Two of my best friends aren't speaking to eachother.My one friend is mad at the other because she's real popular and since she has so many friends, she ignores her.But she dosen't get to see many of her friends so it's hard for her.And if I agree with her then my other friend will get upset.And when they aren't fighting they disclude me!I tried talking to them but she dosen't get it.I can't stand them not speaking to eachother.What do I do?
Hey! Thats weird cause im in the same situation lol. My best friend is sort of getting conceided because so many boys like her and so many people want to be her friend. It's very annoying and she barely has time for me anymore. I don't really blame your one friend for being mad at her because it is very upsetting especially when you're really good friends. I think you should talk to them both, it's not great advice I know but it works. Just invite them somewhere, like the movies, or invite them both over, and maybe they'll become friends again. Good luck! Rate me!
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my friend says she is always excluded but thats not true and its really annoying when i go to ride my bike with some friends and she gets upset cuz we did not invite her well she lives to far away and does not know how to ride a bike this is a really bothering me what should i do to make her see she is never excluded???
Maybe you and the people your hanging out with are really good friends to her. She probably feels like shes unwanted. Everyone gets left out at times, but maybe you and you're friends should nvite her somewhere so she'll see you guys don't try to exclude her. Im sure you've been excluded too and nobody enjoys it. It sounds to me that all she wants to do is hang out with her friends and theres nothing wrong with that. Im not saying you should never ride your bike again but if you want your friend to be happy, I really think you should do other things too and invite her.
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alright this might be long so be prepared.
last year i was friends with like EVERYONE but this year people are telling me how much i've changed and stuff. i didn't even notice it until they told me. now it seems like i'm pushing everyone away and i honestly don't mean to. it's like i can be fine talking to a person one second, then all the sudden i'll remember something they did and i'm annoyed. a couple minutes ago i was listing the people i talk to regularly and stuff, and i think i only got up to like 20 people and theres 600 students in my grade. it seems like im being a fake person than what i really am and lately i've been kind of depressed like everythings going wrong. so i guess my question really is what are some ways i can get back to my original self and maybe regain some of my friends that i used to have
wow! thats weird!I had the exact same problem.My friends were all falling apart and they always talked about me and said i changed. I dont know how I got through it cause it hurt really bad and I kno how you feel.I dont really know what to say but just try to be thankful for what you have and just try to be yourself around your friends.If you do that for a while and their still bein that way then they arent your friends cause a friend will like you for who you are no matter what.Oh yea and remember this..people dont change.. it just takes a little while to realize who they really are! hope i helped!
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Okay.. i have had a secret that only my really good friends know but im not going to tell what it is. Well, in skool one day this kid chase shouted it out loud and everyone looked at me. I asked him who said it and he said it was my bestfriend! Well she promised she didnt do it so i forgave her and she told me my other friend jade said it.. but now i heard that this girl that i really dont like her name is shelby she told 2 of my friends that didnt know and i didnt even tell shelby about it my other friend shannon did. Today we were in s/s and my other friend amanda told me she said it! Im just so confused! should i be mad at all these people or should i just let it go?? please help!
I dont think they are really your friends if they did that to you but i think if u have anymore secrets dont tell anyone unless you kno for sure that noone would tell. You should just let it go for now but dont let it happen again!
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I have a problem...i like this guy justin. I have liked him for like 3 years and recently my REALLY good friend Shilah started liking him and he liked her too...they went out for like 1 week and she thinks she loves him but i like him alot and recently we started "talking" like b/f g/f... and i told my friend about it and now she is mad at me... but i liked him first what do i do? Do i go for him and say forget her or do i forget him?
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Well i dont think she is a true friend if shes gonna get mad at you for something that silly.. but i think you shouldnt go out with the guy justin.. just tell him u want to be friends just for now.Hope i helped!
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my best freind Tina and i have been best freinds sicne we were 4 and we're so close! well she and i became freinds w/ this girl kaylinn and at first her and tina were really close but a couple months later they got into a huge fight and hate eachother...now im caught in the middle...i would pick my bestfrind over kaylinn cuz i've known tina for ever but im not gunna just drop kaylinn. i dont want enemies! anyway i really dont kno what to do so if theres any tips feel free to say them
Im in the same situation my two bestfriends are in a fight and its really hard for me becuz if i want to invite one somewhere the other one will be upset becuz they just cant be together.. but the best think to do is try to hang out with them both equally so their feelings wont get hurt. Be friends with both of them and dont get involved cuz one will end up bein mad at you.If your startin to get invovled then tell both of them that its between them and you dont want to be enimies with either one of them cuz their your good friends. Well hope I helped!
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OK so i'm at a new school and like i made this one fried ... lets call her susan. So susan invited me over to her house for halloween with some of her friends too. I don't know for sure but i've heard her friends talking about doing drugs and all (not planning it for halloween but talking about it in like the past sence) I'm pretty sure Susan doesn't do drugs or anything but i do think that she drinks. I don't do any of that stuff, nor do I want to. Do you think I should go to her house and take the chance? PLEASE help me... i'll rate EVERYONE!
I think you should go to her house and see how it is first. You should take a chance but if you see people doing drugs or drinking then call one of your family members to pick you up.The people that were saying people were gonna do drugs might have lied about it.. people make up rumors. Well, I hope I helped!
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I just recently got over my ex..but now im realizing that i may like my best friend's ex. She is still far from over him..i could never go out with him..help?
I think you should tell your bestfriend how you feel about her ex and ask her if she would be mad if you went out with him... if she says yeah and she would be mad I wouldn't want to go out with him cuz friends always come first and if she says no then thats great but don't date him without asking your friend first. Hope I helped!
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Pleez tell me what you think!!!!??? Should you go a party of a girl you hardly know rlly with your whole school or should you go hang with your best friend because its her birthday that day???? pleez help and say what you would do or think.....??!! xo
I think you should hang out with your bestfriend. This is just me but the two most important things in the world to me are my friends and my family and I would never let them down especially if it's their birthday. Glad I could help!
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**OK my friends name is Nancy.(changed to be confidential)Her idea of fun is drugs. Any time she can get a hold of a drug she takes advantage of it. The drugs "I KNOW OF" that she has tried is coke, aderal, and defently weed! Chronic is what she lives for, everyday after school she smokes with her sister. Any other drug she usually doesnt tell me bout. She also drinks. I dont think she does alot. Whats the problem your asking? my friend just turned 13 4 months ago!! Yea...so everytime i try to tell her "Nancy you're so much better than that and you kno it!" she just goes "Dude its nothing it cant hurt me" Nancy is a smart girl, she could do much with her life! I never kno if an ingrediant in any of the drugs she takes she could be allergic to. I need help, what do I do?!
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If you think she is a smart girl and she can do alot with her life then you should tell her that. Tell her that she can get in alot of trouble and she has a great future ahead of her and drugs are interfearing with that. You sound like a good friend and I think she should listen to you! If shes really smart.. she will stop doing drugs!
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My group of friends and I have been really close for a long time, until recently. We were all loyal to eachother and thought that we could put lots of trust into eachother...until we found out some things about this girl Cara. She had been saying bad things about all of us behind our backs. Individually! We all knew that she had been doing this for awhile and we kinda excepted it as being her. We would nod our head when she talked about another friend, but wouldn't participate in the verbal backstab. You see, she told every one of us that we each were the only ones that she could trust and the only ones that really understood her. That made us special and feel that we could trust her. WRONG! recently we found out that she had been doing this for years and giving verbal beatings to all of her so called friends behind their backs. Its not even that that ticks us off so much. You see, she always is depressed and moody and ruining our fun by being sad about things that she say are happening at home or at school, but in reality, she has a great mom and dad, and is getting excellent grades. We all didn't talk to her for one week and she retaliated. she told anyone with ears all about how we were all jerks. Than the next day, she acts all sad and trys to apologize. She says that she's truly sorry and all and we all want to forgive her. She says that she is going to change and she needs our help and just wants us back. So naturally we forgive her....but today she started talking about us and acting all depressed and moody again! We have no idea what to do because even though she is a mean jerk, she's that kind of person that you want to hate, but you miss and you want them to miss you and like you. She will also spread rumors about us if we be mean to her. We are so confused at what to do. It doesn't help that we all go to the same school, so we can't just ignore her because were in a lot of the same classes. HELP!
This girl seems like a jerk but I still think you should be nice to her and ask her what is bothering her and tell her to please stop talking about you and your friends. Tell her that to make friends you have to be a friend and tell her that shes not being much of a friend when she talks about you behind your back. Just tell her that you want to be her friend and eventually she will change. I hope i helped!
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Me & my friend "Carrie" are really close. Thing is, she's really close to her soon to be step sister (me & her step. are friends, too) I always feel really jealous around them, because they get to hang out every day of the week & they have so many inside jokes & stuff that it makes me really depressed. Like we were shopping the other day & they saw a Barbie at Toys-r-us (don't ask y we were in there.... lol) & they were like "oh this one's me & that one's u!" It was like I wasn't even there! I mean, don't get me wrong, I love both of them, they're my best friends, but my stomach turns whenever they say or do something that I don't get, cuz I'm not close to anyone but them for the most part. I'm so confused
I think you should talk to both of them about this and they will include you in their inside jokes. Really sit down and talk to them and tell them how you feel.. and if they get mad their not your true friends.
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