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For almost a week my boyfriend has been asking me if he could put it in my butt. I kept telling him no, it will hurt ect. but he keeps asking. Finally i told him i would let him "try" on Valentines day, and i let him down and he got mad. Last night me and him had sex and i told him i was going to let him do it this time, so he waiting till after i came, and tried to put it in there but i stopped him because the lub felt nasty. Now this morning he's calling me a bitch and saying i should die. I just don't get it. I don't know what to do about him. any advice?

Break up with him! Seriously...
It's obvious he's in it for the sex, and he doesn't respect you or your choices. He's not someone you want to be with, nor deserve to be with. You deserve someone who will respect you. You didn't do anything wrong, and I hope you don't feel like you have.


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If it's not too...big of a commotion or problem for you, could you tell me about a funeral you went to?

I'm going to my friend's grandma's funeral and it's the first one I ever went and I have no idea what's going to happen, what it's about, and not really sure what it is except that it's something that happens after someone dies.

P.S, do you HAVE to wear black? Not to be disrespectful or anything but this is just how i see it: "If I died, I'd like everyone to wear colourful clothes, to kinda celebrate that i moved to heavon in the afterlife"

thanks

A lot of people see wearing black as very respectful and you might upset someone, or it may even be offensive if you don't wear black. Wearing black is the safest choice.

Although some people consider white to be the proper color because some people think that death should be celebrated, not mourned.

I don't know what kind of funeral you'll be going to; it's different for different religions...if you knoe their religion or what kind of funeral they'll be having yo can look up the exact procedure online.


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My chin is SO ugly.Its huge and it sticks out.How can i make it look smaller.Also would losing weight help?It might just make it stick out more.Help please.Im just a little bit over weight.NOT MUCH.

I's amazing what google can do:

Maybe when you're older-I'm asuming you're not over 21-you can consider chin surgery...but until then or if you're against surgery:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071021120457AAs3lCI

http://www.aliraqi.org/forums/showthread.php?t=56786

http://www.upstagereview.org/MakeupArticles/tricks.pdf

You can also search for corrective make-up tricks.


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Call me crazy, but I think it's absurd that some people do not believe in love. After seeing all the good things people can do for each other and just seeing the love people have for each other everyday, I just can't believe it. Maybe it's because I'm a Christain and I've simply been raised to and have witnessed all kinds of love myself. But can someone please give me some insight?

People base their beliefs on their personal interchanges and experiences...if someone's had their heart broken over and over again then maybe they'll be a bit cynical about love, or believe it's not possible for them.

Sometimes people just give up on love altogether to save themselves the pain of relationships. Or maybe said person had parents who divorced or fought constantly.

Everyone doesn't feel the same way about everything and they never will. If they did world peace would be possible...and maybe we'd be able to do something about global warming and save the polar bears.

Not everyone has grown up in the environment you obviously were very lucky to grow up in. Not everyone has happy loving parents or a good life or home environment.

It's sad that some people have given up on love, but that's just the way it is. Sometimes it's easy to lose faith.


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Does anyone ever know what happened to that show? they ended with a cliff hanger and its killing me! please and thank you

I'm pretty sure the show got cancelled.

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because it would be wayyy easier then this ; and i already have like 5 other myspaces ; so i think i should just make a myspace advise colum ?should i ?

If it would be easier for you to make an advice column on myspace then go ahead, but a alot of people don't have myspace or aren't aloud to go on my space...

People wouldn't know about your column and you wouldn't get as many people on your column unless you find a way to advertise it.

But if that's what you want then go ahead, it already sounds like you've made up your mind, I don't know why you're asking a question on here. Do what makes you happy.


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Is The Host going to be an Adult Novel because according to Stephehenie Meyer, her book in the spring will be an adult novel. Is that true!? She said the book is coming coming up spring and The Host is coming out this spring; is she talking about the same thing?


This is the video where she says about the adult novel coming out in spring.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jUE_jcSeE_Q

The Host is an adult novel.

http://www.stepheniemeyer.com/thehost.html

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What page is when Edward and Bella kiss the first time?

I've read that book like five times, I couldn't remember what page though...I'm pretty sure it's page 282.

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if you eat too many skittles...like eat them everyday all the time could something bad happen to you? like in the future or something

You would gain weight...that's about the only bad thing that would happen. So don't worry about it, but remember that skittles all day every day is not a good way to stay healthy.

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Ok at Wal-Mart, I bought 'Sally Hansen- Hair Remover Wax Strip Kit'

is it ok if i wax my arms?

You could, but I wouldn't. The hair will grow back thicker and coarser then before. You'll never be able to stop waxing...

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im just doing a survey type thingy, and i was wondering:

girls, if you and your boyfriend were to get engaged, would you want him to pick out a ring and surprise you or would you want to pick out the one you want and him get it?

I think surprise is much more romantic, just try to pick something out that you think suits her well.

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how bad does a tatoo hurt? i know it hurts differently in different places. how bad does it hurt on your ankle, hip and lower back? i've gotten 4 piercings in my ears that i didn't think hurt much.

The pain is different for different people, some can handle more than others. A tattoo on your ankle hurts more than your lower back or hip.

http://tattoo.about.com/cs/pafterabvneck/a/090103.htm

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Does anyone have like a list of like beanie babies (names) and how much they sell for today. I would also really like a location to sell them at but any info is okay!!! THANKS!!!!!! ps a website is okay too

Lord, I have a ton of those things. I got them all a really long time ago though. Here's a few websites.

http://www.bbtoystore.com/store/BB_Beanies.html

http://www.ty.com/BeanieBabies_home

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beanie_Baby

http://www.barrysbeanies.com/

If you want to sell them here's a site:

http://www.buyingbeans.com/

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i have acne on my nose that NEVER goes away. i tried almost everything-- toothpaste, eyedrops, coverup, st. ives, & clean & clear. what should i do? dont say proactive or see a dermatoligist, and if you suggest products ****UNDER $10.**** i don't care how well they work, under 10 bucks please.

Anything neutrogena works very well. Try just washing your face with any of their face washes and then use the 3-in-1 Hydrating Acne Treatment. Both, I believe, are around or under $10 dollars. If you only want one the go with the latter.

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okay so there is this guy who has been texting me and i don't know who it is! here is what we have been saying from the beggining to now.
and also jordan, noah, and mackenzie are my siblings.
him- who is this?
me- anna, who is this?
him- do you like apples?
me- who is this?
him- i take that as a yes then?
me- who is this and i'll tell you.
him- i'll never tell you. i do know you though.
me- please just tell me!
him- ok ok, my name is hitler.
me- haha very funny. is this jordan?
him- no, not noah or mackenzie either.
me- oh my gosh, how do you know me? this is creepy...what gender are you?
him- you really don't know who this is do you?
me- uh no i don't but i know that you're a boy.
(i knew he was a boy because my friend called his phone and he picked up and it was a boys voice)
him- How do you know that? You a smarty pants now? And who's phone did you call me from?
me- yeah i am a smarty pants, thanks.
him- who's phone did you call me from?
me- Do you actually think that that's my voice? Why does it matter anyway?
him- Yes i actually think it was your voice being that i know you and as your new mystery stalker i think it's my right to know who it was.
me- I am not calling you, someone else is. Just tell me your age.
him- older then you.
me- Do you know my brother?
him- not really
me- how do you know me then?
him- that's for you to find out.
me- how do i find out?
him- you figure it out, smarty pants.
me- haha good one.
NEXT CONVERSATION- 2 days later
him- Did you miss me?
me- yeah i was wondering where you went.
him- haha well i am still here. you want me to tell you who i am?
me- PLEASE TELL ME!
him- haha, i dont think you've suffered enough.
me- wow, you're really nice.
him- a hint to my identity.
NEXT CONVERSATION- Next day
me- what's the hint?
him- you already figured it out, i'm not very nice.
me- okay...creepy.
him- are we being rude now?
me- well, i think it's pretty rude how you're not telling me who you are!
him- No no, that's just good fun. Hahaha, is it really killing you?
me- duh.

Okay, so that is all of our conversations so far. I've asked like all my friends and siblings if it's one of them or their friends, and none of them even know the number and they wouldn't lie. I've looked on all the websites and i know that they live in my area but you have to pay like 20$ to get the name and address or i would. So i don't know what to do and it's really creepy so should i stop texting or what?
thank you in advance!

I don't think he's dangerous or that you have anything to worry about. It sounds like he's just playing a joke on you, and maybe that he likes you. Once, when I got a new phone and number, I texted this guy, he was one of my old friends, it was funny how he was trying to guess who I was. I told him after about an hour though.

It's not just a little fun, not knowing who it is? It's like a mystery novel or something. If it gets to the point where he's really starting to freak you out, then stop responding. If that doesn't work then you should tell someone about this. I honestly just think you have a secret admirer or a prankster. No serious stalker admits to being a stocker.

If you want to post your next conversation in my inbox I could probably give you more advice. Plus this is really interesting.

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what kind of chocolate brand should i buy for feeling sad? and the chocolate should be with nuts do you guys know any brand or where should i buy?

Snickers have nuts, Hershey's can have almonds... That's all I can think of. I'm not sure that any particular chocolate will help more than the other.

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alright, so if a guy gets raped, and the woman gets pregnant, does the guy have to pay child support for the kid?

First off, I doubt people would believe the guy was raped and not the woman. If the woman who raped the guy said she was raped then they would most likely belive her. If the court does believe that the man was raped or the woman confesses to raping him, he would not have to pay child support for the kid.


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on this site, whats that thing called "C2" mean and whats the whole deal about it? i dont get it..

A C2 is a archive where you put however many stories you want under a name.

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Do you think i have a singing talent?

http://s161.photobucket.com/albums/t202/SRH6306/?action=view¤t=945c57e3.flv

Honestly...considering sound quality, you're okay. It sounds like you're singing through your nose at times, and at the end you were flat. Practice makes perfect though, singing lessons would also help.

EDIT: You know people on this sight are going to give you constructive criticism, and tell you the truth. If you want to hear how great and how talented you are when you're obviously not, then go someplace else.


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how long would it take for a cheap $5 bottle of wine become really good and aged? or atleast rise in value. thanks

Depends on how much you want for it. $80-$100, probably 25 years or longer.

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