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Q: 15/f
i'm 5'4 & weigh 124, but i'm not the skinniest girl . i want to get toned up abs, well enough that you'd be able to see them in a bathing suit, & my butt and thighs to get harder and bigger. i started going to the gym recently, but i dont feel what i'm doing is enough! can someone help me please!! i want to have the perfect bikini body by spring break .
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Honestly the only thing that has ever worked for me is running. You can't just do crunches and lunges to look better when you have fat on top of your muscles...it's just not going to work. You first need to get rid of some of the fat on top before you start toning up.
Over the summer I ran on the trails behind me house which have some large hills and i would challenge myself to run up every hill. It worked wonders on my butt and abs! I know its winter but if you really want to get a better body i really think cardio is all you can go to get results fast.
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Q: Okay, I'm short 4'11. My doctor said that my growth pattern went off track and that i won't get much taller. I want to be taller though cause I'm in sports like basketball and volleyball. So now my doctor wants me to get Steroid Growth Shots but i dont know if i shoud get them... any ever have them? please help, i need to make a decision soon. But then i'm also afraid of shots.. i don't know what to do.
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I'm 4'11" as well and had the same exact situation two years ago. I went to an endocrinologist and they explained these growth hormone shots to me. It sounded soooo nice i mean come on i could GROW! But there are side effects to these shots that are undiscovered and I decided that it wasn't worth messing with mother nature. Especially when i could be perfectly healthy without it. Theres just a little too much risk. Honestly, I am perfectly fine with my height. I have learned to embrace it and I know that I would be a different person if I was taller :] I suggest that you don't use them. Being petite is beautiful and I absolutely LOVE it. I play sports and I'm fine! Field hockey and pole vaulting are my thing. And being short has NOTHING to do with my successes.
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Q: i have like white lil lines on my butt on the side of my butt cheeks..i guess stretch marks they call them but i dont know from what..im very atheltic and i run eevryday...i am 5'4 and 110 pounds if that says anything..and i dont know what its from..i feel selfconcious wen im in a bathing suit because of that..help me out
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Stretch marks occur when you grow, gain weight, or loose weight quickly. They sell creams to help, but they take months to work unfortunately.
Try wearing shorts over your bathing suit bottoms or buy board shorts. Bathing suit season is almost over, so you should be fine. They'll go away in a couple months i promise.
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Q: If I wore a reg. size tampon and put it in at 12 and then woke up around 8 maybe nine will I be at a health risk?
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I would strongly recommend that you DON't do that. 8 hours is the maximum and even that is still dangerous. What if your alarm clock broke or something? Don't put yourself at risk. Just wear a pad for sleeping (:
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Q: I have an important question. I get cramps so bad that I sometimes stay home from school, as i am right now. is that a serious problem?
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It is not normal to get severe cramps like that! You should contact your doctor so they can put you on the pill. The pill will control your hormone levels, so your cramps won't be as severe. Every "girl talk" book I have has said to do that, so save yourself the misery and call the doc!!
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Q: What's the best way to keep your period from leaking through you pants? I wear 2 underwear and a pad and it still leaks through.
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Tampons are like the portable sleeping bag of the period world. They're amazing and convenient! Please try using them! Your periods will be 10 times better!
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Q: I know you're supposed to drink 64 oz. of water a day. Does that help you lose weight? If I drink more than 64 oz. of water will it make me lose more weight?
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Your body is basically made up of water. To replensish your supply you should ALWAYS drink as much water as possible to have healthy skin and eyes. Water is an excellent way to diet because you aren't harming yur body in any way such as Atkins diet will by depriving you of much needed carbs. If you drink lots if water you will be full and not want to eat as much. Good luck!
Love Always:.Arielle.:
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Q: I have a problem about my skin and hair. They both produce way to much oil. I have light blonde fine limp hair, which makes oil production even more. Also, im on medication for acne, which would seem to help control oil, right? Well its working for my acne, but not my oily face and hair. I've tried searching google for home made cures or remedies but i can't find any particular ones to my liking. I use oil control shampoo twice when in the shower and hardly put any conditioner. I massage enough to get the oil out of my hair, and leave it in for five minutes, althought i dont massage too hard, becuase i know that can make it oilier, because my heads trying to produce oil to replace the oils i washed out. But i dont have much money either. So any suggestions? Thank You!
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Use a blush brush and dip it in baby powder. Brush your roots lightly with the powder and it should absorb the oil. I heard that works so try it in the morning before you go to school. Don't put too much or it will look like you have dandruff :]
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Q: Anyone know a good way to stop a habbit of biting my nails? I keep biting them w/out realizing it for a few minutes. My family keeps getting mad at for it. It's driving me crazy! Plese help. I'll rate high for god advice. Thanks!
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I have a puppy and to get him to stop chewing shoes, we sprayed out shoes with this product called Foohey. Supposively it was supposed to stop our dog from eating out shoes, but it had a MAJOR effect on us too! My hands tasted discusting and i no longer wanted to put them in my mouth. I suggest you go to a pet store and get this stuff cuz it REALLY works on humans. It doesn't smell like anything so you can spray your fingers with it.
Good luck breaking your nasty habbit!!
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Q: ok, i hadnt got my period and im 13 years old. I went to the docter and they said i wouldnt get it for a while,but ive been having pains in my side ALOT. I went to the hospital and they said that im probly getting my period. I do have pubic hair and i do have dischange and ive had this since like this time last year. My boobs have been getting bigger and everything. When do you think ill get my period?
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My mom always told me to take the year you first started getting discharge and you'll get your period two years after that. Lets say you started in 6th grade...so you'd get it in 8th grade. In your question, you say that you started last year, so i'd say in another year. You can also determine from your hair (down there). If you have just wisps of hair, thats nothing. BUt, if you have like a carpet... then you'll get it soon. Your boobs have really nothing to do with it because when I go my period i wasn't even an A yet! Hope that helped. Oh and by the way, your period SUCKS so enjoy the years you have without worrying about it okay?!
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Q: I just started skool and i forgot to put pads in my bookbag and the second day of skool i wore WHITE capris and i started .... there was a big red stain on the back of my paints... i didnt relize it os i walked down the hall.... luckily i only went pass 1 guy and the next 1 was my best friend.... she gave me a sweater and i acted like i was sick and i went home..... I know this boy will tell every1 and i kno theyll make fun of my.... wat do i do if some guy does this to me?
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It happened to me once. I think maybe it happens to everyone! The best thing is to forget about it and really IT WAS ONE GUY!!! Think how much worse it could have been there was a story on here once about this girl who was gunna ask her crush out and then he said "Uh whats on your pants?" See MUCH worse!! You are so lucky you are not her!! If that kid does that to you just shake it off!! DOn't let some dumb thing like that ruin your school life!! You have awhole life ahead of you and you're gunna dwell on this??? NAH!!!!
Arielle
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Q: I just started my period and i have a very difficult guesion to ask every1....
WINGS OR NO WINGS
i rate high
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Personally i like wings because sometimees blood sneaks into the sides of your underwear. They are also sort of annoying but protect you better!
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Q: so sorry this is NASTY but when u put a tampon in, which "spot"? please dont be like "it says it on the box, theres a diagram"
thanks
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THe "spot" closest to your butt hole. God that was awkward! When your sitting on the toilet its natural so don't worry!
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Q: my cramps have been so bad all day its horrible i cant focus on my homework. what can i do/take. i dont rlly have ne special stuff like midol. but like advil nd tylonal type of stuff ;).
thank you. i rate. bye
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I always find putting a warm waterbottle of your abodomin helps. Go to sleep with it, but just make sure it doesn't spillall over your bed(that happened once)! Also, excercising minimized cramps so maybe go for a run!! Tylonol may help for some people but steer away from advil and asperin because i've heard that is dangerous!
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Q: My sister is pregnant and she can not keep anything down. This is her first time being pregnant!!! Do you know what she can eat, that wont make her throw up!!
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Whenever im nauseous my parents always tell me to eat bread and butter because it's very bland. So, try things that don't have much to them, like crackers are good.
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Q: ok well my feet are shped very "dis-formed" lets say. they have webbs between them just like a duck and when i wear flip flops with all my friend i feel left out. they really make fun of me. what should i do??
signed,
duckie
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YOU are not the only one with gross feet. there are so many people with weird toes and stuff. You know how I know? Because they all wear flip flops!! Be comfortable with yourself and wear flip flops if you feel like it. If they make fun of you just laugh along!! Not many people realy look at your feet anyway.
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Q: i was wondering if you should shave above your knee's and if you do will it turn all gross like when you shave below your knee?
I RATE 5'S
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It doesn't turn out all gross. It's barely noticeable when you haven't shaved in a while. If you have blond hairs though, i wouldn't shave above your knees because it takes up more time and you can barely see the hairs!
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Q: i dont feel comfortable telling my mom i got my period...how do I tell her? what do i say so i dont feel so embarassed?
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Well, since you get embarassed easily, slip a note in a cabinet. Like, one in her bathroom or a place she uses a lot. That way you don't have to talk to her
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Q: i have the thickest hair in the world- and it's extremely dry, and it's all one length, and it reaches to the middle of my back, i wanna get it cut really bad- nothing too short- but i dont know what yet. any suggestions? also- i dont know what to do about my hair being so dry. ive tried all kinds of moisturizing this and that- but nothing seems to work. PLEASE HELP!
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I have really thick hair too. Mine is just below the shoulders, so that might help. If you cut your hair to short, because it is so thick it will be really poofy, so that is something to think about. About your dry hair, I use Dove and it works pretty good, so you could try that. It has special moisturizers in it to make your hair really soft!
Good luck♥
.:Arielle:.
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Q: my hair has been falling out like crazy but its not normal falling out i mean its a lot of hair but i dont know why and i dont know if i should tell my mom
16/f
thanks
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My hair is starting to fall out a lot too. I'm pretty sure it is because the weather is getting warmer.At least thats what my mom told ME!
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bio
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Hi I'm Arielle and I'm 14 and i love helping people
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Gender: Female Location: New Jersey AIM: Member Since: March 30, 2005 Answers: 295 Last Update: February 15, 2010 Visitors: 18210
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