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My friend is gonig outw ith my first love and ever and I am a little upset because he has half of my heart and i know she loves him so much and he loves her so ,much but half of me feels jealous is that normal?

its totally normal but really theres nothing u can do. but let them be together. there is always a chance for u later. and there is always other boys!

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ok.. one of my best friends uncle died last nite we were all really close with him but they were like really close n shes talkin about killing herself wut do i say to her to help her try n stop trying to kill herself? help i rate high

tell her that killing her self solves nothing. and that she has a lot to look forward 2 in life. and she still has a lot, friends and ppl who love her. and if she kills herself she is making u all misurble like she is about her uncle. and juz let her know ur there for her. she really needs u rite now. hope i helped. and good luck!

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ok this gurl is botherin me shes my bffs friend she hates me (KATIE, bffs friend) but my bff always says katie hates me and crap like that it really botherin me!!!!i need help!!!

ask her wut u did 2 her and if she hates u.(i hate it wen ppl hate me 2) well idk wut else 2 say exept that if she hates u, then who cares u dont have 2 be ne body ur not just so sum1 will like u, u r yerself and if she duzent like that.. then 2 bad 4 her cuz shes prollie missing out on a grate friend. =)!


x HoPe I hElPeD x

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I have this friends and I really like her like more than a friend. A couple of months after we became friends I asked her out but she thought that it would be better if we stayed friends. After that was said, we became much closer and im kinda getting signals. what should I do, I really like her?

hmmm... well idk if id ask her again cuz she sed no tha first time and to me id find it annoying if a guy asked me again after i sed no lets stay friends.. but maybe just flirt back. after awhile tho im sure it will be ok to ask her out.

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Ok well See i may have changed i dont know but im really confused of who i am. SOme of my friends want me to go back to my gurlie gurl fun normal self and some want me to stay my sorta Skater type self?! I want to g0 back and i dont ? I dont know! Im so confused ! Please help me!!!

Signed
*Confused~~

u can be both u know. hang out and skate sum days and be a gurly gurl with ur gurly friends other days.. but u reallie shud decide which one is you. it duzent matter wut thay say or think.. its who u r. r u a fun gerlie gerl or a skater chic?? u need 2 do wuts in ur heart and not do it cuz ur friends want u to.

Xo HoPe i HeLpEd oX

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I have 2 best friends who are leaving me out a lot lately, we used 2 b extremely tighht but now they're bein kinda mean. One of them is very controlling and the other is a follower so the follower follows the controller and they do stuff against me. I really hate it. I always feel like the second choice or the third wheel. What should i do... i rate high!

eh i know how that feels...well honestly they rnt worth it.. i mean find sum other ppl 2 hang with. they dont wanna hang with u, thay r missing out. soo juzt dont let them get 2 yea.. juzt maybe talk 2 them and tell them u dont like being treated like tha 3rd wheel..and if thay dont care, u shuddnt care and juzt find sum new friends 2 hang out with and act like u dont care any more. but if thay do care and they didnt realize they were leaving u out.. dont ignore them or ne thing like that, give them one more chance 2 prove that thay r ur friends..

Hope that made sense and i hope it helped u out!
~NICOLE~

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http://www.soup-faerie.com/


i think thats a good site..

hope i helped!!

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what should i do with my friend she just sits there and does nuthin all day she just sits there not even watches tv wat do i do

watch tv with her!! lol im jk.. ask her to hang out with u.. or sumthin idk.. well my friend says u shud tell her 2 get off her fat lazy ass and play sports. lol, i wouldnt say it as mean but she reallie does need 2 do sumthing.. itz not healthy...

*nicole*

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hey i just found out that this guy i like who is my 2nd best friend had the thought of asking me out just to make me happy it was in the past where he thought of the idea but i just found out today that he would do that why would he consider going out with someone he dont like just to make them happy wouldnt he be unhappy himself becuase he would of been going out with someone he didnt care for in that way should i be upset about he would just go out with me to make me happy and not go out with me becuase he accually cares for me like i care for him

If he duzent accually like u and he is juzt acting like it to make u happy... that duzent make u ne happier.. ryte? so if hez going out with u and duzent want to.. thats almost like playing u.. isnt it? soo i would talk 2 him and maybe he duz care for u.. u never know...

Xo HoPe I hElpEd oX
nicole

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what's a good way to make friends?

Talk 2 different ppl, and sum are bound 2 become ur friend!!!

Xo HoPe i HeLpEd oX
nicole

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my frineds hate me, whats wrong with me??????

i dont think ne thing is wrong with u, but did u do sumthing to make them hate u?? did u say sumthing? or lie to them? or sumthing like that? cuz if u did then maybe u shud try and fix things up. and if u didnt do ne thing, then they r not the rite friendz 4 u. go find sum otherz!

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX

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A couple of my friends always tell me that im so gorgeous and they wish they looked like me n stuff... yeah, its flattering but it makes me feel uncomfortable and a lil guilty or something. should i do something? or what can i do so that i wont feel uncomfortable... thank u

itz a complimint! and dont feel bad! juzt be happy that u r really pretty! and if it realli botherz u then tell them u appreciate tha compliments on ur lookz but it make u feel sorta uncomfortable. and hopefully it'll stop. but seriously stop feeling bad, itz a good thing!!

Xo HoPe I HeLpEd oX
nicole

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my "best friend" copies me a lot and it gets on my nerves. But yesterday she bought the same purse that I've had only for like a month when I asked her not to get it. Then she returned it but layed on the guilt and she mae me feel really bad because she said she was jealous of me cuz I have a great life, but i moved to TX from MD last year, and she said that moving wasnt a big deal but it was and so she wants to be fine and friends again but she really pissed me off and I don't really want to be her friend anymore so I don't know what to do now(I am 11 and a girl)

Shes jealous of u and wants 2 be like u! i c how it would get annoyin but tell her that she shud be her own individual and not get tha same things as u. and tell her if she continues to copy u, that u dont wanna be her friend ne more. *say it in a nice way tho*

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
Nicole

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i was at my friends house and her brother invited 2 friends over and they were being soo friggen annoying and the brother was annoying the sister in front of his friends...wat would you do?

Like when u dont pay attention to them, they will prolly stop. cuz they want u to pay attention to them. and if u dont they will leave u alone.. but idk, if that duzent work, then go sumwhere else..

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX

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~15 female~
me and my best friend are really close...i was w/ her when she lost *it* and the sad thing is she didn't even know the guy..she only new him for a lil bit! and then she had sex w/ this other dude but shes kind of dating him...and i told her she shouldn't be doing that bC shes always going out to have sex w/ some other dude...and then i was staying the nite w/ her one nite and we snuck out and she had sex w/ these 2guys that she hardly even knew...and she still talks to one of them she goes overto his house and stuff...but she doesn't need to hang out w/ him either cuz his a lil man whore! well then she had sex w/ this other dude...and then another (but she knew the last one really well)...well last nite me and her sunk out again w/ my boyfriend and one of his friends...and she had sex w/ him...i mean i haven't even had sex w/ my boyfriend yet...and i didn't even have sex w/ him that nite...well my freind has had sex w/ at lest 7guys...how do i get her to stop...i want her to wait till shes dating a guy before she starts haveing sex again!...?? what do i do?

omg wow, geeze soo she had sex w/ ur boyfriend too? thats cold. maybe im not a good prsn to give u advice on this. but u know she could end up pregnent? and she can get a whole bunch of diseases? i think ppl shud think about all theze things b4 they have sex. dude u need to tell her that she has 2 stop, u care about her and she wut she is doing isnt rite. if she duzzent stop idk if u shud stay her friend.

Hope i helped

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well i still realy like my x bf i dumped him cuz i am dumb and i regret it. but ne way while i was going out with him i gave my friend his sn for this reason and told her not to talk to him..well i found out today that after we broke up (she still knows i like him alot) she IMd him and was flirting with him alot..this just bugs me becuz she knows i wouldnt do that to her and how much i like him. so i didnt find this out till today it happened like a week or something ago but that day he ran into my friend at the mall and they talked and then that night he called me and i am just really confused..i guess its jealousy but idk anyone have anyone to say anything about this if u actually kno what i a,m talking about..? thx if u do

i know wut u r talking bout!! ok maybe u shud tell ur friend its buggin u that she talked to him, when u sed not to. tell her u wouldnt do that to her. Maybe he likes u still, how do u know she was flirting? idk but i cant realli come up w/ ne thing else sorrie

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX

*nicole*

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Ok theres this grl that i dnt like at all we have gotten into soo many fights and she makes me feel like shit when we get into fights..((there over the stupidiest things too))No body really likes her caz of her bitchy attitude..:x i have alot of confidence so im sticking up fer myself i dnt need herr Sh*t! But she wants to be friends with me and again..should i become friends iwth her again or stand my groound? And if i stand my ground then how do i tell her to bak off and not call me ne more because if i dnt do it nice she will spread shit about me!! :`( Help me plss!!
**RR**
rate fives to who ever helps mee!

OmG there is a gurl like that to me 2. i ended up juzt b-ing her friend (sorta) but wut i think u shud do, is tell her that u guyz will be okay with each other (not being enemies) but u guyz still wont exactly be friends cuz of all tha crap shes sed. wellz i dont know wut else i can say... but i hope that helped...

AlWaYz XoX, NiCoLe

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