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Messed up love triangle.


Question Posted Monday June 18 2007, 9:05 am

So I've known this guy for a long time, and he's liked me basically the whole time. But he's the sort of guy who will like about 5 girls at once so I've never thought much about it. Even though he's said he LOVES me.

Anyways, I guess I do sort of like him back and we do some harmless flirting but it nevers gets further than that, ya whatever.

Anyways my best friend knows him, and he used to be friends with her but hates her after we had a fight and he took my side. And today she was trying to sweet talk him and he said he felt disgusted. I asked her about it online and she said she didn't know how she felt, but then later admitted she likes him. She then sent me a chat log they had in Febuary and in it they said how much they loved each other.

She then said after that chat convo they only said short "ily" to each other until that stopped. And at the same time she was telling me how much she loves him he came online and was telling me how much he loves me. And I had to lie to her and say "Yeah I think he likes you" because this girl has had her heart shattered so many times.

How do I break the news to her?


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Dancequeen44 answered Monday June 18 2007, 2:19 pm:
Don't tell he rtalk to the guy and tell him he needs to straighten things out between her and him make it clear to him not to mention your name in the conversation because the problem is between him and the other girl<3

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fiingersxcrossed answered Monday June 18 2007, 1:50 pm:
hopefully this is a close friend so it will be easier to understand! if you confront him that you know maybe he will tell her, probably not though! so in that case, tell him that he messed up, he shoudl be the one breaking her heart again, not you! i know you want to get involved, but all you can do is be there for her! let her know about what happened, and apperently stop flirting with thsi gyus, so your frioend can get herself together! if you still are crusing on him after this sistutation, she should be okay with it, if she is a really good friends, and understands you! i hope everything gos good with your situation<3! -morgan.

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