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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

if you need anything just drop one in my inbox..or you can im me...i am on alot.
i will answer any questions asap that are in my inbox. i never reject any questions.


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I cant stand my family anymore .. I just got into a bad car accident a couple days ago on this one road where someone before me wrecked n died so i was lucky i made it.. well i came home n layed down on the sofa n my mom told me to sit up .well i was n pain and she didnt care she didnt even wanna leave work to come see me n my stepdad told me he didnt care i got into accident. i dont wanna be here anymore my mom wont even talk to me she just walks away..

move to a family members house near by. or consider counciling..good luck.

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hey.. my parents r super protective like they wont let me "date" 1 on 1 till im 16 and they have to meet him and all that crap..althou im dating now and its really hard to go out w. him kas i need to have my friends go w. me so my parents dont explode.. what can i do so i can go out w. him but not get in trouble.?

u could go to the movies with ur friends but then go see a different movies with ur bf. or go to the mall or some sport game and hang out with him when ur parents arent there. good luck..that or u could talk to them about it

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Ever since i could remember my parents havent been exactly intimate i guess you could say. They have always seemed happy together and i always thought they would be together forever. Then a few days ago my mom told me that she was having problems with my dad and that they might get divorced. i was shocked and hurt. it killed me that i couldnt do anything about. and the worst part of it is i am the only one out of my family that knows how my mom feels. my dad and brother are clueless. i dont know how to handle this HUGE secret on my shoulders. how can i handle this horrible situation. please someone tell my what to do!

there is no exact way to handle situations like that, that i no of, besides talking about them...but good luck.

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I'm in my early twenties. I was raped as a teenager and never told my parents. Should I ever tell them? If they knew, they might be able to understand me better (I've got some psychological issues) but I don't want to upset them - if they knew, they'd be so so sad and would probably feel like it's their fault somehow. Is it worth it to tell them, or is this something that's best to keep from them?

i would say to tell them, i think that they have a right to know...but good luck

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Do you guys think my mom would freak out if i married some one older than she is?

umm..yea definitly...

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this wasnt really under a category..but are are some cool screen names for a blonde vball player?!? thatnks in advance

add numbers at the end if desired....

blnde_bombshell
vball x blondie
blnde x v_ball_playa
vball playa
playa_of_v-ball
v-ball_playa4lyf
blondieATheart

i hope i helped

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A week after fathers day my dad punched my brother and my brother socked him back. Eventually the whole family tried to get my fathers fat ass off my brother. I slapped my dad and he hit my bro again, then when his arm came back, it hit me in my head and knocked me out. When i woke up my friend was right there and screaming at me to get up. My bro had run away. I ran outside just in time to see where he was going then i was knocked out again. I felt my moms arms around me and she lifted me up. I wiped my bloody face and ran to my house sreaming :get that son of a bitch the fuck out of my house!" When i saw my dad, his tooth was knocked out and his face was bloody. I told him to get the fuck out of my house and he said he'll leave when he wants too. I started crying again and fell to the floor. My dad didn't give a shit about me. He just fucking stood there.
I found out where my bro went and grabbed car keys. I fired up the engine and my stepdad came out and opened the door. My friend hopped in the back seat and i went in the front. We went and got my brother. He picked me up and started hugging me. We had never hugged before, because we weren't as close as we are now.
I have to get dental stuff and now my dad wants to pay for everything. I know im gonna have to see him cause he has to sign papers. I don't know what to do. Plz help!!!!
signed,
helpless

i would call the abuse center and gte ur dad in jail. that and where was ur mom while this was going on?!?!? but im glad that u and ur brother are close. and i wish i new how to drive now let alone if i were 11. anyways good luck and i hoped i helped...please rate me thanx...:)

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ok here's the thing i hav this rlly gourgeous sister and everyone tells me omg ur sister's so hot ....... u dont looko like her. i am constantly comparing myself to her like weight and clothes and sports.she is super skinny im not saying im fat or anything cuz im not
but still she can get any guy she wants i can it always seems that she's better than me.

ok first of all shes not better than u r. i no exactly wut u feel like to. just be ur self. just blow everyone who says that stuff to u off. who cares about them any ways....


P.S. if u have time rate me....Thanx...Me

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Ok well i am good at giveing other ppl advice, i take my time n think bout it, but when it comes 2 me getting advice no1 seems ta care or take the time, so mayb sum will here...N i already kinda asked a ? like this b4 but never really got tha answer i wanted so ima try 2 put it in a different way...
Im 13/girl n im realllyyy confused. I liked this lets call him * ahah ok well * n me were really good friends n then we both started to have 'more than friends' feelings bout eachother, but we never went out cuz i messd things up. So newayz we like barley ever even talk nemore. N im really trying to move on, im pretty much over him, cuz i dun see him 2 much cuz its summer n hes goin to the high school n ill be in 8th. Ok well like i moved on.. its just i cant find ne1. N i kno tha whole 'o ull find sum1' wateva stuff but that doesnt help me? i think ppl think im still stuck over * which im not n i jus wanna move on. How shud i do this? Sry its a lil confuseing but its jus hard 2 explain.

ok about ppl saying that ur not over him yet or w/e if they dont belive u than thats there fault. that and if they r ur friends they should belive u. its not that confusing either. i know wut ur going through. and all u can do is deny it.

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