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Anyone know good SITES for quotes on friendship and stuff like that.

DONT tell me use google or any other search engine cuz they suck @$$! Give me the EXACT link to the site.. or I'll give you a 1

Thanks!

http://www.firehotquotes.com
http://www.quotemania.2ya.com
^this site is temp. down but will be back in June its a great site I love it
http://www.best-love-poems.com/love_friendship_quotes.html

I hope I helped!

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This summer I have very few plans. I want to make some fast. Summer is in a few weeks when school gets out, and the pool opened today. I don't know how to get less shy and open up more, and to make more plans.

Try having a Pool party...
make plans with your friends to go to Lake Compounce/or any other theme park around where you live
Make plans to go to the beach
Make plans with people you dont normally hang out with
Make a deal with your friends that atleast once a week you hang out with each other
Have parties
Go places
tell your friends that this summer is gunna rock but we all have to hang out together
talk to people who you dont normally talk to, maybe they will invite you to something and you make a new friend
Just make sure you get yourself out there!...I hope I helped!

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I have alot of friends at school/church/cheer. But no one invites me to do stuff with them on the weekends! I spend my time on the computer cus no one invites me over, what should I do?

Ask people to come over your house or go to the movies or bowling, maybe to lake compounce or just to chill. make the first move, maybe have a sleepover and sugggest that you should do stuff together more often. hope i helped!

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Yeah...so my friend is staying at my house for a week because her parents are out of town. But my house is so....BORING! And the TV is broken, so that pretty much stinks. =( Any ideas what we can do??? ITS SOOOO BORING!!!! lol

13/f (both of us)

Play cards, listen to music, Write poetry ( if you like it ), make a movie, play on the computer, get a bunch of kids from the neighborhood and play a game like ghosts in the graveyard ( i think thats what its called ) do each others nails/hair/makeup ( if your into that ) make up a game, read mag., bake cookies, have eating contests, you can do pretty much anything have fun...hope i helped

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One of my best friend's brother died in a car crash because of street racing. Tomorrow I am going to his funeral with our friends and to be there for my friend. I really dont know what to wear and what I'm supposed to do there. Do I bring a gift. I feel really bad. He was onlt 17 years old. Please help.

wear black, like a black dress ( if your a girl ) or a black suit and black shoes, dont wear white or bright colors, its not a happy moment. also make or buy a card and write alot of stuff in it personal stuff or just like " im sorry for your loss..my deepest sympathy " etc, you can bring a gift but you probably shouldnt but if you decide to then do like a photo album or a frame and decorate the outside with things like " forever in our heart " " always in our prayers " " gardian angel " " heaven sent " etc. and bring flowers attached to it and a picture of him inside the frame...but you dont have to bring a gift, i dont think you should but if you wanted to do somthing like that...hope i helped...im sorry for the loss...

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My bestfriend is being cruel to me. She likes to show off. She also acts to me like i am her slave. She is a suckup and don't know what to do. We have been friends for so long. I am moving far away soon and she is either really sad and is mean to me or she doesn't care that i am moving. I don't know. She use to be so nice. But know she is trying to be popular and mean. PLEASE HELP!!!

Maybe shes trying to make other friends since her best friend is moving far away. Im sorry that you have to deal with that plus moving..i hope it gets better!

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ok my best friend is dateing this guy that iu so totally had first and he kissed me and held my hand and then all of the suddenhe likes my best friend when i see them together i get so sad and she keeps on saying oh i will dump him and then she doesnt what should i do by lost and forgotten

Forget both of them...if she was your real friend she wouldnt go out with someone that you really like...and if he cared about you at all then y would he want to hurt you....you can find better friends and better boyfriends....good luck hun..

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Ok well I used to be like really popular, like the most popular girl in the school, and im not just saying that. Like some of my friends who weren't popular were alway like i wish i could be like u ur so popular and stuff even some kids i dont no that well would say it. And like every guy thinks im way out of their league. But this year things have changed, my best friends from last year who i hung out with everyday barely talk to me anymore. We used to be so close like they would even call my mom "mom" or "mommy" we used to have so much fun together and now we barely speak to each other. And i used to tell a couple of them everything and im still friends with them but not as good we only hang out in school. but like now i hang out with the kids that arent popular and everyone says i ditched them and now all my old guy friends are really mean to me. My nest guys friend doesnt even say hi to me in the hall anymore I MISS THEM ALL SO MUCH!! i really miss being known as popular i no it sounds selfish but i had so much fun where i was before and now i still have fun but its different WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?! HELP!

Ok, First its not all aout being popular, but its good to be friends with everyone, not just the popular kids...try being friends with people not so popular and call your old friends and have a hugh sleepover and start talking about how you miss the old days and how you always hung out with them and stuff...as for the guys just talk to them and be confident in yourself and strike up a conversation with them...you can still have just as much fun not eing popular..for your best friend guy, call him on the phone ask him if he wants to chill like go bowling sometime or come to your birthday party and stuff...im not popular but im well liked bye many people i dont hate anybody and i dont think anybody hates me...i just be nice to everyone...try making it hard for people to hate you...i hope i helped...

~Katie Leigh~

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ok so, im friends with these people, and they were always cool with me, but then they like their group split in 2 and i was still friends with them but now they're mad at me cause im friends with who they hate. i cant be friends with both sides, what can i do?

if they are that selfish then they dont sound like such good friends....they are trying to controll who your friends with and thats not right..you dont tell them who to be friends with so te shouldnt tell you...id say forget about them if they are seriously going to get mad at you for having friends other then them...it will be hard but it will be worth it...god luck

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any reccomendations? I like nature sort of screen names and I want one that will last forever

lavenderRAINdrop
LavenderForest
things like that..good luck...

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theres this girl that has been following me around since 7th grade she never talks or when she can you can't hear her.I dont like feeling like I have a shodow its emberassing when I talk to people and they try and talk to her but she just wont talk. Its the most annoying feeling so thats why i dont even enjoy lunch anymore id rather go to my next class. even if i say to someone "i need to tell you something in private" and walk away she still follows me. Shes the shyest person EVER and i would feel bad hurting her feelings. BUT I CANT TAKE IT ANY LONGER. pleaseee help i'll rate 5's
thanks

Ok be like " listen i dont want to hurt your feelings but you never talk and its sorta like i have a shadow because you follow me everywhere and i cant ever have a minute to myself or just with my friends...you seem like a nice person but could you please find someone else to follow around..." i hope i helped...good luck...

~Katie Leigh~

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my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?

shaiina

your " best friend " doesnt sound like a best friend or even a friend she sounds like a bitch...you deff. shouldnt be friends with someone who calls you fat...never let anybody push you down or walk all over you...talk to er and ask her why se calls you fat...try to have a serious convo. with her about it and if she doesnt stop or makes you feel bad about yourself then tell her you dont want to be friends anymore..nobody should have to deal with that for anybody....hope i helped..

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i have this friend who is so selfish. she told me that if i went out with his guy named matt that shed hate me more then her friend olivia. i really like her as a frind..but i want your opinion..thanx

well if shes a really close friend then i wouldnt go out with him but se sounds a little controlling so i would just go out with him because if she doesnt want to see you happy than shes not a good friend, unless the guy is a jerk then shes a good friend...also you can tell people who are good to hang out with because if people have alot of enemys then they arent good to hang out with...so i hope i helped

~Katie Leigh~

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So I got offered this easy babysitting job from a rich family down the street, and they are going to pay me 50 dollars an hour, BUT at the same time my BFFs birthday party is going on. She said it was OK if i went to go babysit.i don't want her to think i don't care but I really need the money!!!!!!!!!!!

*Im 14 by the way and female*

first make sure its ok with her...and if its not then go to her party a best friend is better than money...money lasts for a little while but friendship lasts a lifetime...if shes cool with you going then tell her that youll make it up to her the next weekend like take her to the mall or somthing and buy her something nice with the money you just got and it will be fun just the 2 of you. i hope i helped...

~Katie Leigh~

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dear XxKaTiExLeIgHxX,
i have a crush on my stepmothers cousin. hes 14 and im only 12. he seems to like me but we never talk. my sister told him i like him and i choke when im around him. And i will do something dumb cause im nervous. how can i step up to the plate without being nervous.im a girl with a big problem.


from nervous wreck

Just remember to always be yourself..even when your around the person you like...and just try to think of things that make you happy and try to talk to him like you would your best friend just all open and stuff. tell him that you wanna hang sometime and ask if hes intrested, but make sure you go like bowling or somthing with your friends and ask him f he wants to invite some of his friends that way you wont be so nervous...then as you get more comfortable around him ask him out just the 2 of you to go to the movies or to grab something to eat or the mall...just remember to be yourself and if he doesnt fall you for then you know that he isnt the one...but i have confidence in you...i hope i helped if you need anymore just ask! Good Luck!

~Katie Leigh~

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Right now in my life, I cant trust anyone and it feels as if there are so many conspiracies going on behind my back. Like everyone in the world is against me and its just sooo frustrating. I just dont know what to do. Can anyone help?

Ive felt that way before..acctually all last year....but if you foucous on things like school or family and preoccupy yourself i found that i dont think about it and i dont feel it...also...never talk about anybody behind their backs...( i dont know if your like that or not ) but usually it ends up geting to the person you dont want it to get to and then things can get pretty tough...so just hold your head up high and be confident in yourself...hope i helped...

~Katie Leigh~

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I think I am loosing my best friend. She has been hanging out alot with someone else, and when she isnt she always has excuses. she isnt the same person, i know she has to change, but i mean- she is obsessed with her weight and eating. Im not really worried about that though, i just miss her. what should i do? just forget about her?

just move on eacuse shes guoing to realize in the future that she lost someone really special to her by making stupid excuses and bad choices....obviously shes not a good friend to you and if i were you i would get myself out of the position to get really hurt.....youll find new ad better friends...hope i helped

~Katie Leigh~

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Her, I'm having a a slumber party (10 girls) What should we do? ( we aren't allowed to invite guys over, cuz we're only 13)

Play lots of games...do makeovers...do each others hair n nails...watch a movie...make cookies...truth or dare....im sure you can figure out something cool to do...

hope i helped

Have an AWESOME time...being a teen rocks..

~Katie Leigh~

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