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what does he want me to do?
Okay heres the thing i like this guy A LOT and were close friends and the other night he told me that he likes me too..which made me happy but the thing is right now we cant date because 3 of his best friends ( theyre girls ) like him and it would hurt them and start A LOT of drama...but he told me " i need u right here now i need u right now more than ever" and he told me i make him happy but its real hard ...and i dont know if he wants me to wait until everything cools down with his friends or should i try moving on n puttin interest in someone else....because i mean we both like eachother and we have chemistry....so what should i do!?
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Are you friends with those girls?If you are let him go,find some1 else.If you aren't friends with them GO FOR IT!Take a risk,take that chance.Because someday you won't have that choice because he will be gone!Hope i helped
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just... date him... how often do you have that kind of connection with someone? how often do guys say those kind of things to you?
the other girls will get over it. they don't really have a choice. if you want to be with him, don't put unnecessary strain on the relationship by delaying it. follow your heart instead of thinking logically about what 'should' be done. that doesn't matter. what matters is that you're both happy.
talk to the other girls if you need to. besides, you're the one he's chosen, they need to accept that
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Ok, heres what i would do. Date him, from what it seems like hes sincere. Now about those girls, talk to em, set it straight that your his girl and you dont really appreciate how they hang all over him or stare at him or whatever they do with their little crushes. If they do interfere with you two, raise some hell, lol. I hope this helps.
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OK well Dear "what does he want me to do"
Let things go for a little while and see how everything goes chances are you's will get together when everything cools down. But dont loose interest and make sure u keep in touch with him or he'll think that he scared you away.
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Tell him straight up.. be like.. do you think those girls are gunna stop liking you? Because we all know.. they aren't going to stop.. so tell him.. if he really cares about you and wants to be with you.. he will take the chance of hurting those girls.. if he didn't have feelings for them then he wouldn't care to ask you out.. Just like.. lay it all out on him lol.. Uhm.. Those girls will eventually get over it.. and if they aren't your friends.. who cares? And if they are his friends.. i KNOW they will still continue to talk to him.. I mean.. all girls do don't they? LOL! Hope I helped! If you need any more advice! IM me!! I'm constantly online! hehe
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If he's not dating them, why shouldn't he date you? They can get over jealousy. It sounds to me like he wants to keep HIS options open. I suggest you do the same instead of waiting around for this guy.
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I think you should wait for the drama with his friends to cool down. Girls can get catty so it's better to slowly let them get used to the idea instead of all of a sudden going with him. I mean you can still be with him, just don't be snobby and in their face about it. Besides, if you guys like each other I don't see why you should move on. It would probably end up hurting both of you.
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umm go for it? its not like theyre your friends to ..theyre his fireends and they can be mad at him all they want and be jelouse and envious of you all they want but rhar shouldnt stop you. Its you and him not you him and the world .be selfish for once and make yoruself happy
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Well if he really liked you, he wouldn't care what his friends thought. Your friends do not have to like or agree who you go out with and are just clouded by a jealousy complex because your the girl he wants. It sounds like hes letting them get in the way of your relationship or the start of it and I think you should tell him how you feel. If he's going to let these other girls stand in the way of him getting with you... then think to yourself.. is he worth it?. You shouldnt have to sit around forever waiting to see what hes gonna do if you can find someone who would want to be with you regardless of thier friends. Well good luck with everything.
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