Allow me to introduce myself, I am the Knight Owl. Or, as my friends know me, Sean. I can't guarantee that I can solve your problems. But the majority of the people I know seem to come to me for advice. I listen to people very well, and I assess. Sometimes I can offer suggestions, other times there are no suggestions. But I promise to try my best. Remember, everyone has problems, I know I do. All you need to do is ask. I invite you, to talk to me on AIM or Yahoo, if you want to ask me privately for some advice.
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hey, well see there is this guy...and he's really sweet to me on IM. then my friend tried to set us up. like she told him to get to know me, is what i really mean. and then he told her that i sound cool, but he wouldn't talk to me. i still wanna get to know this guy but how can i do that if he won't talk to me?
-can't get him to talk (link)
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Well, you could keep trying, be casual about it, set up a get together with a bunch of people and try talking to him there. If he's just plain not interested, there's nothing to be done. Hope it works out.
-The Knight Owl
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(fourteen//female) ive been friends with a guy, Chad (also fourteen), for a bit over 2 years. in 7th grade i helped him get to know my friend b/c he liked her and they went out in 8th grade and brokeup about a week ago. anyway, since july, we havent spoken much. he changed A LOT. i didnt really agree with some of the girls he wanted to get involved with && he seemed to understand. now he likes this other girl and he is hiding it from me even tho i told him i would be supportive of whatever he wants to do. (i found evidence...he asked a question on here about it and everyone knows about it). he acts different too...i dont know whats up? we are/were close && could talk about anything but now we dont talk and when we do its light conversation. no, i dont like him and no, i didnt kiss him lol. id really like to rekindle the friendship we had. any advice is great! (link)
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*sigh* Too many times have I seen this exact thing, people change with time. I would bring this to his attention, let him know that you feel you two are drifting apart as friends. I would ask to go do something like bowling, playing pool, or what ever it is you fourteen year olds do. I realize there's not a heck of a lot of freedom at that age. But try and reach out to him. He may feel that you're trying to sabotage his chances at happiness because you're friends with his ex, and since then you haven't approved of the girls he's shown interest in. Perhaps. Good luck and I hope I've been at least a little helpful.
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Hey Sean I've got a question for ya...what do you do when the friend you met in college is never on or you're never on because of work to try to arrange a time to hang out when you work in Brockton (link)
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I would keep trying until they agree. Stalk them!
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i'm all alone i don't know what to do...i feel so unwanted so should i just kill myself off...? (link)
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Well, that's an odd sort of question. Truthfully, no you shouldn't. Loneliness is never a reason to commit suicide. Really, you should never commit suicide, euthenasia is a different story, and then its only if you're guaranteed to die painfully and slowly. So to answer your question, no, do not kill yourself off. Please and thank you. Good luck, I feel for you, life is tough.
-The Knight Owl
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Ok I am really sad for my brother right now :'(, well here is the story please help me on what I should do to help him.
Ok, My brother had a gilfriend when they broke up she said bad things about him to his friends and now he doesn't have any friends, which he had a lot of them. He was also a popular guy and he is about to turn 20, but I need help he is very depressed to have no one as a friend I feel very sorry for him. Please tell me some ways he could get either his friends back or find new friends I have no clue cause I am not 20 I am much younger but please help me so I can help my brtoher I feel like I shouldn't have friends just because he doesn't. thanx for helping me (link)
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Wow, hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned. Alright, I think the best way to get some new friends is to go out to the clubs, I mean he is only 20 so he can't go out drinking. I gotta wonder really what she said to his friends to make them all turn on him like that. If he works then he's got co workers, sometimes those make good friends, some of the best friends I have I met at work. If he doesn't work, he may want to get a job. But I think the best way to go about this, is to go to a dance club. Lots of people, he'll dance he'll pick up a girl, hopefully, and he'll have learned a lesson. When you break up with someone who knows your friends, get to them before she does. I've had that happen to me as well, and it sucks. Good luck, I feel your brother's pain.
-The Knight Owl
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I do gymnastics and there is this really mean and stupid girl there,I hate her.My friends at gymnastics always hang out with her, but what they dont know is that this girl always talks about them really bad behind there backs. I try to tell them but they just say I am being a *icth and that I just want them to hang out with me and with no one else.This girl is starting to get on my nerves and ruin a great friendship. Sombody pppllleeeaaaaasssseeee help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xXask_me_anythingXx (link)
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Things like this are really hard sometimes, you could get proof that she talks about them behind their backs. Get a tape recorder, buy one, or borrow one, and try to record her bad mouthing your friends. Its as easy as doing a somersault. Good luck, hope it works out.
-The Knight Owl
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im not sure if this is the rite category but im a 14 year old male and i wanna run away. i dont like tthe way im being treated at home my parents r taking away my comps cuz they saw somethin on this site that they didnt like and they think i had somthin 2do w/ it. my mom is always yelling 4 no reason she thinx im always doin somthin rong my dad gives me no privacy and tries 2 read my messages. i hate having my life consumed by them. i want a life of my own.so should i stay or should i go? (link)
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You should stay, everyone's parents are strict man. Don't think you're the only one. My parents suck too sometimes, but you gotta consider this, if you ran away, over something as trivial as being punished, doesn't matter if you did the crime or not, then where would you go? You're 14, not even out of high school yet. How would you support yourself? And don't say male prostitute, it doesn't work, trust me on this one, you just get the WRONG clientelle. Anyway, hang in there I hope this helped you. Good luck.
-The Knight Owl
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ok well my so called best friends all hate me now and i feel like tha world has turned its bak and everythang and cant trust en1 cept my bf and he has really helped me alot wit all thi sand he trusly is tha only 1 i can talk to enmore and my bff r gettin more mad bekuz im alwayz talkin 2 him or with him but thats only kuz hes really tha only 1 there 4 me enmore wut should i do?? kuz ive tried talkin and ive ever sed i wuld sacfice luv 2 save our friendship they wont let me and everythang but nuttin is workin wut should i do??????
-Lost..Confused..Sad- (link)
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Well, if you don't know why they hate you then I would find out. Otherwise, really I would get some new friends, I mean they couldn't have been that great of friends if they turned their backs on you. I'm really sorry that they did this though. It's never easy when you're world is turned upside down in such a way. Take solice in the fact that making new friends will be easier when school starts back up again. Good luck, I hope this has helped in some small way atleast.
-The Knight Owl
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I want to ask this guy to prom for next year!! I know it's ealry but I want him to go and I even i don't go with him i just want to dance with him!! What should I do?? A lot of ppl think that he is gay but i think he's metrosexual like ryan seacrest!! A lot of other girls are gonna ask him if i don't ask in advance!!
HELP ME!!
*4evainLuv (link)
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Ask him as soon as you can. Trust me, Prom gets REALLY competitive, I had to ask my prom date like the year before even. Then when Prom year did roll around, she got like seven other invitations. So definately do it as soon as you can. Good luck, I'm rooting for ya.
-The Knight Owl
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My friend and i have been best friends for a really long time but now i think i am losing her to a girl she used to not like but now does for some reason my friend thinks she has to lie to me about what they r doing this new girl is really nice and i love her to death but i dont want to lose my best friend to her how shud i handle this shud i talk to her about it and let her know how i feel or shud i just let her have some space??? (link)
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I would just talk to her, let her know that you're okay with this new girl. Its possible that your best friend feels that you don't like this new girl. I would not ignore the situation, your friend might get the wrong idea and think you're angry with her or something. Aside from that just keep your cool, don't sound upset with her when you talk to her. Good luck, keep writing. I'm rooting for ya.
-The Knight Owl
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Okay yeah i know i give advice all the time but this time i just need some...i have this friend and we use to be really close and everything but then she started to down grade my bf and yatta yatta so i still stayed friends with her and everything but then she just stopped talking to me and everything shes said one thing to me since her bday and everything and i mean i miss her friendship but is it worth going back to if all shes does is diss me and my bf and everything else? I dont know what to do Help please
Cassi (link)
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This is something I've seen many times, and while I've only been here a few days, I may be able to help you. Really, there is no easy way out. She's going to make you choose between her and your boyfriend. Perhaps she sees something in him you don't, who knows? But you need to talk to her, tell her that you miss being friends with her. Appeal to her sympathetic side and find out why she disses your boyfriend. But remember, keep your cool. Good luck.
The Knight Owl
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Hey!I'm Casey(girl)and im 14.My friend is also 14 and she is in 6 month relationship with her b.f.They have had sex 8 times and whenever they are together they always do stuff(sex,BJ,makeout,HJ etc.)I sometimes start to think he is using her but then again they r in a serious relationship. Is that the way to go in a relationship? Do you think their realtionship will go far if thats all they do?If u have ne advice please write..thanx!;) (link)
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Best way to tell if he's using her, judge how they interract with each other when its a public place. If he treats her like crap and tells her to do stuff without being polite, "go get me a drink" and stuff of that nature. As for your second question, about sex being the way to go. Everyone's going to do it when they're comfortable about it. Yes it feels good, yes its a loving intimate experience to share, but don't rush into anything you think you're not ready to. As for when you know you're ready, you'll just know, its all part of how you develop as a person and as a biological entity.
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