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My friend (used to be best friend) that i've known since 6th grade, (in 11th now) just picked up smoking weed and thinks shes the coolest person in the world, but really she has no idea what shes doing.

and shes doing some pretty stupid crap. like driving while high, doing donuts and getting flat tires-- going to class high, growing it, and trying to get her friends who are starting to really dislike her into it. not to mention she doesnt know what kind shes smoking. what if its laced with iono salvia?

Shes hurting herself and her family and her friends. She got kicked out of the band program (which was her favorite but now weed is) and shes just going downhill. i wouldnt get so worried if it was someone who could control it, or do it socially once in a while- not smoking up every day by yourself like she does now.

I've been thinking about anonymously reporting her to the police. something needs to happen to let her know shes doing something thats just plain stupid- and dangerous, mentally and physically.normally i would never rat anyone out for this kind of stuff, but shes my friend and i worry about her.

should i report her to the police or not?

Well everyones going to have different opinions but i say yes you should,weed is highly dangerous and she's out of control she can be dead the next minute for all we know she needs to wake up to her senses and know that weed isnt candy it's a drug she can get her self killed reporting her is a good idea and your a good friend for worring others would've just say meh her life.

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Okay i have a question about this boy named Adam who i might like whos mad at me and everything.
Well.. okay theres a bon fire saturday at the feild and My X is going to be there and SO IS ADAM and my X is going out with 1 of my BFF's/ which isnt the strangest part she's telling me things things he told me... personly private things he said he never tld anyone else. What and im saposed to say hes macing on u dont believe a word he says!!! omfg what kind of friend would i be????
Shes never had real luck with guys shes complacated.
everyone wants me at the feild. how am i gunna explain i cant bare see Josh and Adam at the same place. at once. in the same feild OHH it sounds worse aloud.
HELP MEEEEE

It doesn't make sense and spell properly please.

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After parting ways from the movie today, my guy friend, Erik told me on msn tonight "next time we meet, i demand a hug! :D" what could this possibly mean?

That he wants a hug.

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how would you feel if your happy to see your friend because you missed her and you were RIGHT FRONT OF HER to give her a hug but she said"im gonna give hug alisha" and she went all the way back and hugged her instead of you?

Angry/Upset that's not a very nice thing to do.

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i need to break this couple up. iots complicated but it must be done ASAP. any advice on how. im thinking sneeky and sly. so they dont know its me.

Why would you want to break someone up thats really bitchy your ruining someones happiness.

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15/f. I know this guy..and well, on MSN last night, he told me that this girl he met online [his gf] was going to visit him (she never met him before and would be traveling from another country)...and well, I know about her. And I don't like her AT ALL...and all of a sudden...he comes to me with "[name]'s coming to visit me for a couple of weeks :D!!" and I'm all *thinks*..uhmmm why the hell do I care..? so now he keeps on bothering me about it and mentioning it. I really don't give a shit. What should I say?

Just ask him just say do you really think i care ? it sounds mean but you got to get it through his head or just say yeh ok thats nice anyways.

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Well, me and a couple friends are planning a halloween party. We've got music, decorations, and food down, but I was just wondering what we should do there to keep the party going. We're all aged 15 by the way.
Thanks.

Hello !

Well
maybe you all should just dance and go crazy and eat and if you get sick of that mayeb watch a scary movie with all the lights off or can always go trick-a-treating around the block =]

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What are some thing 2 of my friends and I could do? We're all 15 and it would be 2 guys and 1 girl. Any suggestions besides movies?

thanks :]

Hello !

Well you can go pools,park,creek (Their fun xD),go to eachothers houses and watch a movie their maybe ,ice skating,bowling,shopping,or go to intenscity or galaxy world (Its a place where you play games as in car games and you play other games and you get tokens )or theme parks rides are always fun =D

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Hi I'm wisemen i just started a couple days ago but I'm o.k. but you give some good advise so i added you as a favorite columnist I'm 14 from America.

Hello thanks for the inbox =D
Yeh sure what would like help with and thank you =D

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alright, well my friend is dating this guy that i like. and i have liked him for a loooonnng time. since the end of last school year, and she just started dating him last week. but, he always talks to me and like flirts with me. i know it sounds wrong on my part but me and the girl hes dating arent that good of friends, were more of aquantises(or however you spell it) but anyways, we both liked eachother the first week of school & we both knew it but we never told eachother. i just don't know if i i should tell him i like him or what?!!?
help.

I think you should yeh he has a girlfriend but then again like you said they aren't close people may not agree with me but i think you should you will regret not telling him trust me.

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i love my boyfriend named danny but there is 1 problem i like some1 eles the same named chris but chris makes me fell better about myself thn danny.what should i do

xXNEED OFF SOME HELP :(Xx

Well how can you LOVE your boyfriend and like someone else xS
Loving someone means your committed o them xS
Anywayss...
If you obviously love someone else then you shouldn't be with your current boyfriend cause you made it sound like he dosn't make you feel good about your self so let him go and tell the other one you like.
xS

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Me and my boyfriend, recently broke up,(because he has an anger issue), and he has changed alot.
and now he wants my bestfreind, and i told him to back off because she has a boyfriend, but he wont! and me and her are no longer freinds..but im really jealous of herrrr.

Well,yeh we all go through jealous but this has happened to me and yeh i kinda did what that girl just told you to do like warn her but then my friend knew i was just jealous and ignored me
if i were you let her go out with him i mean he does have an anger problem and im sure it wont last and when they break up she will be running to you and you can say i told you so but to be honest this happens to me alot and alot of my other friends when ever a boy i really like goes out with another girl i kinds get over him so might you but i can tell you this it'll work out in the end your gonna be the happy one =] i PROMISE you :)

MuchLOVE!
xoxoxo

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I'm trying to get closer to my friends because they are not making effort.. because we go to different high schools.

But I'm seriously out of ideas what to do. I usually never hung out with my friends out of school until a few years ago. So I'm somewhat clueless on what to do.

I know there's a park, movies, the mall.. but what else is there to do or go?

Maybe invite them to your house,have a sleep over or just a small party something that can bring you all together or go to a theme park or carnival but i would bring them over for a sleepover so then we could catch up on gossip and watch a movie or something your choice though.
xoxo
Hope everything goes well

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If a friend you like and you told them you like them but they dont like you back and you both stay good friends.

And in the futuer they get with someone and then talks about they're sex life to you and you get mad. How can i avoid them when they want to talk about it?! i get mad and i dont want to know about their sex life!!!!!!!!

Welll just tell the person just say you know i like you so you souldn't really be telling me about your sex life if you dont want to say that say ok well its great that your sex life is awsome but i dont really want to know lol sorry
just say that i mean who would wnat to know about some ones sex life

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I do think 12 not virgin thing is pretty bad,no offence.I absalutly LOVED the advice you gave about sex tho.It was so perfect!Exactly how it REALLY is.Hey do you have MSN? e-mail me at athenagoffin@yahoo.com.
thanx!!!

Heyy lol np =D yeh ok

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Well there's thsi guy in my class that my best friend just recently keeps talking to. he's been here thsi whole school year yet she talks to him a lot now.

I have this feeling that she likes him but I'm too scared to ask her because she gets really mad when people ask her that, 3 people already asked.

But she always asks him for a piggy back and only him and I know a lot of trustworthy boys that could give her one.

Do you think she likes him?

Maybe she does
Or maybe she just likes to flirt with him
or loves being around him she might enjoy his company but like i said yeh maybe she does like him just ask her you know like randomly so do you like anyone dont mention his name

[xOo]&&Hearts

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the other day my friend invited me to her party. we are pretty good friends but not the closest. an hour later she told me the party was canceled cause her mom said she couldn't. well in everyone's away message it says "can't wait for sarah's party on saturday" so its obvious shes lying. i dont wanna bring it up to her and sound like a bitch or get her mad at me.. but like how should i bring it up? i really dont know why she'd do that to me. =/ the party is tomorrow night.

Maybe you should bring it up just tell her you don't really care about the party but you just want to know why she dosn't want you there cause if you don't she will always do this to you at anything like at sleepover ect

xoxo mwa

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My parents are getting a divorce shortly mainly because my dad is 38 wanting to be 20 again. I have a bestfriend that comes around alot and she thinks my dad is hot and he knows that. He says that she is very attractive and so on. He text her all the time. Me and my friend work together and my dad will go in and talk to her then leave without saying a word to me or he will go in when im not even working like he has for the last 2 weeks according to my friend.

The other night i was pretty drunk and my friend and i were talking to my dad. I laid down on the floor and dosed off and i hard noises coming from my friend ( like her and my dad messing around ) after my sister came in the room i got up and went to the bathroom and started crying. After 10 min my friend came to check on me and i asked her if she was messing around with my dad and she said "no, i would never do that ___ i would never do anything to ruin our friendship". And of course i believe her she my bestfriend.

Lately my dad is very attached to his cell phone every time it chimes i know its my friend.He sleeps with the phone right next to him most nights and if you touch his phone he flips out. Well tonight he left his phone on the table so i snooped and i looked thourgh his pictures and i found one of my friend naked (from the waist up)

IM so hurt by this i dont know if i trust her shes lying to me. We're supposed to be bestfriends. Shes tells me she annoyed by my dad but that pictures proves that thats a lie. I dont know what to do anymore. I dont want to tell her i was looking through my dads phone and found this. I'm Graduating tomorrow and shes going to be there we are supposed to move in tomorrow as in get an apartment.

Please help im falling apart over this
thanks

Well you can't always talk to them look them in their eyes as if they havent done anything there both selfish and dirty and you to confront them FACE TO FACE both of them together this is your dad were talking about and you SO CALLED BESTFRIEND tell her you hate what she has dOne it's your choice if you forgive them or if you dont but be honest tell them Tell them you saw the photos is he asks why you went through his phone say cause you knew something was going on the fact that he was so attached to his phone and you just curious and tell him not get mad at you, you havent done anything wrong nothing at all
tC xoxo mwa

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How do I get my good friends to be my BEST friends? Please help.%

Well loOl
They have to gain your trust
just talk to them
call them alot of times
hang out besiides school and that
and just treat them niicely iits not really hard just act like bestfriends do then yooH Will be =]

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im an 18 yr old female. i have a friend angela, she was seeing this guy, brad. they broke up, but they were still having sex. 1 nite they were bout 2 get back 2getha, b4 brad hooked up wit emma, angela's friend. angela 4gave them both. on angela's 21st brad decided he didn't want 2 go out & basically ruined her bday. last week we all spent $60 on tickets to a rave. brad was suppose 2 b coming but didn't show up & didn't call. afta 5mins of being there angela decided she wanted 2 go home.i went with her. on the way out brad called her. she had a fight with him and started 2 cry. brad said he would come pick us up, when he got there she got in the car with him and drove off on me. i made my own way back 2 her house & yelled at brad as he had ruined our day yet again. then we all went out. all nite she made out with him, then when we got bak 2 hers she told me 2 sleep in the lounge so she could have sex wit him. at 1st i said no, then she cracked it saying what a bad freind i was, so i slept in da lounge. i left the next morning. as soon as i left, she started bitching bout the fact i went off at brad. then she fones me up 2 say she wants all her clothes bak, including a top she lent me 6 months ago. i took the top off & left it in my room, which i was sharing wit a girl, jess. i got kicked out the same week & wasn't allowed bak 2 get da top. a week l8r jess moved out, taking da top. then she disconnected her fone, so i cant get in contact wit her now. now angela is saying just 2 give the rest of her clothes bak & stuff the friendship. am i in the wrong?? if so how??

Well No your not wrong Honstley seh needs to get a life No affence to her
i mean why the hell would she tell her FRIEND to sleep in the lounge when did boys come more important i know his gonna dump her again i mean you were there for her shes JUST PLAIN STUPID thinking shes doing everything right when shes lost in her own stuffed up world what your doing is right Just tell her you dont care she can get hurt just tell her not to come back to you find a new friend or roomate Just forget bout her smile have fun enjoy life sehs pathetic she will come back crawling
[xOo] =]

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