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i screwed up with my friend BIG TIME i was flirting alot wit
well ill say hes sean im sue and my other guy friend is john. ok the party...i kinda talked to him but nothing good i guess like hi and in the pool he played football i did some of the time but when i wasnt he kept catching the ball and running towards me and say sue move and be smiling. then i was with my other best friends that came 2 girls and a guy. were the kinda people to wrestle and stuff and just do stuff to eachother. well the guy and i were with eachother alot...and like sitting RIGHT by eachother on the pool steps and wed jump on eachother throw pool toys squirt eachother with squirt guns ok it was a war kinda a play war lol. i guess in the pics someone took we were kinda close flirty. they kept retaking pics of us because they were gona give them out and i had only one that was me sitting. sean looked like he was gettin so jelous hed come over say dont hurt her im like im fine were just joking and he would just like splash john or something when i wasnt looking. they hated eachother before people call john rainbow and he used to before i became friends with him then i told him to stop. sean is NEVER the jelous kind of person with any other girls but lately...me. and also when we went to the carnival. sean he was spying and i was with alot of my friends including john i asked a question about that acting as sean. i couldnt help it i didnt notice ive just been so love sick lately. i sholdnt be at john he did nothing or sean he didnt either or me i just dont know. WHAT DO I DO? HE WONT TALK TO ME now he wont even sign on aim. i didnt notice it hurt him so bad. i told him i was sorry that john is JUST my friend nothing more. but i also said that before to sean that we were friends nothing more when it was going crazy when we loved eachother. WHAT DO I DO! i cant take it. i hurt him so bad and i couldnt help it i didnt notice it i can talk to him till the next party in about a week which he might not go cuz its one of my bffs and id go unles its fixed by then. i just feel so love sick and i know that is NOT an excuse but it became worse then ever i NEVER felt that bad. -13/f-
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don't be so ahrd on yourself! if you know what you did wrong, your fine! now the friends, tell john that you didn't WANT to hurt his fealings! and you were flirting but not on purpouse! it just came out, even thoug it still doesn't make it okay! call him up and tell him thsi, it might be hard, but ti will be worth it! i promise! ily, morgan<3!
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well first of all its not your fault. i have guy friends too and sometimes it seems like theres a lot of flirting going on when really its nothing. well is there any other way you can contact sean? do you know his number, myspace, email, or something? if he has a myspace or something like that then send him a message and say your sorry and ask him if hes going to the party. tell him you want him to go to the party because you miss him. if you cant call him or contact him then try and wait for the party. if he goes then talk to him there and tell him that you dont like john and try to be flirty with sean. show him you like him. you dont have to actually tell him you like him just show him. hope it works out. =]
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