepted that we're just friends and nothing more. I was really starting to get over him during the summer after 8th grade [We didn't have an classes together since that one class in 6th grade]. But during our 9th grade, he was in few of my classes [both Pre-IB kids so we're gonna be in the same classes a lot from now on] and we instantly became better bffl's if that makes sense. Like we created a lot of inside jokes & we were like partners for everything like labs, checking work, writing, class work, and basically everything. And then my feelings for him started to come back and it's been on and off [my liking for him that is] And out of no where, he's called me cutie a few times & I'm confused as to if he's just being friendly or jokingly or what? Cliche sounding but he's already broken my heart several times [esp when he kept on making himself to his now ex-gf for the longest time] & I don't know what I'm suppose to take the "cutie" thing as. I'm probably over thinking it. But do you think he's just saying that in a friend manner or more? Thanks =)
Additional info, added Monday July 9 2007, 1:06 am: He & I like the rocker chic/dude rebels if that helps give you guys an idea of what he's like.
Erm, yeah..sorry this was so long but one more question:
Should I move on completely or should I keep my hopes up? We're gonna be seeing a whole lot of each other next year and in 11th and 12th grade, we'll basically be in the same classes except for our electives . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? DefinedEyes answered Monday July 9 2007, 10:39 am: Well aw, I think that is so cute. I wish I had a guy best friend, ahah it would give me some perspective on more things. But I think it may be he's just being nice. You know? Since you explained that he's a rocker dude, I know guys like that, and this sounds cliche too, but some of them just do that, and not saying that they all do. But the ones I know, have said it, and def not mean it in a 'i like you' kind of way. Just wait until something more obvious comes up,
pay attention on if he pays attention to you.
But careful so you dont wreck the friendship<3
Also to your other question,
Its your choice to move on or not, you can have a crush on more than one person you know. Its not seroius until you actually start dating the person you like. [ DefinedEyes's advice column | Ask DefinedEyes A Question ]
fiingersxcrossed answered Monday July 9 2007, 10:38 am: idk, his fealign mights have changed too! just keep doing what your doing, and if somthing happens, ita fate! i believe in fate BIG time, so maybe you guys will be together! and when he said, "cutie" he probably mett in both ways, he wanted you to think in a friend way, but he mett more, but didn't want it to seem like that! hopefully this helps! ily, morgan! [ fiingersxcrossed's advice column | Ask fiingersxcrossed A Question ]
Cmilner1607 answered Monday July 9 2007, 3:32 am: Well, he might just be friendly when he says 'cutie'. He just wants to be close friends like you two are right now. If he makes other hints that make you wonder though, then maybe he does mean something by it. So keep a heads up on that.
But, I think you should stop lingering around with him. Go find someone new to crush on sweetie.
Oh and by the way, that's why the call it a crush. Because being rejected hurts.
Good luck. [ Cmilner1607's advice column | Ask Cmilner1607 A Question ]
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