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my guy friend hatess me
one of my best guy friends, we'll call him joe, is really pissed off at me right now and i dont know what to do about it. we got in a fight over something really stupid, and i apologized over and over and said what i did was wrong and we should just forget about it (even though it was really dumb) but he's just really mad. he was acting like we're never gonna be friends again and he's never gonna not be mad. he even took me off his to 24 or whatever. should i let him cool off? for how long? and how should i approach him about this? why is he doing this ? ahhh help
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Don't worry about it and let him cool off for a few days. For the most part boys are so headstrong it's not even funny. It's like they think they can do whatever they want for the most part to make you feel inferior. (Some boys are completely the opposite) It's like they're thinking they are somewhat invincable to anyone's feelings. Honestly he'll probably just stop being mad too after a few days and might realize he was being childish. Chances of this are slim unless he's extremely mature, which from what you wrote, doesn't seem that way. To be honest just in a few days call him and say you're sorry again you didn't think he'd react that way, and you're really hurt by how he acted (even if you're not, it'll probably make him feel guilty). Just give him some time.
Good luck and I hope this helps you. If anything leave me a message on how things went if you want and if you need extra advice. :)
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i know it might feal really stupid to be serious about this because u siad the fight wasn't seriose, but if you handle it like he handles it, it might be good! tell him that your sorry [again] and that you want to be frends with him agian, and you will wait! [it would probably feal more comfortable if you did this over myspace or aim, but whatever you want!] he's probably just looking for drama or a fight, because idk, guys are gay! hah, but who knows? maybe hes just being a jerk, and then will forget about it later! hope everythnig goes good<3! -morgan.
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Just let him cool down. Don't talk to him for a little. I have guy friends like that. I also lost some pretty amazing friendships over stupid fights..
But just let him calm down, call him in a week or so and just act as if nothing happened, ask him if he wants to hang out or something.
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