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yah i dont kno what to do...i dont kno what to do
yah i really dont know what to do anymore i swear my boyfriend is going nuts on me. just because i dont tell him what is wrong. i mean i cant tell him my feelings he has to go all pyscho on me. i dont like it i dont know what to do. plz help me.
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Okay firstly- he should respect you and not go nuts but thats hard sometimes.
When you don't tell him something he will think firstly why? Why won't you tell him, I mean he is your boyfriend and pretty close to you so why won't you tell him. So he has two conclusions- as most guys do *sigh
A) you are hiding something from him- which hurts him and makes him wonder
or
B) you don't trust him- which hurts him as well
So basically when he goes nuts it does make sense in a weird way don't it. Firstly if you aren't going to tell him- tell him why and ease his mind.
You should also ask yourself why you aren't telling him, why don't you trust him. Trust is a very important part in the relationship and if you don't trust him enough to tell him your feelings then the relationship could be headed for rocky ground
good luck
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Just tell him how you feel, but keep anything u dont want to reveal to yourself. Hope it works out!
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tell him that although you are going out.. there are sum things u want to keep to urself *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi
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Tell him you can keep somethings to yourself. If theres stuff on your mind about him then you should let him know instead of keeping it all bottled up.
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Well he cares for you! And if hes your boyfriend you should be able to tell him your feelings without feeling stupid,or embarrised! If he literally gos pyscho and starts hitting you or is being verbily abusive, break up with him! Hope i helped
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although you are in a relationship, you don't have to tell him things if you don't want to. let him know that. tell him it's not something your comfortable talking to him about, and when you feel right, you'll tell him what's wrong, if you even want to tell him. hope i've helped.
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I think that you shouldn't have a problem telling your boyfriend what is wrong with you. If you are together that is one of the things you share. You and your boyfriend should both WANT to tell eachother everything.. that's what makes a relationship a lot stronger.. at least this is what I believe.. try telling him more things about you.. if you tell him everything.. it's like.. he's your best friend.. and that makes a relationship so much more funner!! hehe..
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If you cant open up to him and he dosnt respect ur space than hes not worth it!
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My b/f was like that... i just told him it doesnt matter myob. I mean if he doesn't respect your space he's not worht it but maybe hes just concerned about you.
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i can understand why your boyfriend would be a little upset with you for not sharing your problems, but he does have to respect your privacy. one of the best advantages of having someone who cares about you in the way that a boyfriend often does is to have the security of knowing that someone's always there for you unconditionally, and will listen to your problems and help you through them, without judging you. if you feel like you can't tell him your feelings, then maybe you should reconsider your relationship with him, because you guys should be able to be open to each other. sit down with him and talk to him to figure out why he's going all psycho on you, and then maybe you guys can try and work something out. best of luck.
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