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parents dont like bff.
i grew up with this guy, ryan. hes 6 years older than me and recently married with an almost 2 year old daughter, grace. grace is my goddaughter.
ryan and his wife, to say the least, they are amazing. i can call ryan at 2:00 in the morning and he'll listen to me.
i should state the fact that my life at home isnt all that great. dads been a cop since he was 19 and tends to snap in an instant. sometimes on me, throwing me across the room, sometimes at my brother, during a fist fight.
i keep ryan and his wife updated. they are both willing to come pick me up if i need them too. mom and dad know this and therefore hate ryan. his wife currently left the state on vacation and hes by himself. he called me and was like "im bored. talk to me. my wife left with grace." so i was telling him what happened when i was on vacation, and mom walked in and was like "who are you talking to?" she started freaking out. his number isnt saved in my phone because when they check the call log, they'd see his name. they freak out when i talk to him.
yea he is 6 years older than me, but we are friends. hes married and totally dedicated to his wife.
why are they so retarted about me talking to him. is it because he knows more than he should, thanks to me? in so many ways their family has saved me. i live for my goddaughter. and ryan is willing to talk to me when i feel like shit. why cant mom and dad just see this?
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it probably is because of the fact that he is six years older. parents will be totally lame and overprotective when it comes to their kids. because of your dad's career he might not like how much you tell ryan because it's none of his business, no offense to your father or his job. if they still aren't taking hints, you might just have to sit them down and talk to them telling then how much he's there for you and how much he means to you. they should understand after that because they know you really care about him and wants what's best for their child.
good luck (:
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i knwo it seems really GAY, but they are just trying to be protective! ryan sounds like a great guy, and them being like that, isn't right! its also not cool how your dad does that to you! i don't mean to offend you if you don't believe in this, but if you do, you sohuld pray your guts out! that's all you can do right now, especially when your parents don't want to listen! :D hope this helped, i really didn't mean to offend you or anyone else! ily, morgan :D
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well all parents are going to be overprotective of thier kids no matter what. however you say that you guys grew up a good majority of your lives together. your parents should see that he has done no harm in the past and probably never will. parents are unreasonable at best. you'll never know why they dont like him unless you ask. maybe they do have a good reason maybe not. talk to them and just lay out yours and ryans friendship to them. theyll see sooner or later that you can do things on your own and that you can make your own decisions.
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