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why is he lying?
hey im 15/f Im sorry if this is long, but i appreciate your answers! Ok so here it goes. My ex boyfriend and I were talking about hooking up again, we hung out on Thursday of last week and he put his arm around me and all that "love" stuff. But today i come to find out that he has a girlfriend already but he tells me that he doesn't. He made plans to go to the fireworks with me but he went with his girlfriend instead. But he keeps on lying to me. I guess they've been going out for about 2 months now. And i asked him if he was going out with lets call her Amy. And he said no that was just a rumor but come to find out that he is. And hes just not telling me how can i get him to tell me the truth? Hes just breaking my heart.. and i have no idea what hes doing... Please someone give me advice on how to "get him" or make him tell me that hes going out with her.. Also are there any songs that fit this situation as in hes lying when he has another girlfriend? If not thats okay i appreciate it thanks a bunch!!!
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you have seen it and heard it so he is just messing your heart because he knows he can get to you. just leave it alone and move on there really isnt nothing else you can do but move on. if you keep messing with him it will just keep hurting you even more. it might take a while to get over gim but just do it. it will help you in the long run.
songs
move along americain rejects
make damn sure taking back sunday
stab my back americain rejects
hope this helps.
♥ Steph
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Dearie.... You Know the truth-- the truth that he's lying. I (or we) don't have to tell you that he's lying because it's sooo obvious that you know he is.
I think the best thing you can do is to STOP SEEING HIM. If you know he already has a girlfriend, don't push it. Have some respect for the girl also because she's the "legal" one. You know, he's probably just playing with your feelings.
I'd just give you a piece of (possibly) useful advice: if you want him to learn his lesson so that he'd stop being a player, quick! Tell his current girlfriend to be aware of him because he's a player and he's cheating on her. If she doesn't believe you, you can tell her "I respect if you don't want to believe what I'm saying. It's just that I don't want you to be another 'victim' of his stupid playing games."
That should put a doubt in her mind.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit.
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First find out for sure if he does have a girlfriend. You cant always listen to what people are telling you find out your self. Then just tell him ( be kinda forcefull if you know what i mean be very serious) Say something like " i know i keep asking you if you have a girlfriend but i keep hearing that you do and im sick of being lied to so tell me the truth do you or do you not?? Tell him that if he does have a girlfriend you dont care then maybe he wont be scared to tell you the truth. If he still tells you that he doesnt have one then maybe he really doesnt but then if you find out for sure and see her your self then stop trying to see him hes not that important and plus he lied to you. There alot of guys out there so go find some new ones . I hope it works out for you and sorry i dont know anysounds right now but just think of some titles that kinda sound like what your going through and see if theres any songs that match it search on yahoo if your not sure where to search for them.
♥ jAcKiiE
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