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Wrong Sub. didnt know what to put it under. k well I am a 14/F and i have no idea what to ask for for christmas, any ideas? (link)
Digital Camra. iPod. gift cards. cd's . perfume. purses. pj's. makeup. cell phone. money. Yah those are the main things. Just think of one of your hobbies and ask for gifts that would have to do with that. Or things you like or might need more of.

♥ jAcKiiE


The guy I like has a girlfriend and Im friends with her but i really really like him alot and i wanna go out with him but i know there prolly not gonna break up for a LONG time if they even do at all. But heres the thing. HE LIKES ME BACK. I just really dont know what to do. And i like this other guy and hes single but I dont know if he likes me back or not bcuz im scared to ask him and have him say no then ill get embarrassed if he tells all his friends. what should i dooo??

((>)) (link)
Your just going to have to wait .. Fined another guy because if you wait for him forever you might miss a guy that could be perfect for you.. stay single if you want so your not taken when or if he does break up with this other girl but still firlt and try to find a different guy chances are you will find another real soon cuz theres millions of guys out there.. you dont want to make him break up with his girlfriend though because just think how you would feel if ur bf broke up with you for another girl! You can wait for him but dont wait forever try to move on!!

♥ jAcKiiE


i'm 17 and i've been wondering something confusing about girls.For instance take these two scenarios:

1)I went to a camp and this gal was looking and smiling at me alot and i did the same too, then later i saw her profile on the internet and messaged her,but she didint' reply back.So has she forgotten me?is she playing hard to get?she doesn't want to look desperate?she doesn't want to look to obvious?

2)Second scenario, I see this gal regularly when I pick my sis up for dance lessons,she keeps on looking at me and I know it, but after a while she stops looking at me and acts as if I;m not there?
Is it because she doesn't want to be too obvious?playing hard to get?forgotten about me?or lost feelings for me?

thanks for reading and I hope you can answer my question. (link)
All girls are different so i cant say yes they do hide there feelings. But maybe the first girl has just not yet seen your comment. I cant realy answer the is she desprate,hard to get, or look obvious because im not sure and i dont think its eather of those. For the second question the girl has eather just gaven up flirting with you because you havent tried to make a move yet so she maybe thinks your not interested. You have to remember some girls are shy so they might not make a move maybe just smile and hold a look with you for 30 seconds then turn. To find out the actual answer you will have to do something. Just aporch her and say hey whats up or Hey do i know you... Then see what happens from there if its a could convo then maybe she will give you her number or you can give yours. Hopefully you find out the actual answers and hope i helped !!

♥ jAcKiiE


I like G. for one month...He is really nice to me...And we always hug each other kiss each other and we act like we are together...My friends and his friends think that we are together..I think i am beautiful because boys think that..Yesterday was like every day..We were hugging each other and we were on his motorcycle...We were "touching" each other A LOT..Like only couples do...And then he would drive me home..We were on his motorcycle when he turned and we were so close and we kissed each other...It happened and i was happy about that..I am...But we are not together..He didn't ask me to be with him or something like this...Today everything fine..Without touching and kiss(lips)..I really want to be with him..It is the first time i like a boy THAT much...What should i do to be with him???He is a really good guy...We know each other 1 year but only this last months things are that "good"..What should i do to be with him apart from asking him out???P.S.(When he were hugging each other i heard his heart which was beating really quickly...)
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Ask him how he feels about you and if he considers you to together. If he says no that your just frineds then just be like ok well i was just wondering how you felt because i heard from someone that you had feelings for me. Then that way he wont figure out that you have feelings for him. But when you get anough confidence you should tell him how you feel who knows something good might come out of it!! Hope you get the answer you want to hear from him let me know how everything worked out and i hope i helped !


♥ jAcKiiE


hey im 15/f Im sorry if this is long, but i appreciate your answers! Ok so here it goes. My ex boyfriend and I were talking about hooking up again, we hung out on Thursday of last week and he put his arm around me and all that "love" stuff. But today i come to find out that he has a girlfriend already but he tells me that he doesn't. He made plans to go to the fireworks with me but he went with his girlfriend instead. But he keeps on lying to me. I guess they've been going out for about 2 months now. And i asked him if he was going out with lets call her Amy. And he said no that was just a rumor but come to find out that he is. And hes just not telling me how can i get him to tell me the truth? Hes just breaking my heart.. and i have no idea what hes doing... Please someone give me advice on how to "get him" or make him tell me that hes going out with her.. Also are there any songs that fit this situation as in hes lying when he has another girlfriend? If not thats okay i appreciate it thanks a bunch!!! (link)
First find out for sure if he does have a girlfriend. You cant always listen to what people are telling you find out your self. Then just tell him ( be kinda forcefull if you know what i mean be very serious) Say something like " i know i keep asking you if you have a girlfriend but i keep hearing that you do and im sick of being lied to so tell me the truth do you or do you not?? Tell him that if he does have a girlfriend you dont care then maybe he wont be scared to tell you the truth. If he still tells you that he doesnt have one then maybe he really doesnt but then if you find out for sure and see her your self then stop trying to see him hes not that important and plus he lied to you. There alot of guys out there so go find some new ones . I hope it works out for you and sorry i dont know anysounds right now but just think of some titles that kinda sound like what your going through and see if theres any songs that match it search on yahoo if your not sure where to search for them.


♥ jAcKiiE


how long is a guys penis when he's 15? (link)
It depends everyguy could be different. The average sizes are 5-8 .

♥ jAcKiiE


My boyfriends birthday is very far away [october]
but I keep TRYING to think of stuff to get him but i dont know what im thinking of concert tickets but i dont know..

he gave me a very expensive camera and i dont want to give him a petty gift

HELP! (link)
Concert tickets sound good but make sure its a band he realy likes. Pay attention to things he really likes doing and things he has that he really likes. Get him something maybe that would have to do with a hobby he has. If you are planing on spending alot on him but dont know of a big present he would like to have then try getting a whole bunch of small things that he would like or need. Just try to find out what kind of things he has that he really likes and maybe get him something that has to do with those. Sorry hope i made since might be a little confussing. Hope u find something but im sure he will like whatever it will be!!


♥ jAcKiiE


ok this guy i have liked 4 2 years we went out once but we have been good friends since and i have never gotten over him i ahve always loved him and im not sure if he likes me back like he always wants to hug me at school and he always holds me in his arms and he awlays wants me to call him and he always says sweet things he loves talking to em and im his favourite person to talk to and im fun and he makes me love him even more we talk everyday and it rives me crazy i was just wondering does he like me or not plz tell me

XoXo......LoVe..............HiLdA =] (link)
Its sounds like he does like you . Ask him if he likes you . Dont be scared because if he says no or why just say "because i heard from someone you did and i was wondering if it was true" then you will know the real answer. Ask him out or just to hang out sometime one on one. Like to the movies , dinner, or dancing just something fun . Hope you find out how he feels about you and i really think he likes you if hes giving you so much attention.


♥ jAcKiiE


I'm in love with Davey Havok from AFI and i cant seem to get his face out of my mind. Whenever i see his face anywhere it feels like my heart drops into my stomach! I'm not that old. I'm in my early teens.If you know who he iz you know he's not the hottest guy ever. Is this like weird? (link)
Sorry i dont know who he is. But its not really wierd because your just a fan that really likes him. I dont really think your in love you think you are but your not your just a good fan. Its fine its not weird. Sorry i dont know exactly how to answer this question.


♥ jAcKiiE


ok so this boy right? we like each other but nothin has happend. we're cool and all. i never really told him how i REALLY felt like why i like him and stuff like that. after this school year he might move and i don't want him to forget me. soo.. should i tell him how i feel before the summer? my fear is that i dunno if he feels the same way. advice please lubb youzz!! (link)
Tell him. You wont be stressed as much if you do plus if you dont tell him your going to regret it so much. Even if he doesnt feel the same way ask him if you can still be friends. If he says yes then dont expect him to be the same for the first two weeks he might act a little different. Just keep talking to him like you always do so he know that you are still comfterble being friends with him then he will relize its alright with you and he doesnt have to worry. But yah tell him how you feel or your really going to regret it.

♥ jAcKiiE


((14/f)) and the boy ((17/m))
k, so i met this kid at the beginning of the school year. and basically we've been in love ever since.
but we aint going out because of my mom
she hates him, and shes never even met him.. and she thinks that he just wants sex, cuz she assumes thats what every guy older then me wants. but ivee already told him that im not having sex, because i think im too young, and he understands completely. and i know he doesnt want sex, because its been 9 months and hes still here.
and we both really want to go out,
btu the problem:
my mom
and our school.
our school talks way too much crap

any suggestions on what i should do?
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Try talking to your mom. Sit her down and tell her that he's not like other guys. That you two have been talking for 9 months and he doesnt want to have sex with you and that he is very nice and understands that you dont want to have sex with you. Tell her that just because hes older it doesnt mean hes just going to use you and that you are keeping your eyes open and if he does try anything with you that you will stop seeing him. Tell her that you know to be carefull and that you will tell him your just not ready and that your to young to have sex with him. Im not sure if this would work but just let her know that you are smart and you have common since and that you will watch out for those things. Try to be very serious when talking o her and ask her if she would like to meet him so she can get to know him a little better so she can trust who your going out with.


♥ jAcKiiE



last summer i met a boy in a chatroom ... yes i know chatroom. I use to go in them all the time when i was bored and whatever play around i guess anyways i started talking to this kid, and over time i actuallu started to like him. I never seena picture of him at first so i know i liked him for him and not what he looks like. We kinda dated ... ughhh sounds gay i know i know. Its not like i cant get a guy in real life, i can and i do but i always end up thinking about him. I've seen his picture only a month ago and hes alright! not cute or anything but i still love him. His personality is wonderful and i cant get enough of him, but the whole idea of meeting him from online makes me feel like a geek! i dunt noe. I had a boyfriend before i met him and i was in love or at least i thought i was. i already knew what i wanted but now i want him!! is that weird??? And i know hes not a fake!!! he has a myspace and has ALOT of friends on it from his school and we talk on the phone?? do you guys think its weird .... do you think its possible to be in love with someone you hardly know but in a way you do!! (link)
No its not wierd it has happened to alot of people. Just be careful because you never know for sure. Yes it is possible to fall completly in love with someone you never met befor i actully think it better to talk to someone over the phone a few times befor you meet because then you get to know there personalty and you wont judge them on their looks wicht is a good thing. Ask him if he ever wants to meet up with you so you guys can hang out and then it wont be as awkward if you have actully met befor. Just be carefull but dontthink your a geek or its wierd to fall in love with him because its totaly normal.

♥ jAcKiiE


Okay, I'll try to make this short. I've liked this guy for months and one day in math I got a question right and he started going on and on about how smart I was. Then another day in S.S, I graded his test and he didn't study and he got a 92. Then he held out his arms and said give me a hug, so I hugged him. Then in Language, he was talking and looking at me a lot more than usual.
13/f (link)
I think he likes you !! Ask him if he wants to hang out sometime and if he says yes then hes problyinterested in you. Just flirt back and wait to see if he ask you out. !!

♥ jAcKiiE


Here's the deal. Me and my Girlfriend have been going out for a year and she's now at a different school than me. We live a fair distance apart so we rarely see each other and we seem to be talking less and less.

And now when we see each other it seems the spark just isn't there. I think we should break up but i'm not sure how to tell her.

P.S. I'm a 14 year old male (link)
If you dont really like her anymore and dont want to go out with her then break up. Tell her that its just not working out and its hard to have a long distance relationship and that you just dont talk anymore. If you still want to be friends though then say that. Hope it works out.

♥ jackie


my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a year. we're both 15. recently he's told me that he likes other girls, but would never cheat. he says he only likes them based on looks and anytime he sees them, he always compares them to me in the back of his mind and they always lose. but when i found out about this, i was upset. i feel uncomfortable that he likes other girls besides for me. is that selfish? he loves me and i love him but i don't want other girls to be on his mind. it hurts...should i try to be ok with him liking other girls or should i break up with him? i mean, people can't help who they like, right? (link)
Dont break up with him. Every guy is looking at other girls if they have a girl friend or not. Just because he looks at other girls doesnt mean hes going to break up with you. You probly check out guys when hes not around and it perfectly normal. Plus he said that he compares u to them and your way better so if your so much better then dont worry about it. He loves you for who you are so it doesnt matter what you look like. So no dont break up with him. But if your not comfterble with him doing that then let him knoe but dont make a big deal out of it.

♥ jackie


i have this boyfriend and he is gorgeous and i love him a lot but theres one problem he slaps me and chokes me. sometimes he'll throw me against the wall but sometimes i dont even have enough time to think and he pushes me back against the wall and starts to make out with me. it kind of scares me a little but i know i really love him and i try not to care about it. what should i do? i really love him...really. (link)
Ok this isnt what you want to hear but its what you have to do. I know you love him and this is going to be tough but your going to have to be strong. First sit down and have a serious talk with him and that he needs to stop pushing you around and that you dont like it.Tell him you love him and you really dont want to break up with him but if he continues what hes doing your going to break up with him. If he doesnt stop what hes doing then this is the hard part. Your going to have to leave him. Its going to be tough But you can do it. If he continues to try to beat you even after the break up then your going to have to talk to your parents, an adult you trust, or the police. Just be strong. I know you can go through with this. I hope i helped and i hope it really works out.

♥ jackie

Let me know what happens.


ok well u might know this already know this well i am 14 years old and i get good grades and do what i am told and in reward i get mosly everything i need and want.but i am allowed to have a boyfriend but this guy likes me and i like him but he is younger than me.i am in the eighth grade and he is in the fourth grade.so that means that he is 10 and i am 14.is that wrong that i like him.but i was with him the whole day yesterday and whenever i am with him he treats me like a princess but than i think if about a lot of parents and how they have a bigger age difference like 10 years compared to my 4 years with him.but i need help and i want to know if it is a bad thing that we talk to eachother everyday on myspace and on the phone.and sometimes i seee him like during the week cuz he goes to my litte cousins school.but when i was with him last night i kissed him on the cheek a lot before he left and when we call eachother we say i love you and i know we both mean it but is the age difference a bad thing.please help me
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The age difference is big. Its ok for adults to have different ages because there older, I dont know its just different for adults. Your in 8th grade and hes in 4th. Hes only 10 thats a big diffference. You might like him alot and he might like you alot but i dont think hes really in love because hes so young. If your parents were to find out they would probly say its not such a good idea for you two to be in a relationship. You can still talk to him and hang out with him but i wouldnt become boyfriend girl friend and kiss anymore. Don't worry though there are guys out there your age and just as sweet as him. Just give more guys a chance and you will find someone. Hope it works out.

♥ jackie


hey im 15/f theres this guy in one of my classes that i have liked for a little over a year now. His locker is right by mine to. One of his friends said that he'd "bang me" so as in im okay. And he always grabs my butt, and says like nice a** and stuff. He really doesn't ever talk to me though like doesn't flirt. Does he like me? But then again he does this too all other girls too. What do i do? I really like him and i want to go out with him possibly. but we barely ever talk and if we do its about stupid stuff. PLezz help (link)
You should start to talk to him. Ask him if he wants to hang out sometime but i would do it with a group of friends the first two times you do hang out. Since he grabs every girls a** and says that then he might just want some. I would be carefull around him because he might just want to have sex. Maybe once you to get to know eachother a little more he will stop grabing your a** and give compliments and talk to you and maybe flirt. I dont really know if he likes you because since you guys dont really talk chances are he doesnt so just get to know eachother and hang out. Watch out though if he goes to far and you dont like it then tell him to stop.

♥ jackie


Well today i approached my boyfriend that i told one of my friends he was cute. But it meant nothing because it was over myspace, and i was commenting his pictures. I mean being i have a boyfriend, i can't be super nice because then he'd get mad. He wasn't too happy about it but he said as long as it meant nothing that it's fine. And it didn't, see i think he's worried though becuase my friend that i called cute thinks i'm the most gorgeous girl he's ever saw and all that.

My thing is that i've tried telling my boyfriend that it means nothing in multiple ways, i've told him straight out, i told him not to worry, but i still have a feeling he does worry, because now he asks if me and my friend talk, and what we talk about.

So my question is how can i prove to my boyfriend who i love dearly and would never "drop" him for anyone, that there is nothing to worry about?

I'll rate high for good answers.

Thanks so much in advance. (link)
Go to his house or invite him over. Tell him that you love him not your friend. Ask him to trust you and not worry about it. Let him know how much you like him and that you wont ever cheat on him or leave him for your friend. Dont tell him that your friend thinks your gorgous. You just need to prove to him how much you like him and that he can trust you. Sorry if i didn't help much but i hope it works out between you and your boyfriend.


♥ jackie


ok well there is this kid he is 15 and im 13 well hes good friends with my brother and my brother said that he told my brother that he thinks im cute and likes me well i used to like this kid a couple of years ago he asked me out and i being very stupid said maybe and never heard from him again so when he told my brother this about 2 weeks ago well i started to think...he has changed quite a bit since the last time i saw him hes kinda hott :) well he has a kinda not really but around this people a jocky additude but not around me well im to scared to talk to him and every time i see him he smiles at me is it a sign does he like me?? i dont know i need advice i have his sn but he doesnt know i do and i dont want to start a convorsation with him and asking my brother to help or any friends are out of the question so please help i will rate really high (5) for good answers thanks!! (link)
Im him on the computer. Just say " Hii whats up? I got your sn from my brother? Do you want to talk?" He might not like like you but just think your cute. Since he smiles and is nice to you and has ask you out once befor maybe he has a crush and is shy to show more feelings. You should start talking to him. When ever hes around or at your house to see your brother smile at him or say hey. This way he will start to notice you some more and become closer to you and feel comfterble about talking. Hes probly shy to talk to you so right now your going to have to start the conversations. Im him and talk to him thats all you should really do. Hope i helped you out.

♥ jackie




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