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My best friend and I like the same guy. The thing is, he is dating my best friend. But she and he both know that he likes me also. He wants to be with both of us, but I don't want to hurt my best friend so I think I should back off. What should I do?? Thanks!

I'm very sorry babe, but since he's already with your best friend.. you're gunna have to let him go.. UNLESS you liked him before she did and SHE knew you liked him.. then that would be a different story.. but yeah.. if she liked him first.. then you've got to let them be.. i know how bad it will hurt because i was in the same exact situation well.. a little different because this girl wasn't my BEST friend and the guy was my boyfriend first.. then she stole him.. and in the end.. I got him back.. so yeah.. IM me if you need anymore adivce.

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I'e been going out with this guy for about 1 month. My best friend and 2 guy friends say i should break up with him because he treats me like crap. He is always on other girls and every now and then he cusses me out for stupid reasons. What should I do??

babe. i think you should get rid of him and move on. no girl deserves to be treated like you are being treated. i know it might be hard cuz ive done it like 1,000 times haha. but you've got to try your hardest. be confident. break up with him and say to yourself.. im pretty, i can get another boyfriend.. ugh.. i can't stand guys that are assholes to their ladies!! you need to get you a hott ass boyfriend that treats you like gold.. GO OUT AND FIND OUT! LoL IM me if you ever need any other advice! Peace oUt!

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I never get this kid. I really like this boy and I have liked him for over a year now. We have went out before and things happen on and off. Well I have been talking to him recently and he told me he loved me and all, and I didn't know if he was just saying that to get some lol but then he was like I am being serious I really like you a lot still. He said he wants to have sex with me, but the thing is we aren't going out and I brought that up and he's like fine we will go out and then do it. I told him if we did that I was afraid he would 'hump me and dump me' you know. But I told him that I guess I would so he wouldn't keep asking and I was afraid he would get mad. He was happy and all. Then he told me he had to go and he would call me back in 45 minutes and he was like I love you Ryah, just like he would usually do. He never called me back and usually he would call me the next day, but he didn't and he hasn't called me yet today either. I don't know what is up, I saw him today in school and I smiled and said hey and he smiled back (we don't have enough time to stop and talk). He never really acts like he so called 'loves me' in school but we do act like friends, but on the phone it's different. I don't know why he hasn't called and I don't know why he only acts like that on the phone! Anyone have any ideas?

He's not worth your time.. and I think your right about the humping and dumping part.. if you say.. well we aren't even going out so.. no I don't want to have sex with you.. then he says.. Well fine! We will go out.. Then do it! That's BuLL sHiT!~ I'm sorry hun.. but he doesn't want nothin' but.. well.. u know.. don't hurt yourself.. forget this loser!

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Okay, about two weeks ago, I told one of my really close guy friends that I liked him. I thought I did because I knew he liked me ALOT too.. He would do anything for me, etc, so I thought that I liked him too. So I told him. But now Im seeing that I really dont have those kind of feelings for him at all. I feel horrible because he seems so happy now because he thinks I like him back... I dont know what to do :-/ I really dont want to talk to him about it because its really messed up.. any advice on how to handle it without talking to him? Thanks in advice.

Well babe.. I'm srry but the only way to get through this without hurting him really bad.. is just.. telling him the truth.. tell him you thought you had feelings for him.. but the feelings have gone away because you realized you don't wanna mess up your friendship.. be really nice about it and just be like.. I think it's better that we are friends.. and let's just ignore this and not let it interfere with our friendship and tell him not to act different around you at all.. things like that!! I hope I helped! Rate me high!! lol Please!

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I met this guy back in September over the computer.He is from the same state as me and he lives pretty close too.I'm really in love with him,and he loves me too.He is the sweetest guy I've ever met.He treats me so right.Yet I get upset with him alot and we fight.He calls me every day and we talk online.The only thing I hate is that he has a girlfriend from another state who lives like 4 1/2 hours away and they never see each other.I'm always getting mad at him over that.He told me he wants to marry me in 2009.I don't know what I'm suppose to do.Should I get over the fact he has a girlfriend,and that I probably won't have a chance with him? Please help me,I'm not sure about what I should do.

I'd appreciate the help...Thank you!

First off.. if you have never met this dude.. FORGET HIM! Well no.. I can't say that.. because true love can happen over the internet.. just like in.. *A Cinderella Story* haha! with Hilary Duff.. haha.. Great cute movie.. but yeah.. I'm sure you will have a chance with him.. but if you've never seen the dude before.. how do you know if he's cute or not? haha just wondering.. anyways.. why i said that you will prolly have a chance is because.. your dude will realize well hay! my girlfriend lives almost 5 hours away.. and i'm never gunna see her.. and of course guys are horny.. and he'll think well i have this wonderful girl that actually lives in the same state as me.. and like CLOSE to me.. soo ill break it off with this girl that lives 5 hours away and start a relationship with this AWESOME chick that lives so close to me.. lol GOOD LUCK!!! Trust me.. this dude will realize UR THE ONE..

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What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that?

Something a guy would do that would totally make me feel so special.. is just.. looots of cuddling and I love yous.. and telling me how good of a girlfriend i was.. and just holding eachother and kissing.. awwe.. how cute! lol.. I would definitely love if my boyfriend bragged about me to his friends.. like.. my girlfriend is the best ever.. and stuff like that.. Girls feel loved when we get to cuddle!!

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I told a guy I would go to the fall homecomming with him but a week before I got caught sneeking out and got grounded. I told him I couldn't go with him anymore, then a couple days later my parents said I could go with him still. So I call him and and I asked him if he still wanted to go I could go with him, if not it was cool. But by that time he had another date. I really feel bad b/c I couldn't go with him and yes, I know it was really immature of my to sneak out. One of my friends said he thought it was rude of me to tell him I could still go with him...I don't get it, but should I appologize to him about not bieng able to go with him? I havn't talked to him in 2 months...thanks

-Zero

No! You should have no reason to apologize! This isn't your fault at all.. your parents grounded you and are the ones that made you make the decision to tell him that you weren't allowed to go to the dance with him.. then of course.. your parents changed their minds.. so this isn't your fault at all.. Ask him why he thinks it was rude to tell him you could go with him again.. Tell him that it wasn't your fault and you seriously weren't allowed to go anymore.. but your parents decided your were allowed to go again.. and tell him that YOU wanted to go with him so you told him that if he didn't have another date already that you could still go because your parents changed their minds.. Ugh.. Boys.. boys.. boys.. I HATE THEM!!! lol

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I lost the love of my life because he faught somtimes, but the real issue is- my parents won't let him be around me- i can't even talk to him!.... what do i do? He loves me so much and i love him too, we want to be together but my parents won't let us..?! help me please

well.. this is sneaky but.. u can't help true love.. BE WITH HIM.. i'm sure you can think of ways to hang out with him without your parents knowing.. it might be hard but.. its love.. you can still talk to eachother on the phone.. its YOUR parents that won't let you talk to him.. so you can still call him.. just don't let him call you.. and if he wants to call you.. tell him to dial *67 when he calls your house because it makes his number private.. go over to your friends houses on the weekends.. and invite him over there or something.. babe.. i hope things work out for you.. this is the reason i don't tell my parents when i have a boyfriend.. even when i ask if i can have him over.. i still don't tell them he's my man.. lol.. I am a sneeky little girl though!!

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okay so yea my andmyboyfriend are goin to exchage christmas presents this year but i have no idea wut to get him. im thinkin about like taking him to the mall and hint him on to wut i want.. lol but everytime i ask him wut he wants hes just like "baby your everything i ever want" or like he says "well i have eerything i want" and stuff like that but i really wanna gt him a present and i knoe he wants somthing lol but he is just shy to say wut he wants so please help he is a 14 yearold guy plays football,basketball, wrestling, and track. but dont tell me to get him a football or any other sports equipment. i wanna get him sumthing that will be really sweet.

well since he plays all those sports he probably dresses like a preppy guy.. try going to hollister.. abercrombie.. or american eagle.. and get him like a cute sweater or shirt or something.. go to like a pharmacy and there's these kodak picture things where you can like.. take a picture of you and your man to the store.. scan it into the kodak picture thingy.. and you can put like cute backgrounds on the pic.. and give him a pic of you and him.. *i dont know if you understood what i just said.. but.. i hope you do.. lol it's really cool!* maybe try getting him like.. a necklace with a football on it.. *gold necklace* or like a basketball.. or a gold necklace with one of his sports numbers on it.. preferibly his favorite sport *i would use that number*

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ok i have a boyfriend that i am in love with but when he is around his friends he acts like we are not even going out. i love him and i know he feels the same way and i dont want to break up so what can i do?

ask your boyfriend why he acts this way when he's around his friends.. tell him that you feel like he's ashamed to be with you in front of his "dudes" and just be like.. i hate it when you act like that.. do you want to be with me? and tell him you don't want to break up.. but you want to know what's going on.. tell him that all your other friend's boyfriends love on them around their friends.. and ur just wondering why he doesn't do that to you.

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one of my really good guy friends is being a jerk, because i just met a guy from a different school and i think hes jealous but anyways i asked him why he was mad cause i didnt know for sure and he said don't talk to me..actually do better then that stop breathing, i cant believe you haven't already and i was like okay..and my friend kneed him through a bus seat after he said that and he said hey lesbians get a room and he was being the biggest dickhead ever and then he said i was ugly even though he said that i was extremely pretty a week ago and he also said when i was talking to another guy he said to teh other guy..hey broz before prudes and hes been like that for like 2 days..what could i say to him??

you need to go up to him and be like.. dude.. do you like me or something because ever since i started talking to this guy.. you've turned into a TOTAL DICK HEAD!! and be like.. your one of my good friends and I don't wanna lose you over another guy.. if you like me.. you need to tell me.. and i think it's totally wrong that your being such a jerk to me just because i like someone.. n so on..

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If you were a 16 almost 17 girl, (maybe some of you are haha) then what would your dream gift be to get from your boyfriend for Christmas? I am stuck on what to get my girlfriend for Christmas, please help! :)

Here's a few ideas.. of course.. girls love clothes! If she's a girly girl.. try getting her an outfit at Hollister.. American Eagle.. or Abercrombie.. GIRLS LOOOVE THOSE STORES!! If she has any piercings get her some rings.. (belly button rings.. tongue rings.. earrings.. ect..) Girls also love stuffed animals so we can sleep with them and think of our man's at night.. because you know.. it's the.. my man got me this teddie bear so i'm gunna hug him and squeeze him all night because i love my man soo much kinda thing.. lol.. we looove body sprays.. pick one out that you really like the smell of.. trust me.. she would wear it all the time.. especially if you liked it.. *at least that's what i would do* Rings are also a nice thing too! Try taking her out ontop of all the presents too.. like to the movies or out to dinner.. Hope I helped!

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Okay heres the thing i like this guy A LOT and were close friends and the other night he told me that he likes me too..which made me happy but the thing is right now we cant date because 3 of his best friends ( theyre girls ) like him and it would hurt them and start A LOT of drama...but he told me " i need u right here now i need u right now more than ever" and he told me i make him happy but its real hard ...and i dont know if he wants me to wait until everything cools down with his friends or should i try moving on n puttin interest in someone else....because i mean we both like eachother and we have chemistry....so what should i do!?

Tell him straight up.. be like.. do you think those girls are gunna stop liking you? Because we all know.. they aren't going to stop.. so tell him.. if he really cares about you and wants to be with you.. he will take the chance of hurting those girls.. if he didn't have feelings for them then he wouldn't care to ask you out.. Just like.. lay it all out on him lol.. Uhm.. Those girls will eventually get over it.. and if they aren't your friends.. who cares? And if they are his friends.. i KNOW they will still continue to talk to him.. I mean.. all girls do don't they? LOL! Hope I helped! If you need any more advice! IM me!! I'm constantly online! hehe

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okay so i always fall for the "bad boys" but this time i like one of my old best friends, but the problem is he is a jerk, unreliable, and a stoner..... and like i dont know what to do, because we dont talk all that much anymore b/c he has a different group of friends than i do.. he liked me all of last year but i always said no when he asked me out because i didnt agree with him about the whole drug thing, and now i've realised that i liked him the whole time and still do and hes found another girlfriend and im just like.... sad. iono. should i tell him how i feel or not? i dont want to ruin his relationship.. sorry if thats kind of long

babe.. you should not even try talking to him again.. you don't need a stoner loser boyfriend.. there are soo many guys out there.. ohhh my gosh.. i always fell for the stoner bad ass guys too lol.. and i got hurt like.. 20 thousand times! ugh it sucked.. find someone that will treat you right and that isn't a loser.. YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS hehe.. I hope I helped yah a lil.. if you need anymore advice.. IM me.. my screen name is on my page! Good Luck!

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yah i really dont know what to do anymore i swear my boyfriend is going nuts on me. just because i dont tell him what is wrong. i mean i cant tell him my feelings he has to go all pyscho on me. i dont like it i dont know what to do. plz help me.

I think that you shouldn't have a problem telling your boyfriend what is wrong with you. If you are together that is one of the things you share. You and your boyfriend should both WANT to tell eachother everything.. that's what makes a relationship a lot stronger.. at least this is what I believe.. try telling him more things about you.. if you tell him everything.. it's like.. he's your best friend.. and that makes a relationship so much more funner!! hehe..

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ok so im a female 14years old im in eight grade and i guees alot of guys find me really attractive well etleast thats what they all say and so i go out with guys alot liek last time i went out with anyone was like 4 days a go and now i want to go out again with different guy but the problem is that there is 6 guys who like me and i flirt with all of them and stuff and like i flirt with like alot of guys but i mean every girl does at some point but i dont think guys like that much so sometimes i lose them bacause of that but like i think i was born to flirt with guys so am i really that bad or am not the only one who does it and is there anything i should change?

definitely stick to one guy otherwise your gunna get the reputation that your a SLUT and that your easy which means.. ANY GUY can get you!! Going out with a guy for like 1 week breaking up and having a new boyfriend 4 days later.. spells out SLUT to me

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last monday i told my boyfriend that i was running away. (it was a joke) i didnt tell him that it was a joke until tuesday morning. he got all mad at me and ended up breaking up w/ me over it. Now he wont talk to me or even walk past me. i have last hour w/ him (he sits in front of me) what should i do? talk to him or wait until he talks to me?

talk to him n tell him u were jkin! thats what u should of done a long time ago babe!

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Okay, so there's this guy. We're sort of friends, but there's complicated issues between us. A while back, like in May/June, I liked him and he liked me, but we never went out or anything. Because of certain reasons I'm not willing to explain. Anyway, I've gotten over him and I really like this other guy. But whenever I talk to or see the guy I used to like (we'll call him Bob), I usually get butterflies in my stomach and get kind of nervous. Yet that doesn't happen when I'm around the guy I like now. And I really like this guy, I do not like Bob. Seriously, I am being honest with myself. But then how come I always get butterflies in my stomach when I'm around Bob? Does that mean I like him and I just can't seem to admit that to myself..? I seriously don't think I like him though. Arrgh, I don't know. The thing is, I don't even have a reason to like him. So what's the deal here??!!!

well babe.. i know what ur feeling cuz that used to happen to me all the time.. no u don't like him.. its just different for you bcuz ur so used to liking him and yeah.. trust me.. u dont like him.. go for that other guy.. just ignore the butterflies.. lol srry i didnt give real good advice to u i kinda got distracted! but yeah.. dont worry bout them butterflies.. they don't mean n e thing.. u just still have a few feelings for him that need to be forgotten..

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Yeah so I like this guy and ya I don't know him and I really want to get to know him. I am good friends with his best friend but his best friend wont help me at all bc I think he likes me. I really want the guy I like to like me....not his best friend. I really want to freakin meet him! But nooooo his best friend won't introduce us...and its buggin me. I dont want to tell his best friend "oh you wont introduce me or set me up beacause you like me"...that'd be kind of odd. HELP! What do I do to get introduced to him? His best friend is the only one of this guy's friends that I know!

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~Needs Help

ask the dude u like.. to hang out with you so u can meet.. how do u like him if uve never met before?

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there is a guy that i have known for almost 6 years. I love him to death. Litterally. I cant stand it when I'm not around him. But the thing is. He thinks I cheated on him the last time we went out by sitting on my ex bfs lap. and he thinks that I kissed him because thats what he was told by my evil brother and parents. He doesn't trust me now and I can't get his trust back. I seriously can't stand it anymore. I'm like, about ready to cry just writing this. I love everything about him, the way he laughs, the way he smiles, his sense of humor...just..everything. And I want him back so bad. I can't stand waiting anymore. I have been waiting for a couple of months, waiting and trying my best to get his trust back. It isnt working and I cant stand it! I went out with this other guy to get over him and it didn't work. I can't just forget him because its hard with how long i've known him. and his sister is my best friend. He has me wrapped around his finger. I will do anything and everything he asks for. (not sex tho but he doesnt want that anyway) He doesn't tell me to do stuff and he doesnt know how wrapped up he has me. I'm in love with him but it doesnt matter to him. or anyone else. I'm the only one who cares how bad I have it for him. I have everything he has ever given me, all the notes, all the presents, the pictures, the memories. Its been a couple of months and I still remember what his kiss feels like, I remember how he used to rub my side when he held me. just, everything. how can i get him to trust me again and get him back............fast. or at least kinda fast.

u've got to talk to your parents and brother and get them to tell ur man that none of that stuff was true.. if it wasnt true.. why would ur brother and parents tell him that? just wondering.

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