Female Age 14
Okay i have this ex boyfriend and his girlfriend. i mean i dont hate her or anything but then i got along with her just fine. Then the next thing i know her brother shows up 2 my school saying that he wanted to meet me. he said i was going to kill him i guess because his sister is going out with my first boyfriend. I still like him but i dont care if he is going out with someone as long as we can still be friends. But then after i meet her brother, Her and my ex both blocked me off of myspace. But i dunno why they did that and i dont know what should i do..... I need advice please! Thanks in advance.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? dearL answered Thursday June 21 2007, 3:14 pm: Apparently your ex-boy, his new girl, AND her brother thrive on drama. The best thing to do is stay away from all three. It is never going to be comfortable and the new girl will never like you - meaning she will constantly bad mouth you to her brother. He's already involved otherwise he wouldn't have met you and said that you "were going to kill him" for his sister dating your ex. Let them be petty - you won't ever change them. Not worth your time or energy - move on. [ dearL's advice column | Ask dearL A Question ]
Trina_boo answered Thursday June 21 2007, 2:00 pm: All I can say is it seems like they dont want you around mabe because they think you are going to break things up with them two.
I suggest you call your ex N explain to him that you are happy for him and that you just want too be his friend and that you respect his decision to get another girl.
And that you are okay with that and that you are cool with his girlfriend and hopefully all yall could be friends.
fiingersxcrossed answered Thursday June 21 2007, 12:22 am: ask. i know it sounds to simple, but sometimes if your real with a person,and you cutt the crap, it works out better! you will get a lot of respect by that too, so don't even thinjk you need advice. go with what your thinking in thsi situation! :D -mo [ fiingersxcrossed's advice column | Ask fiingersxcrossed A Question ]
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