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Ever since i could remember my parents havent been exactly intimate i guess you could say. They have always seemed happy together and i always thought they would be together forever. Then a few days ago my mom told me that she was having problems with my dad and that they might get divorced. i was shocked and hurt. it killed me that i couldnt do anything about. and the worst part of it is i am the only one out of my family that knows how my mom feels. my dad and brother are clueless. i dont know how to handle this HUGE secret on my shoulders. how can i handle this horrible situation. please someone tell my what to do! (link)
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tell someone, like a friend or your brother, or even your dad if your up to it. I had to go through a smialar situation, and I told my brother, and then after a week of us knowing, I told my mom everything. You feel super guilty afterwards, but it's better to feel guilty because something is out in the open that if it isn't.
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hey i wrote on here b4 about my momz b/f with hep c and how i hate him and everything..well, the follow up on that is that today she just informed me that were moving in with him in a few weekz!! i have to change school and go thru the whole shit..shez trying to bribe me to move in...and i dono wut tah do!! plz i need help fast!!
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Hey Hun. Well, first of all, DON'T MOVE IN WITH HIM!!!! Don't take your mom's bribes or anything like that. Move in with a friend if anyone will tkae you in, or another family member. Just because your mom is putting herself through hell, doesn't mean she has to drag you and your sister through all the shit too. Refuse. Flat out refuse to move in with him. Just because she is your mom doesn't give her the right to force you to move in with some creep of a guy. hope I helped. ttyl
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ok well, me nd my mom fite constantly and i dont no what 2 do! its liek she never wants 2 help me out at all, if she drives me 2 my friends house one day i'll b hearing about it 4 the next 2 weeks. my friends parents always offer 2 drive me places ebcuase my mom wont, it makes me so upset that i have 2 ask other peoples moms 4 rides when my own mom wont. and my dad works alot but he'll drive me 2 my friends and stuff more then my mom will and he works ALOT more than her. and its usmmer so i have 2 stay home with my sister until 3 when my mom gets home but then shes always like im 2 tired blabalbal. i just dont no it may make me sound kinda selfsish but im reelie not its jsu like my omm never wnats 2 help me at all. i dont no what 2 do, and i get so upset sow e end up yelling at each other and i get in even more trouble, please help. (link)
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My mom and me are totally the same way. I mean, she moved us out here into the boonies .. and it is sooo boring. And my family life is shitty, and i get real depressed about it sometimes ... so I know how you feel. I always ask my dad for drives everywhere, but with both of my parents, i'll hear about it for weeks on end. I really don't know what to say on this. Our mom's sound alike, which means they are irrational and mean and "tired" all the time. lol. So you can't sit them down and talk to them. lol. But anyways, your not alone hun!!!!
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My mom got engaged to this guy after 7 years of them being together. But, i HATE him and so do all my sisters. He's cheated on her MANY times and she even walked in on him and another girl about a week ago!! She hasn't cried more than she has the day she walked in on him and the other girl. He knows he can get her back though, so he walks all over her! And, she's soooo weak when it comes to guys. She's become soo depressed and right now, shes in Virginia for vacation with him! She's coming back today. And ive tried talking to her many times about this as well as all my 5 sisters. She just won't listen. I want her to leave him. He's causing her nothing but harm! Also, to top it all off, he has an STD, Hepatitis C. And, he got it from another girl while cheating on my mom!!! And, she STILL won't leave him!!
What do i do?? please help...i rate high.
Thanks so much.. (link)
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what a sick basturd!!! I mean, ehat kind of man would do that? You are probley close to your mom, and your sisters .. but your mom sees comfort when she's with him. Knowing she has someone to be with after you all move out comforts her. but with him cheating on her all the time, and with him having an STD, she's going to ruin her life. You must talk to your mom again ... all of your sister and you team up against her and try to talk some sense to her. Personnally, I would freak out at this guy. I would!!! But anyways, if talking to your mom doesn't work, make an appointment with your doctor. She could give your family some advice on therapy for the family, and perhaps talking some sense to your mom. She's putting her life on the line being with him!!!!
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thnx for your help with my liking my cuz prob thingy...i mean you and like 1 other person actually understand that its not my fault that i am attracted to him, i cant help where my heart is, but you r right that i prob jus like that kind of person. of course i know in my head that i dont want to be with him or even liking him. and i guess i just needed help figuring out what the deal is...i rushed into thinking i liked him. but i am allowed to think he is cute and to like the kind of person he is without actually liking him, right? (link)
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Hey there. Thanks for the compliments. Some people are total freaks ... I mean, they come on here to give advice and then they totally spaz at a person. Like that helps. lol. Your allowed to think your cousin is cute. I mean ... I here all the time people saying how their cousins or whatever are cuties. lol. And you are aloud to like the type of person he is. He just represents the type of guy you want to be with. it's not him you want to be with, it that's type of guy. So don't worry about it. Just be happy that you have a very close bond with your cousin ... that you can tlak about anything with each other. That's great family. I hope everything works out and you find that type of guy out there. ttyl.
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Please, if you have an answer, help me. Especially guys, they might understand:
The thing is, I have this guy cousin who is 15 and I was hanging out with him 2 months ago, and he really has gotten quite groovy looking since the last time I saw him. Infact, he is absolutely gorgeous. ANd he is the funniest guy I know, and amazingly fun to be around. And I love him as part of my family, but when I went to visit him in London, I realised that I think I have feelings for him. But I don't think he has any for me...then again, I don't understand how guys are...but he talks about sex with me all the time, and I have seen him pretty unclothed...and he was comfortable with that. But I don't know...is it wrong that I like him, and is it unusual? And how would I know if he likes me or not? (link)
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Okay, ignore the jokes ... that's a bit mean. Your just confused right now. But, no, don't pursue the thing with your cousin. He sounds like a sweet guy. A good guy. I think that maybe, mentally ... you don't have a crush on your cousin ... i think that you have a crush on that type of guy. the gorgous, funny, sweet type a guy that has no problem with telling you anything. I think you have a crush on the fantasy of that guy, not your cousin. Your just confused. And your cousin only undressed in front of you and felt comfortable doing it because your family, and I don't think he would expect you to be like "wow" at him because your his cuz. Anyways ... and he probley talks about sex with you all the time because you might be the only person he's close enough with to talk about that with. Anyways, I hope I helped. Bye.
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My parents and my bro dont get along at all. My parents have disagreed with my bros choices for years. My mom and dad dont want nething to do with him really. They are tired of him expecially mom. But my bro still wants to have a relationship with me (sister and bro). Should i stick with my parents or form a relationship with him.
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Family life can totally suck sometimes eh? Well, i can see where your stress is ... but the fact is, is that you don't have to choose which one to remain "faithful" to. It's your parents that are tired of him, and if they don't understand that you still want your brother in your life, then they don't matter. Keep your brother in your life, and your parents should understand. Maybe if they see your brother and you closer, they might decide to forget the disagreements and see what they have been missing.
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